FabSwingers.com forum: Why just why

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been chatting to someone for a week every day I would wake up to a lovely message from him sent almost 300 messages then the last couple of days we have been getting flirty for him to block me.

Why do people do this? I don't understand how people can be so rude if they don't want to chat just say

Sorry rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"His loss!"

Sure is

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Have you done any sex chat? Few, not all, go cold after they've had their kicks x

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By *eeman1000Man
over a year ago

durham

The old cum and run technique!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes we have had a few flirty messages over the past couple of days

He's most probably got what he wanted and ran

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Wank fodder. Fun of the chase. Reality bites... Partnered? Someone else found instead? Too much, too soon, backs off as he can't cope or has gained satisfaction? Lack of respect for others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same, great chat with a lady in a similar arrangement. Went from pleasent to flirty almost to the point of agreeing coffee for a social. Then blocked for no reason. Heyho I say and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had the same, great chat with a lady in a similar arrangement. Went from pleasent to flirty almost to the point of agreeing coffee for a social. Then blocked for no reason. Heyho I say and move on

It's so annoying meh I will get over it and I will be moving on

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I never do sex talk, if they want that there are the chat rooms.

If they are actually wanting to meet, I generally expect to agree if this is likely early on.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Yes we have had a few flirty messages over the past couple of days

He's most probably got what he wanted and ran

Probably some filthy old geezar having a wank over the sexual content. I do not give any details of what i like until i have met someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had the same, great chat with a lady in a similar arrangement. Went from pleasent to flirty almost to the point of agreeing coffee for a social. Then blocked for no reason. Heyho I say and move on

It's so annoying meh I will get over it and I will be moving on "

Aye, alas that’s sad times, you’ve got to have some good banter and go from there.... his loss though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never do sex talk, if they want that there are the chat rooms.

If they are actually wanting to meet, I generally expect to agree if this is likely early on."

That's the thing we said that we would meet for a social and if we got on well who knows I obviously either scared him or he got his fix

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes we have had a few flirty messages over the past couple of days

He's most probably got what he wanted and ran

Probably some filthy old geezar having a wank over the sexual content. I do not give any details of what i like until i have met someone."

I won't be giving anything away again I have learnt my lesson

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Because he wanted a bit of wank chat and you gave it to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had the same, great chat with a lady in a similar arrangement. Went from pleasent to flirty almost to the point of agreeing coffee for a social. Then blocked for no reason. Heyho I say and move on

It's so annoying meh I will get over it and I will be moving on

That's the best way to be, I just move on and chat to another. You wont have any problem chatting to another guy "

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Maybe he got cold feet, maybe you said something that didn’t sit well with him... maybe it was for a hundred other reasons that you’ll never know. Anyway, it’s not worth the time wondering about it so chin up and onto the next.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Yes we have had a few flirty messages over the past couple of days

He's most probably got what he wanted and ran

Probably some filthy old geezar having a wank over the sexual content. I do not give any details of what i like until i have met someone.

I won't be giving anything away again I have learnt my lesson"

Don’t let that put you off OP. It’s just unfortunate it’s sometimes the nature of this place. And by the looks of it definitely definitely his loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes we have had a few flirty messages over the past couple of days

He's most probably got what he wanted and ran

Probably some filthy old geezar having a wank over the sexual content. I do not give any details of what i like until i have met someone.

I won't be giving anything away again I have learnt my lesson

Don’t let that put you off OP. It’s just unfortunate it’s sometimes the nature of this place. And by the looks of it definitely definitely his loss

Oh don't worry he's not put me off how he was I honestly thought he was genuine oh well you live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even better I have just been blocked for doing nothing, viewed a profile and didn't match the criteria so left it. Now i have been blocked WTF pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is my world!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

300 messages in a week? Fucking hell!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Even better I have just been blocked for doing nothing, viewed a profile and didn't match the criteria so left it. Now i have been blocked WTF pmsl

I really don't understand what's wrong with some people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"300 messages in a week? Fucking hell!!!! "

Exactly that's why I thought he was genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even better I have just been blocked for doing nothing, viewed a profile and didn't match the criteria so left it. Now i have been blocked WTF pmsl

I really don't understand what's wrong with some people"

Basic manners costs nothing in my head. I fully respect any decision as I am a gentleman. But I guess we are all different lol

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Yes we have had a few flirty messages over the past couple of days

He's most probably got what he wanted and ran

Probably some filthy old geezar having a wank over the sexual content. I do not give any details of what i like until i have met someone.

I won't be giving anything away again I have learnt my lesson

Don’t let that put you off OP. It’s just unfortunate it’s sometimes the nature of this place. And by the looks of it definitely definitely his loss

Oh don't worry he's not put me off how he was I honestly thought he was genuine oh well you live and learn "

Probably too much for him OP. Just think of it this way. Look at us guys on here.not trying to play the sympathy card. but we get it all the time.me included. Don’t even have a chance for a cup of tea

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I haven't had a message from anyone and he is a very lucky guy to have a lovely lady who is interested in him don't know where I'm going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been chatting to someone for a week every day I would wake up to a lovely message from him sent almost 300 messages then the last couple of days we have been getting flirty for him to block me.

Why do people do this? I don't understand how people can be so rude if they don't want to chat just say

Sorry rant over "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had you arranged a meet? If not he probably got bored and moved on.

You loss or his loss? Neither. Just forget and move on x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"300 messages in a week? Fucking hell!!!!

Exactly that's why I thought he was genuine "

Wow 42 messages a day... sorry u got let down... no legislating for tossers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are complicated. Even on here!

I was abruptly blocked by someone I was very fond of. It really can hurt.

I think, in hindsight, they had a lot of pressure in their lives I wasn't aware of.

Most of the time it's difficult to know someone's peripheral life as well and as quickly as you might get to know their innermost personal self on here.

And that other stuff.. The life stuff.. That can shut your new friendship down in the blink of an eye.

It's not always fair.

Try to move on and be as pragmatic as possible. Xxx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"300 messages in a week? Fucking hell!!!!

Exactly that's why I thought he was genuine "

Tbh if I'm messaging someone and he seems to fit what I'm looking for I'd expect one of us to talk about actually meeting up for a social way before exchanging no where near that amount of messages!

Anyway lesson learnt perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never do sex talk, if they want that there are the chat rooms.

If they are actually wanting to meet, I generally expect to agree if this is likely early on."

This in a nutshell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have had a few flirty messages over the past couple of days

He's most probably got what he wanted and ran

Probably some filthy old geezar having a wank over the sexual content. I do not give any details of what i like until i have met someone."

YEP!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. I'd been chatting to someone for a couple of years pretty much daily only for him to suddenly disappear without explanation. Meh. It's the nature of the internet. Deal with it. Don't invest heavily in those you haven't actually met, would be my advice.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It’s most likely

Oh crap how will he explain it to his wife.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

His mam probably confiscated his phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When things like this happen to me I just think of Jeffrey Lebowski.

"fuck it Dude. Let's go bowling"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there an old saying keep em mean to keep em keen I (mrs) don't give anything sexual away if they want that then they have to be who and what I want to meet to find out and 300 message's in a few days ??? jeeze id run a mile if there no click in the first 10 to 20 message's then its bye bye this applys to this ancount and my more busy singles account....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using it as wank fodder, probably get a greater sexual thrill from the chat than the would from the real time sex act.

Or photo collectors, once they have your face pic, game over then they block you.

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