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By *ouMeHer-Lincs OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lincs - Leics - Notts Border

Hi fabbers x what is the best wide adjustable spreader bar for ankles and where did you get it from? xxx

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Hi fabbers x what is the best wide adjustable spreader bar for ankles and where did you get it from? xxx"

Love Honey sell an expandable one for £50,expands from 24" to 36".

Failing that an Acrow Prop from most reputable Builders Merchants

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By *ew swingers wxmCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

We bought an adjustable spreader bar from Lovehoney on one of their deals of the day last month and it is excellent. We had to buy the cuffs separately but wasn't an issue. Think we managed to pay less than £30 all in.

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By *ew swingers wxmCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Will send the link for what we purchased if interested x

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By *ew swingers wxmCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

We managed to get this one for £20 on offer

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29428

The cuffs in the image were £13 more.

The spreader bar is excellent though.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We made our own - back in the days when we had almost no money - using a steel tube and two dog collars. (we also made one for friends from a broom handle)

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

The love honey one looks very good

Look at a pair of small carabina's

To loop from decent cuffs to the rings on the bar .. less fiddling about when securing your sub!

And a little bit more intimidating.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset

Made our own from a section of cylindrical wood and some cuffs.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Ours is the LoveHoney one too. Just used voucher codes and offers to get it a bit cheaper

T xx

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By *ittleMissFozzieWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

Made my own, using a broom handle and several D rings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one from bondara which is a cheaper version of love honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made my own using 2" dowl and D rings but there aren't adjustable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check Amazon out lol... they do every thing cheap haha

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Uberkinky do a great selection. As is often the case you won’t find cheap and cheerful, but you get what you pay for, and there are often unique variants. https://www.uberkinky.co.uk/bondage-gear/restraints/spreader-bars.html

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We have spreaders made from tent poles. They fold small enough to fit into our swinging washbag

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My one came from Ebay of all places. Its perfect for me on my travels as I can fold it right down to fit in one of my fight cases full of fun.

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By *ouMeHer-Lincs OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lincs - Leics - Notts Border

Thankyou! Just bought one from UberKinky Not cheap but hey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made our own from a trip to B&Q.

1x shower curtain rail

1x length of chain (buy more than you need, you can always cut to right size)

Most expensive part was the the strap restraints which we got for a fair price from Bondora. Some good quality padlocks also work well attaching straps to chains

Tends to rattle a bit when used but still does the job

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Homemade Fetish Rules lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be attached to a spreader bar, but i am so clumsy i can see myself falling over and breaking my neck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I built my own. Along with a few other bondage tables and such.

It's much easier and more economical. The spreader bar is adjustable from 60 to 120 cm.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Amazed at how many people have made them. Fair play. Got ours from ebay but isn't that great. Bondara stuff is better.

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By * Star FilthMan
over a year ago

staplehurst


"I'd love to be attached to a spreader bar, but i am so clumsy i can see myself falling over and breaking my neck "

I'm happy to oblige and will make sure you don't fall over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to be attached to a spreader bar, but i am so clumsy i can see myself falling over and breaking my neck

I'm happy to oblige and will make sure you don't fall over "

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By *odd4funnMan
over a year ago

Walthamstow Leyton

Made myself as per a few of you broom handle hooks and cuffs Also added very strong supports to the ceiling and have hooks to hold up legs and arms with chains and cuffs works very well enhances the massage experience

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"I built my own. Along with a few other bondage tables and such.

It's much easier and more economical. The spreader bar is adjustable from 60 to 120 cm. "

Made all my own stuff from a nipple clamp to a St Andrews cross, a massage table from the local tip was converted into a bondage table, B @ Q good for ropes and chains, Too old for it all now.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

You can make really good lashes from rubber 'O ring' cord and a length of bamboo as handle....

Getting a bit like Blue Peter isn't it. Anyone use sticky back plastic?

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By *everlyandersonTV/TS
over a year ago

newcastle

wouldnt mind trying one of these one day

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

I’ve made quite a few for us and some friends.

Made them from carbon fibre tube, some are light for yokes and being high up. Some are weighted.

It’s fun making toys.

J x

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

You can borrow mine! lmao!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Made our own out of a broom handle and some eyelits that screw in each end all for less than £5!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi fabbers x what is the best wide adjustable spreader bar for ankles and where did you get it from? xxx

Love Honey sell an expandable one for £50,expands from 24" to 36".

Failing that an Acrow Prop from most reputable Builders Merchants "

That's a great little unit though definitely designed for those with thinner ankles

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We got ours from Bondara - I love the fact the cuffs are buckles and not Velcro.

Ms x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post, didn’t know so many in play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish got one on there only £15 and its spot on

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Not sure a home made one would have the right presence/effect. however what do I know.

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood


"Not sure a home made one would have the right presence/effect. however what do I know."

You are right!

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Made lots of different ones adjustabe.and curved for access but simplest is to use good tube with smoothed ends and thread a rope doubled up one end a loop othe end tied saves on cuffs better still use bunge and put the knot in.the.middle but beware to make it so it cant restrict blood flow etc

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Also.made flat padded ones as tube is murder on shins if also penetrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with an engineer and have been nagging him for a few years to make me a spreader bar.... "*hint* P"

I just love the thought of not being able to close my legs, I enjoy restriction. I also like the thought of being flipped over onto my tummy for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure a home made one would have the right presence/effect. however what do I know.

You are right! "

As with all things there is no right or wrong. All there is is is.

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By *rssexy mrbitvCouple
over a year ago

Antrim


"Also.made flat padded ones as tube is murder on shins if also penetrating"

Surely the bar should be over you shoulders lol

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"Also.made flat padded ones as tube is murder on shins if also penetrating

Surely the bar should be over you shoulders lol"

Panties and micro cage look lush xx

How long are you in chastity xx

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By *rssexy mrbitvCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

Thanks, HeShe here, Usually for 2/3 days before a meet and then a day or so after depending on how Mrssexy feels.

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