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"Thanks - conveniently also on my route home. May be one to check in on one night and see what happens." Sorry, not used to forums. Forgot to quote @_oeofsussex | |||
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"Bugger... id have to get a husband for this" Well I need a wife for it so we cud help each other out x lol x | |||
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"This is one of our fantasy scenarios. get chatting to a handsom stranger in a bar who is staying in a local hotel for work or something. Flirty chat and some vino and - bham! It is actually how we entered the lifestyle. One NYE we ended up inviting a guy back to ours from a local bar that we had only met that evening. Then in the kitchen a bit tipsy he was invited upstairs. He completely freaked out but was a real gent and declined. We completely mis-read the situation lol. He thought he was coming back to our for a party. Still laugh about it now. " This would be a dream come true for me and he squandered it What a silly guy | |||
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"I have met a few hotwife couples from fab, but recently (whilst on a night out in Liverpool) bumped into a very friendly couple I suspected were swingers. Although it led to nothing, I had a lot of fun flirting with them and it got me wondering whether there were any common bars/pubs that hotwife couples visit to meet guys? Particularly in London. I realise the easiest way to meet other swingers is in a club but would love to know whether other couples enjoy visiting bars to meet guys and where I should look, or if it is easy enough for couples to just go anywhere? (Fab suggests single guys cannot be that hard to find)." | |||
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"I have met a few hotwife couples from fab, but recently (whilst on a night out in Liverpool) bumped into a very friendly couple I suspected were swingers. Although it led to nothing, I had a lot of fun flirting with them and it got me wondering whether there were any common bars/pubs that hotwife couples visit to meet guys? Particularly in London. I realise the easiest way to meet other swingers is in a club but would love to know whether other couples enjoy visiting bars to meet guys and where I should look, or if it is easy enough for couples to just go anywhere? (Fab suggests single guys cannot be that hard to find)." Doing this in a vanilla setting sounds a thrill. I wouldn't say I've had experience but I've heard couples will play it out. I've also paid attention to a wife in front of her husband in a vanilla setting which was my first time since embracing the lifestyle but work on progress as something I think about alot. A fantasy of mine is to introduce my first couple to the lifestyle or meet a couple in a bar as you done. The world's our oyster, if the mindset is tuned. | |||
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" Not sure about this - lived in London for many years. Never heard of a bar where couples meet single guys - it would be lovely if it were true..but suspect it more fantasy than reality. Most bars in central London are for people on the pull - so you are more likely to find single person looking for one night stand - but a couple who are looking for single guy - would love to believe it!" Couples are always out together. Luck is the combination of opportunity and preparation. It'll come if you prepare mentally for these scenarios AND where you see the opportunity. Look for single girls, you'll get single girls. Look for rings, you'll get married ladies. Don't ask where the husband is, he's sitting in the far corner | |||
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"Sadly no places in Cardiff other than the usual town centre lairy bars on a weekend. We have long hoped to get enough local Hotwife couples together that we could go out fully tarred up and make our own scene, but as many know on here, it is really difficult to get group things off the ground. If anyone knows of places in Cardiff where the women make a real effort, then please let us know?" The socials are a great opportunity to meet in pubs near the venue then at the actual venue itself. The Newport Social is the next one I think, obviously strictly no playing at the event but flirting is certainly ok! | |||
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"Sadly no places in Cardiff other than the usual town centre lairy bars on a weekend. We have long hoped to get enough local Hotwife couples together that we could go out fully tarred up and make our own scene, but as many know on here, it is really difficult to get group things off the ground. If anyone knows of places in Cardiff where the women make a real effort, then please let us know? The socials are a great opportunity to meet in pubs near the venue then at the actual venue itself. The Newport Social is the next one I think, obviously strictly no playing at the event but flirting is certainly ok! " Thanks and yes we have been to a few of the Newport and Bristol socials - I'm always dressed in pvc if you happened to be there - but we are looking for something different. By this I mean we get a buzz from being in environment where the people aren't expecting this sort of dress or behaviour, whereas at a social everyone is in on the secret so to speak. I push it at some restaurants, and there is one in particular where we have a fun rule that I can only ever go in full pvc head to foot- we tend to get attentive service hehe! | |||
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"This would be a perfect scenario. Not everyone wants to go to clubs and not everyone wants to swap partners. Hot wives in a normal pub would be a huge turn on but not sure there are many single males out there willing to take the plunge to talk to couples. " I think it would be exciting to find a single guy from here and set something up without my wife being in on it. We have spoken about this scenario many times so I’m certain she would love it. | |||
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"I fulfilled this fantasy for a lady in a pub in Galway years ago I met her husband (so he could vet me) then she came along (dressed very provocatively) We flirted, we kissed, we laughed then we had sex in the men’s loos (that was her fantasy) before heading back to their hotel for more fun One of my best ever meets (I should add it was prearranged not spur of the moment, haven’t been that lucky) Any Irish couples looking to reenact hit me up lol Or Londoners actually I’m there regularly with work " This sounds amazing! | |||
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"...unless you're going to a club, you have to dress appropriately. " You'd get away with it in any pub in the West End. Just say you're in a play and watch the boys flock | |||
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"This would be a perfect scenario. Not everyone wants to go to clubs and not everyone wants to swap partners. Hot wives in a normal pub would be a huge turn on but not sure there are many single males out there willing to take the plunge to talk to couples. " When out locally or another town/city I often get chatting to couples and have had good results when I'm Liverpool (see earlier post) with couples in the city on a short break and looking for fun! Be confident and see where the conversation heads looking out for signs that something might happen xxx good luck all and if any couples want to make contact I'd naturally welcome you to xx | |||
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"This is how we started swinging. We got chatting to a guy in a bar and he told us that he’s a swinger. We were quite inquisitive and asked more and more questions, he invited us back and the rest is history. " Exactly how it can work! Enjoy xx | |||
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"But like someone said before...unless you're going to a club, you have to dress appropriately. " Oh dear I am definitely in breach of that rule hehe | |||
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"Bugger... id have to get a husband for this" You could borrow someone else’s for the night x | |||
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"Bugger... id have to get a husband for this" Can we chat seemed to be blocked | |||
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"We often do this in hotel bars where we have a room..dressed to impress lots if flirting always amazes us how well it goes lol x" tell me more | |||
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"This would be a perfect scenario. Not everyone wants to go to clubs and not everyone wants to swap partners. Hot wives in a normal pub would be a huge turn on but not sure there are many single males out there willing to take the plunge to talk to couples. I think it would be exciting to find a single guy from here and set something up without my wife being in on it. We have spoken about this scenario many times so I’m certain she would love it. " I'm interested | |||
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"I would say your best bets are large central pubs/bars that have a good vibe and allows for close contact and conversation due to it being loud. I would not imagine local pubs would be much use as obviously most couples keep this part of their life discreet and would not want to run the risk of other locals finding out. I would say pubs around the West End for couples visiting London, Piccadilly etc would be your best bet." I parked at a swimming gers club bit before I could get out a couple got in and asked me to take them to a nearby address. I thought game on. When we got there only a few minutes away, she gave me a tenner and said keep the change. Turned out she was a hot Milf and had bagged a lad at the club and was waiting for a cab to get him home. Ah well, paid for my drinks that night. | |||
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"Yes, would love to do this with my wife as an accidental meeting. It’s more satisfying for the woman to be hit on because a guy fancies her and wants her, builds her ego up. Anyone wanting to help please message us." | |||
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"Bugger... id have to get a husband for this" Careful what you ask for - many might be happy to share you! | |||
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"Sgt peppers and the cavern for us" Makes a note for next time I'm back that way! | |||
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"How about a cuckolding social? In a public place (pub/bar etc). I don’t know how popular the idea would be, but it’s an interesting idea I’ve been thinking about for some time now " Actually, that's a really good idea. Set up the event on this website, people go to the bar as usual, but the bar is already full of hot wives and husbands. The only issue is that you might accidentally put the moves on someone who's not in on it! | |||
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"This is a fantasy of ours. We would like to meet another couple or maybe a single guy in a bar. We sometimes go out for drinks in Durham and would love to arrange an accidental meeting. If anyone local fancies this please send a message" . | |||
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"Anywhere in Peterborough or Bourne area to pull younger guys " No luck | |||
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"Well I'm sure there are places like this in every city and it's always intriguing to get chatting to couples when out and see where it all goes! For me, in Liverpool yes Matthew street has potential and yes Sgt Peppers but also the Grapes and Erics. In the Charlotte st area Smokey mo's or Tess Riley's have potential in my opinion too! Good luck and naturally if any couples want to play out this fantasy whilst in Liverpool city centre PM me and I'll see what I can do Dynamo" Thanks for the tips mate, I have a weekend stay in Liverpool coming up, and was looking for something interesting to do, as TH is holding an all-male bi/gay night when I’m there, which is most definitely NOT the night for me lol! Meeting a hotwife couple in a pub/bar would be great! | |||
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"Sgt peppers and the cavern for us" Noted for January...... | |||
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"Ahem, guess what, it’s a secret but most swingers clubs on a Friday night is where a single guy is most likely to be able to chat up and play with a lady from a couple, but this is just between us eh, don’t tell anyone else " It’s really not the same though, as sitting with a wife, chatting, flirting, touching, acting like a horned-up couple in a public area, all around unaware that you’re not actually a couple, while hubby watches on from afar | |||
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"As a hotwife myself, I get very excited about this scenario. But like someone said before...unless you're going to a club, you have to dress appropriately. " An ankle chain is the best clue for any hotwife to wear....... | |||
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"We're looking similar place in Birmingham or Wolverhampton..anyone got any ideas please xx" Village hotel walsall | |||
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"Yes, and look for the ankle bracelets and pretty ankle jewellery " Yep love my ankle chains - have various such as Hotwife, Fuck Doll, Cum Slut, etc - so not leaving much room for doubt there then hehe | |||
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"I have Visions of Gareth in The Office on his night out at Chasers " Omg I'm glad it's not just me. And also Alan Partridge when he goes to Dan's house | |||
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"Let's arrange a night in west end. We know a good bar to do this at. Who is in? Ofcourse we would need a fee couples confirmed before we invite the boys." That sounds like a great idea. | |||
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"Bugger... id have to get a husband for this" I'll marry you | |||
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"Always been a fantasy of my husband, I'm taken out for a drink, flirt and fun afterwards, tried to organise a guy to take me out, never seems to happen, most men bottle it. Shame " Very much their loss | |||
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"Let's arrange a night in west end. We know a good bar to do this at. Who is in? Ofcourse we would need a fee couples confirmed before we invite the boys." That would be great fun night. Willing to play a cuckold husband if needed xx | |||
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"Bugger... id have to get a husband for this" Will you marry me | |||
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"We went to swinging social and at the end Michelle slipped a note to a guy to come back to our hotel and fuck her. Seemed to work ok. " any bars in Moreton or local to me in Liscard? | |||
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"Bugger... id have to get a husband for this" Aw. I'll happily be your plus one. No no, that's not an offer of marriage. LMAO. Just saying I'll play along the fantasy with you as the "fake" partner. | |||
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"We have a local called the Blunsdon arms that on a Friday and Saturday can be good for the wife to get chatted up. The kings in Old town on Saturday and she definitely gets hit on." We could do with visiting those pubs lol | |||
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"Hi mate I’m in London and would love to get my gf d*unk one night and have a 3sum I’ve told her how much I would love it and she gets so wet give me a shout we might be able to sort something " | |||
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"Hi mate I’m in London and would love to get my gf d*unk one night and have a 3sum I’ve told her how much I would love it and she gets so wet give me a shout we might be able to sort something " There is something bordering on the non-consensual about this. | |||
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"Let's arrange a night in west end. We know a good bar to do this at. Who is in? Ofcourse we would need a fee couples confirmed before we invite the boys." I am definitely in. Priya looks fucking hot! | |||
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"Any bars around Manchester?" We’ve been chatted up a couple of times in the gay village. | |||
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"We have a local called the Blunsdon arms that on a Friday and Saturday can be good for the wife to get chatted up. The kings in Old town on Saturday and she definitely gets hit on." Ohhh. A couple of pubs I'll definitely have to visit when I'm back in Swindon in the new year! | |||
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"Any bars around Manchester? We’ve been chatted up a couple of times in the gay village. " ?? | |||
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"We have a local called the Blunsdon arms that on a Friday and Saturday can be good for the wife to get chatted up. The kings in Old town on Saturday and she definitely gets hit on." | |||
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"Let's arrange a night in west end. We know a good bar to do this at. Who is in? Ofcourse we would need a fee couples confirmed before we invite the boys." I'm so in for this! | |||
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"Let's arrange a night in west end. We know a good bar to do this at. Who is in? Ofcourse we would need a fee couples confirmed before we invite the boys. I'm so in for this!" Hotwife hotel or Hotgirl friend | |||
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"Yes I agree Cardiff seems to be lairy lads on the piss we was there last weekend and just no chance " Well it would be good to try and pull together a like minded group of local Hotwife couples to socialise with and turn heads. | |||
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"We often do this, hubby will go for a ciggy to leave me alone and see how long it takes for a guy to chat. I've had quite a bit of fun this way! " Lucky lady lol | |||
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"We often do this, hubby will go for a ciggy to leave me alone and see how long it takes for a guy to chat. I've had quite a bit of fun this way! " Do you feel shit when no one talks to you | |||
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"We often do this, hubby will go for a ciggy to leave me alone and see how long it takes for a guy to chat. I've had quite a bit of fun this way! Do you feel shit when no one talks to you" I'll let you know after it happens. | |||
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"We often do this, hubby will go for a ciggy to leave me alone and see how long it takes for a guy to chat. I've had quite a bit of fun this way! Do you feel shit when no one talks to you I'll let you know after it happens." | |||
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"Your msg when you say you had a good time talking to a couple in a bar in Liverpool you can walk in to most pubs and people will engage with you in conversation it’s called being friendly something you will always experience in Liverpool or most northern city’s there is still a north south division not saying all southern people are stuck up there own arse but I was born in liverpool I live in Bournemouth now for many years and you can see most people down here are not so out going " Don't worry, I am also Northern, and I think can tell the difference between just being friendly and flirting with hotwives | |||
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