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Help please for 1st couple meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi fabbers! We are actively looking for our 1st couple meet. When we mention this, is it likely to put people off as other couples may be looking for more experienced people? Thanks x

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

No not at all. I would meet new people. As with everything there’s ones that will and ones that won’t xx

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

We were/are all newbies at some point!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We’ve all been there.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met a few newbies, sometimes we knew beforehand, sometimes we didn't. A heads up to the people you intend to meet will definitely make things easier for you on the day

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We much prefer nice personalities and someone we can click with rather than how experienced they are. I'm sure many couples feel the same way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Thanks everyone x"

Sadly your cut off age is 48!

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By *ornycpl2000Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

You have to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll be fine we all had our swinging L plates at one point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with a lot of things in life communication is always key.

Let potential meets know,if it puts them off,then they weren’t the right people for you to be meeting to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you won't have to much trouble. We've all been first timers at some point.

Enjoy it, your first time will stay with you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t put us off, we tend to have a relaxed attitude to play anyway as long as everything is agreed etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d meet a new couple, but I’d want a good chat about their expectations and boundaries first. I’ve spoken to a LOT of couples who really don’t seem to have thought through what they want and how it might make them feel. I don’t want to be stuck in the middle of an outbreak of insecurity or jealousy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a lot of new couples..also been first full swap for a few soft swap couples. We were all new once. Good luck

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech

We are happy to meet new people, our only stipulation is that they have the fab verified tick on their profile.

We found that club meets are far easier, as its neutral ground, and safe for everyone.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

New couple? Fresh meat? Nomnom

As others have said, most won’t have any issue, just make it clear what you’re into, boundaries, we’d aim to socialise down the pub first, have a flirt etc, have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been fortunate enough to be the first playtime for a few couples. So long as everyone knows where your boundaries are and to go slowly it should be fun.

But, make sure you're completely on the same page when you take that step, whether that's just some soft play first time or more.

M&Jxx

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We would meet new people as long as they're photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would meet new people we got on with and liked the look of x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 2 verification from meets

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"You have 2 verification from meets "

THIS!!

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Do you mean 1st sexual meet?

Youve obviously had meets before since you're verified (yes one is from a club night).

We're happy to meet first time couples and singles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have 2 verification from meets "
hi guys! We do indeed have 2 veries. One was having a chat with a couple & the other Mrs had some fun with the other fem but no males involved. Mrs has had a few bi adventures!

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

So what is it you're struggling with? I'm not sure I understand the post

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By *aisy6Woman
over a year ago

bath

No, new isn’t a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right understand the post now thanks for clearing that up

We will meet newbies but we know a lot on here won’t because of them being unsure about them being genuine

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

People quite rightly are sceptical on here due to so many fake profiles!!

I would say maybe go to a club and get meets under your belt.

Also if you've not played with couples before have a good long chat about your boundaries and what you will and wont be comfortable with. This bit is so important because theres nothing worse than couples who have no idea what they want and it makes the situation awkward.

We were newbies a year ago and went to a party. On the way there in the car we spoke about our rules. Which were basically in our case we didnt have any!! Just went with the flow and would mention anything we didnt like afterwards.

Turns out we don't have any rules and we're very comfortable swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good advice thanks xx

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