FabSwingers.com forum: Is she interested in huge cocks and how to make her comfortable enough to admit it??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, I have a regular FB, she says she isn't fucking anyone else and I trust her. She is very much into me.

I have an average size cock, in fact it is the perfect average, 6.1"x5.5".

I am the only guy that she has ever had an orgasm with and she says she loves my cock.

However, her last few X's were hung. 9.5" and thick and 8.5" and even thicker apparently! She has told me they used to dominate her and power fuck her. To the point she bled sometimes. She could take all of them happily without issues she says.

She has told me size doesn't matter and she can't really tell the difference. I honestly call bullshit lol.

We use a cocksleeve (8.5" length, 7" circumference) and a dildo (11" x 8.5")!

When I fuck her with the sleeve she is completely different, it's like she isn't in control of herself. She can take it all and after a brief warm up can take the hardest cervical destruction I can muster!

She can take about 8" of the dildo, that takes a bit longer to acclimatise to for her but she can take it pretty hard with that to!

She likes big cock porn and says she can imagine how it would feel inside her, full, stretched and a pleasurable pressure inside (is that what it's like ladies??)

I have said to her I would have loved to have seen her playing with her X's huge cocks, wanking and sucking them, then watching as her tight pussy stretches to accommodate their length and thickness.

She said she isn't keen. I said about finding a huge cock guy online to watch her playing with and getting ruined like I cannot do. Again she said no but was less against it than the suggestion of her X's.

Do you Girls think from your experience that she actually wants to play with and get fucked by a huge cock again and she is just saying No because she thinks she is protecting my feelings??

If so how do I go about getting her to realise that it is something I am happy with and would love to watch. Even better if the guy is bi, but then I would have to tell her that as well lol.

Any advice and stories of your experiences would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks, Conor xx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I think she's told you how she feels and you should accept that.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

hmmmm

I've had many, one in particular so thick I thought he would split me. By the end of the session I'd 'limbered' up and it wasn't a problem. However, because he internally bruised me I began to make excuses not to see him when he was in town.

Personally, if I was really into someone, I wouldn't care about his size, more about the mental connection.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I genuinely think she has already been honest and open with you by saying she has already tried big cocks, she likes big cocks but prefers something a little more manageable. It doesn't particularly matter what you THINK she likes. From what you have said she's already told you but you are trying to convince her otherwise just because it's something that you want to see. I might be wrong but that's my interpretation of what I have read. Mrs x

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

"I genuinely think she has already been honest and open with you by saying she has already tried big cocks, she likes big cocks but prefers something a little more manageable. It doesn't particularly matter what you THINK she likes. From what you have said she's already told you but you are trying to convince her otherwise just because it's something that you want to see. I might be wrong but that's my interpretation of what I have read. Mrs x"

I agree. If you keep pushing her, she may well decide that you're not as nice as she first thought. Shes being honest, accept it....

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

OP. If, as the those above say, she was satisfied with what you've got then she wouldn't be into using those toys you both play with.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

Satisfied but enjoying a bit of variety through playing with the toys. She sounds happy with that, it sounds as if you have a great connection going. Leave it there and don't push her to do something that she's not comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utterly ridiculous! why must using a bigger toy mean she is not satisfied? If she wasn't satisfied to some degree why would she go back as a regular FB?

Why not trust her that if she wants something or someone else she will tell you? You are on a swinging site so its kind of the theme after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women care about size less than men bother about the size of their own manhood...within reason of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women care about size less than men bother about the size of their own manhood...within reason of course "

Why have you done a poll ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was purely saying it seems to be more of an obsession to men than women rather than if he can use the instrument he has been given

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Be careful you don't end up pushing her to agree to something she doesn't really want.

I'd say the orgasm thing is more of a clue than anything else (apart from her actual words!) about what she really likes!

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"OP. If, as the those above say, she was satisfied with what you've got then she wouldn't be into using those toys you both play with. "

Hmmmm no don’t agree - the toys aren’t connected to 12-15st of muscle and man flesh! It does make a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, rather than trying to push your FB to do something she does not seem to be comfortable with, listen to her and appreciate what she is saying. Your ego should have already got very inflated by the fact that she admitted to only having orgasms with you, not with her very well endowed ex. Your cock (or your skills) must be great for her, as she is coming back to see you. So again, instead of trying to push her towards something she doesn't like, enjoy what you two have together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, sounds to me like this is more about what you want rather than your GF.

Your profile states you’ve got a good sized thick cock so I can’t see why you’d think you’re not big enough for her.

Or maybe you fantasise about sharing her with your VWE mate?

If she says she’s happy then leave it be.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Jesus. She said it’s not an issue. Believe her!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sounds like you are totally obsessed with it not her. You will turn her off by going on about it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Accept what she tells you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's lying. You will never satisfy her and she's gakimg...just give up!

Dude she has told you how she feels. Don't doubt her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please accept what she is saying xx looks like you are very lucky have gf like her who is into you x Those days is rare so please cheerisch

what you got x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lady said what she wants and doesn't want. I think she's been pretty clear.

On a side topic, I think guys are way more obsessed with big cocks than ladies. I'm told I'm vwe. I'm straight. Yet I get far more messages from men than women. And the men are more pushy about seeing my cock and asking how big it is.

Most women realise vwe will be painful. Most guys just think it'll look awesome lol.

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

My ex partner had some big cock issues as he was 6inch but for me the best man I ever had. WE split up cos of his insecurity in this subject. He thou I am into big cocks but true Was I could have it but wasn't the priority when we were swinging. So be gentle as your lady can give up on you

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