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"Maybe do a forum search for "cuck". ![]() I could do that but were not in a cuck relationship. My questions were more geared towards how the dynamic may change. But also if there have been issues along the way with partner getting jealous etc | |||
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"So do you watch or have no interaction?" Nothing at all apart from being told. I know I'm being very specific but figured some couples may have experience | |||
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"It's how we roll. Mr M only plays with me." get in the bowl ![]() | |||
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"I play but hubby doesn't. We started this way as he has performance issues so after very little sex in 2 years we talked about our options. He doesn't want to see anyone about it so we decided I can play. Jealously is not an issue. " This sort of dynamic interests me. Similar to my situation but I get plenty from my partner I'm clearly just greedy. It's great that he is happy with you playing | |||
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"Thanks for everyone's experiences so far. A little more about the situation here. My wife would is considering playing, initially with a woman and going from there. We have no intention of me being involved at all at present and she's not sure she would ever be happy to share me (maybe hypocrisy but I'm happy). Her main issue is if any resentment sets in and how we deal with that if she still doesn't want me to play." I understand her concern. My husband was absolutely adamant he would never want to play with anyone else but that changed. | |||
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"Thanks for everyone's experiences so far. A little more about the situation here. My wife would is considering playing, initially with a woman and going from there. We have no intention of me being involved at all at present and she's not sure she would ever be happy to share me (maybe hypocrisy but I'm happy). Her main issue is if any resentment sets in and how we deal with that if she still doesn't want me to play. I understand her concern. My husband was absolutely adamant he would never want to play with anyone else but that changed. " I completely understand her concerns and right now have absolutely no desire to play. Who knows what will happen down the line though. | |||
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"Thanks for everyone's experiences so far. A little more about the situation here. My wife would is considering playing, initially with a woman and going from there. We have no intention of me being involved at all at present and she's not sure she would ever be happy to share me (maybe hypocrisy but I'm happy). Her main issue is if any resentment sets in and how we deal with that if she still doesn't want me to play." Talk.. always talk and make sure everyone is happy with the situation. I play but hubby doesn't. We do have a couple's account too. We spent around a year talking about absolutely every eventuality that could occur. He was clear from the start that our fab journey wasnt going to end in him wanting to meet women and I don't want him to either..he just wanted to watch me and another guy and maybe join in sometimes. But I worried that he would change his mind and it would make things difficult. After many many months alot talking and sleepless nights we decided to give it a go. Fast forward 18 months and I started a single account and I regularly see 1 guy who has now become part of us. Hubby asks for photos and videos during our time together and he's extremely happy. I constantly make sure that everything me and my other fella are doing he is happy with and it's working wonderfully. He still doesn't want to meet any other women after all this time. | |||
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"We are a couple where lady plays but Insists partner is there and also joins in. Mmf. Partner lives to watch his partner play with men. He has no desire to play with anyone other than her. She would not want him to play with anyone else owing to past relationships. It works. She gets to play with 2 guys. He gets turned on watching and joining in playing with her" We are very like this ,we share each other and the guy and hubby like to watch or help when i play with guy ,as long as he gets a little fun he says im the main event .... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thanks for everyone's experiences so far. A little more about the situation here. My wife would is considering playing, initially with a woman and going from there. We have no intention of me being involved at all at present and she's not sure she would ever be happy to share me (maybe hypocrisy but I'm happy). Her main issue is if any resentment sets in and how we deal with that if she still doesn't want me to play. I understand her concern. My husband was absolutely adamant he would never want to play with anyone else but that changed. I completely understand her concerns and right now have absolutely no desire to play. Who knows what will happen down the line though. " Surely you'd just go back to being monogamous at that point? Unless she decided she still wants to fuck around and then you'd maybe have to split if you weren't happy with that. | |||
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"This post I've found really interesting. Ive often wondered if I could be happy with a partner having sex with others. I realise from some replies it does depend on certain situations, but some also echo some uncertainty which I could relate I realised (hypocritically) although id love the idea of getting my end away with others if I were in a relationship, I know id definitely be very uncomfortable and insecure about my partner doing the same. Different strokes for different folks of course, but for me personally knowing someone i love is sleeping with others, would just kill me. I just wouldn't want to share. So in that case I wouldn't want to get involved with anyone who'd want that. I'm definitely not against it, as I've met people who do it and am always in admiration about it. I have often fantasised about it if I were attached, so I'd love to be cool with it, but in reality I just couldn't. I'm single and enjoying that for now. That's why I'm on here to explore freely my sexual side, bit only till I'm smitten and got it out of my system. Full respect to couples who can be so comfortable with it, make me feel well old fashioned and boring ![]() I don't think you're old fashioned or boring. Swinging doesn't work for everyone. It doesn't make you a bad person, no matter what some people on here say. There's nothing wrong with monogamy. | |||
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