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"Really struggling here. I contact ladies in my age range, be polite, don't use text spelling and still get either one word messages back or a delete.. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated guys." Do you write to women that looking for someone like you? For me the profile got to be intriguing with decent photos. Friendly polite messages about my profile shows they read it and not just done copy and paste generic message | |||
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"Do you read and refer to their profile text? Are you what they're looking for, do you respect their wishes? It's still tough regardless, but that's how you give yourself your best shot. " All of the above. Not a hound, or pesterer. | |||
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"Really struggling here. I contact ladies in my age range, be polite, don't use text spelling and still get either one word messages back or a delete.. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated guys. Do you write to women that looking for someone like you? For me the profile got to be intriguing with decent photos. Friendly polite messages about my profile shows they read it and not just done copy and paste generic message " Definitely. Always polite, no other way to be. Certainly no cut an paste job from me. | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. " Thanks. I'll keep plodding along! | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. Thanks. I'll keep plodding along!" Remember women turn down on average 100 men a day so don't take it personally. You two weren't meant to be | |||
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"Really struggling here. I contact ladies in my age range, be polite, don't use text spelling and still get either one word messages back or a delete.. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated guys." The woman get loads of messages on this site as the men massively out number them, most of my messages get deleted without any response so not just you. | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. " After you've been on fab a few years like me the options start to get thin on the ground lol | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. Thanks. I'll keep plodding along! Remember women turn down on average 100 men a day so don't take it personally. You two weren't meant to be " Ohh the absolute horror of wading through "not applicable" suitors...it must be soul destroying knowing that there's 100's if not 1000's of blokes out there lusting after you. And the fellas (bless) keep banging their heads against that "compatible" wall....then.......one day ..the penny drops and that's where us girls step in. | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. Thanks. I'll keep plodding along! Remember women turn down on average 100 men a day so don't take it personally. You two weren't meant to be Ohh the absolute horror of wading through "not applicable" suitors...it must be soul destroying knowing that there's 100's if not 1000's of blokes out there lusting after you. And the fellas (bless) keep banging their heads against that "compatible" wall....then.......one day ..the penny drops and that's where us girls step in." I can imagine if the shoe was on the other foot and the guys were getting hundreds of emails a day the ladies wouldn't be too happy about it. Lol | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. Thanks. I'll keep plodding along! Remember women turn down on average 100 men a day so don't take it personally. You two weren't meant to be Ohh the absolute horror of wading through "not applicable" suitors...it must be soul destroying knowing that there's 100's if not 1000's of blokes out there lusting after you. And the fellas (bless) keep banging their heads against that "compatible" wall....then.......one day ..the penny drops and that's where us girls step in." Depending on the content of the messages, it can be pretty grim. | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. Thanks. I'll keep plodding along! Remember women turn down on average 100 men a day so don't take it personally. You two weren't meant to be Ohh the absolute horror of wading through "not applicable" suitors...it must be soul destroying knowing that there's 100's if not 1000's of blokes out there lusting after you. And the fellas (bless) keep banging their heads against that "compatible" wall....then.......one day ..the penny drops and that's where us girls step in."  | |||
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"Really struggling here. I contact ladies in my age range, be polite, don't use text spelling and still get either one word messages back or a delete.. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated guys." just be yourself for me a hi on its own does not cut it with me a first message of what you are going to me is a turn off and your profile has to be eye catching along with seeing your eyes not just a cock  | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. Thanks. I'll keep plodding along! Remember women turn down on average 100 men a day so don't take it personally. You two weren't meant to be Ohh the absolute horror of wading through "not applicable" suitors...it must be soul destroying knowing that there's 100's if not 1000's of blokes out there lusting after you. And the fellas (bless) keep banging their heads against that "compatible" wall....then.......one day ..the penny drops and that's where us girls step in." this OP | |||
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"Maybe they don't feel that spark with you. I know it's bum deal but there are 100's of others that you will ignite, keep going. Thanks. I'll keep plodding along! Remember women turn down on average 100 men a day so don't take it personally. You two weren't meant to be Ohh the absolute horror of wading through "not applicable" suitors...it must be soul destroying knowing that there's 100's if not 1000's of blokes out there lusting after you. And the fellas (bless) keep banging their heads against that "compatible" wall....then.......one day ..the penny drops and that's where us girls step in. I can imagine if the shoe was on the other foot and the guys were getting hundreds of emails a day the ladies wouldn't be too happy about it. Lol" fabswingers has got quiet these last few years ...I must be damn ugly | |||
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"Really struggling here. I contact ladies in my age range, be polite, don't use text spelling and still get either one word messages back or a delete.. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated guys. The woman get loads of messages on this site as the men massively out number them, most of my messages get deleted without any response so not just you. " I keep reading this but I definitely don’t get that amount. I really do think it’s down to filters and what you’re looking for, regarding messages. Or, I’m not attractive! Dunno. Maybe OP is looking for the same as all the other SM so it’s an increased competitive field. OP - a simple hi, a quick reference to the fabbers profile and a photo is enough for me. Even hi, is fine; if I’m attracted to you I’d message back. Good luck | |||
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"Really struggling here. I contact ladies in my age range, be polite, don't use text spelling and still get either one word messages back or a delete.. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated guys." The site is rubbish, in the sense that the mathematical odds are against you, for most single guys trying to meet women for nsa, or uncomplicated, sex. Accept that, or move on. Personally, I don't think it's worth the effort. Ironically, it's far easier to find the above on more mainstream dating sites. | |||
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"Really struggling here. I contact ladies in my age range, be polite, don't use text spelling and still get either one word messages back or a delete.. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated guys. The site is rubbish, in the sense that the mathematical odds are against you, for most single guys trying to meet women for nsa, or uncomplicated, sex. Accept that, or move on. Personally, I don't think it's worth the effort. Ironically, it's far easier to find the above on more mainstream dating sites. " Agree. At least with main stream sites you have more chance of finding someone your type and vice versa. Think fab need to start pumping ads out there to get more ladies to join. Think if they had a proper mobile app they would get more women join. | |||
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"Really struggling here. I contact ladies in my age range, be polite, don't use text spelling and still get either one word messages back or a delete.. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated guys. The site is rubbish, in the sense that the mathematical odds are against you, for most single guys trying to meet women for nsa, or uncomplicated, sex. Accept that, or move on. Personally, I don't think it's worth the effort. Ironically, it's far easier to find the above on more mainstream dating sites. Agree. At least with main stream sites you have more chance of finding someone your type and vice versa. Think fab need to start pumping ads out there to get more ladies to join. Think if they had a proper mobile app they would get more women join. " This is true. I did have much more success and fun on dating sites. Back to what works best from now on I think! | |||
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