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Is being nice wrong?

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By *eyFife2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

St. Andrews

Hi Folks

Love sex but i am not a hardcore swinger (quality over quantity) and it seems being nice,genuine doesn't seem attributes that are well received? Like in politics now(sorry) it seems the "loudmouthy" guys seem to be much more desirable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Folks

Love sex but i am not a hardcore swinger (quality over quantity) and it seems being nice,genuine doesn't seem attributes that are well received? Like in politics now(sorry) it seems the "loudmouthy" guys seem to be much more desirable? "

How did you determine that?

With what evidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loudmouths exude confidence.

This is considered attractive.

In politics people can be homophobic, sexist and two-faced.

Those characteristics are less welcome here.

But Whorses for courses.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I like nice.....shame you don't live down south...don't like cocky men .....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Youve only been here 2 weeks and had a meet thats pretty good going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Folks

Love sex but i am not a hardcore swinger (quality over quantity) and it seems being nice,genuine doesn't seem attributes that are well received? Like in politics now(sorry) it seems the "loudmouthy" guys seem to be much more desirable? "

there you go

one meet and your smitten but being negative about being nice and genuine

it works both ways

been on the end of too many guys who think with a dick and act like one ...

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Being nice is nice , what more could you ask for , ,

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

OP, who do you consider to be "hardened swingers" who choose quantity over quality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Folks

Love sex but i am not a hardcore swinger (quality over quantity) and it seems being nice,genuine doesn't seem attributes that are well received? Like in politics now(sorry) it seems the "loudmouthy" guys seem to be much more desirable? "

I take it you mean "genuine" loudmouthy guys?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Hi Folks

Love sex but i am not a hardcore swinger (quality over quantity) and it seems being nice,genuine doesn't seem attributes that are well received? Like in politics now(sorry) it seems the "loudmouthy" guys seem to be much more desirable? "

So 'hardcore swingers' prefer quantity? Thanks for letting me know.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s never hard to be nice but you could always add the little bit of sarcasm

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Nice does not mean sex or women are looking for nice guys. You can be assertive as a quote "nice" or "bad" guy.

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By *eyFife2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

St. Andrews

Hi

Difficult to correctly communicate outwith your native language so i rephrase - no offense intended by the way using"hardened swinger" just for me personally i prefer to meet more than once with the same person rather than have multiple one off meets, but thats just a personal preference and in no way disrespectful to the rest of the like minded community - i think respect, being kind can go well together with enjoying assertive sex - or?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Difficult to correctly communicate outwith your native language so i rephrase - no offense intended by the way using"hardened swinger" just for me personally i prefer to meet more than once with the same person rather than have multiple one off meets, but thats just a personal preference and in no way disrespectful to the rest of the like minded community - i think respect, being kind can go well together with enjoying assertive sex - or?"

Perhaps you need to stop worrying about how others swing and focus on finding what you enjoy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Folks

Love sex but i am not a hardcore swinger (quality over quantity) and it seems being nice,genuine doesn't seem attributes that are well received? Like in politics now(sorry) it seems the "loudmouthy" guys seem to be much more desirable? "

Not necessarily a loudmouth, but confidence and swagger are important. If you're assertive it goes a long way, nobody likes a pansy!

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

You should always be nice!

Until it's time not to be nice!

Words to live by.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi

Difficult to correctly communicate outwith your native language so i rephrase - no offense intended by the way using"hardened swinger" just for me personally i prefer to meet more than once with the same person rather than have multiple one off meets, but thats just a personal preference and in no way disrespectful to the rest of the like minded community - i think respect, being kind can go well together with enjoying assertive sex - or?"

Please use Reply+quote.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Just be yourself mate, and the people who like you for who you are, will come knocking

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By *niceguyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Never done me any harm!

As others have said, just be yourself is the best advice

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By *JsandstockingsCouple
over a year ago

warwickshire

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nice !

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