FabSwingers.com forum: Over 60s

By *ip7 OP Man
over a year ago

caister

We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

do we? Can't we all chat on here?

There have been a few threads saying similar but I have noticed that nobody actually communicates on them, they all say "I'm over 60" or "we're in" then that's it. Of course it might be that nobody on these threads wants to chat to us but I honestly think that if people want to chat they will contact you anyway

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I like mature woman but I don't know if I'd qualify to chat in the group since I'm under 60 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, so I wouldn't be allowed in while husband would

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I like mature woman but I don't know if I'd qualify to chat in the group since I'm under 60 lol"

That's the problem with groups for a specific age

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh, so I wouldn't be allowed in while husband would

Mrs"

It's a problem with groups targeted at specific ages

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I'm an old geezer and generally have met ladies in their 40s but would be thrilled to hear from ladies/couples of the older persuasion?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm an old geezer and generally have met ladies in their 40s but would be thrilled to hear from ladies/couples of the older persuasion?

If you're an old geezer God help to us!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m old

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I’m old

No, I don't think so.....

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By *revor1940Man
over a year ago

Near Haverfordwest

Being 78 then it seems I am off the scale. Trouble is my cock does not understand.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I’m old

No, I don't think so....."

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By *obertjMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

mine has the same issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would exclude my Mrs.given her age and might even exclude me at a mere 60 years old.

However, who are we to criticise?

Such a group might turn out to be a good thing.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Given that I am one of the older males on this site I cannot see any benefits if of having an over 60s group,

I much prefer just doing my own thing, having the odd meets and staying under the radar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like and get along with people of all ages, when I turned 50 the door was closed to many people on here with filters, having a group with filters just closes the gap again. Just my opinion

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I like and get along with people of all ages, when I turned 50 the door was closed to many people on here with filters, having a group with filters just closes the gap again. Just my opinion "

If a group is established for over 60s I'm guessing that the only people who would join are those interested in that she group specifically. I think if a thread was started on fab (inviting anyone to a group off fab is against forum rules) for people over 60 to get to know one another of might be useful but I suspect it would go the same way as this one, nobody really communicating with each other.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

*age group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True Nicecouple561

Even if there were such a group I still would like to socialise with the group at some point and we’re all over the country, do you find knowing someone in person enhances the online friendship another notch

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"True Nicecouple561

Yes we do. As I've said on another thread we communicate quite regularly with some people we'll probably never meet and some people we have. It's rare that anybody is happy to just socialise though which is a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sure is, I wonder if why some people don’t show up, they “think” that they person they are meeting will want more there and then

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

To be honest I very rarely meet people in my age group ... not saying I wouldn’t but I definitely prefer younger males xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It sure is, I wonder if why some people don’t show up, they “think” that they person they are meeting will want more there and then"

In our experience the majority of people understand that socials are just that, only three so far haven't. However we explain on our profile and in messages that our first meeting will be purely social and never meet anybody who asks for "a social, maybe more" the pressure is applied before we even arrive.

We would love to have a few friends we could meet for drinks etc. chat and laugh without worrying about talking openly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"To be honest I very rarely meet people in my age group ... not saying I wouldn’t but I definitely prefer younger males xx"

An over 60s group wouldn't be your sort of thing then

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By *OM-ALMan
over a year ago

warrington

From my experience older women just seem to want to meet young guys, maybe an ego thing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"From my experience older women just seem to want to meet young guys, maybe an ego thing

You think!?

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By *OM-ALMan
over a year ago

warrington

It's a generalisation but yes i do. Have you tried munches as a social gathering ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's a generalisation but yes i do. Have you tried munches as a social gathering ?"

Yes, we've been to many social gatherings and munches.

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By *OM-ALMan
over a year ago

warrington

What about clubs ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What about clubs ?"

We sometimes go to Eureka or Silverleigh in the day.

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By *OM-ALMan
over a year ago

warrington

Are they local to you, i was born in Chatham but not been down that way in a long time ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Are they local to you, i was born in Chatham but not been down that way in a long time ?"

Not really, quite a drive but there's nothing closer other than Bristol Gardens.

We'd like to establish something more intimate with people though

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By *OM-ALMan
over a year ago

warrington

We have a Eurekas up here which i intend going to. Went to my first club a couple of weeks back and quite enjoyed it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have a Eurekas up here which i intend going to. Went to my first club a couple of weeks back and quite enjoyed it

We enjoy it in the day swimming and walking around naked is so liberating as is having sex in public or private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sure is, I wonder if why some people don’t show up, they “think” that they person they are meeting will want more there and then

We would love to have a few friends we could meet for drinks etc. chat and laugh without worrying about talking openly."

Very true indeed

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By *OM-ALMan
over a year ago

warrington

I had my first ever experience being watched last week and loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever

Im happy for non-specific age groups. If anything its better to focus on preference groups e.g. voyeurism or BDSM or daytime meets etc, rather than catagorise by age group. Besides, and I guess its more prevalent in clubs rather than meets, many older play with younger and vice versa where theres a common interest.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever

Im too young. God i never thought i would say that on here

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

Presumably it's OK to join if you enjoy the company of over 60s, rather than just being over 60?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever

Im too young. God i never thought i would say that on here"

I long for the days of being 54

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"From my experience older women just seem to want to meet young guys, maybe an ego thing

Not an ego thing at all I Enjoy their company ... I have met men my age but it’s just my

Preference

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever

Im too young. God i never thought i would say that on here

I long for the days of being 54

Sadly they dont last for ever. Soon i will be 55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good suggestion...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

A Silver Social? For the over 60s and there admirers?

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

For guys like me aged 60 and not part of a couple, the site is difficult. No messages returned etc etc, and I’m a social kind of guy and easy to get along with. I find it much easier in clubs and get along fine with lots of people.

So on that basis, knowing that there’s a specific group of people to whom my age isn’t an issue would be handy....looks and general attractiveness are a different thing but at least you can not worry about the filtering out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever

We agree.

Type of play be it kink. Bdsm. Group etc make sense. We like around our age. A little younger sometimes or a little older. But I played with an older lady the other week and we both had fun.

Himself came back and saw two tired but happy ladies.

So age isn’t a discriminator it’s likes and attitude.

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