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By *tickler2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I've just recognized a couple on here that I know outside of fab.

Just wondering what you would do?

The thing is, I would never meet them for our type of fun for reasons that will remain untold.

Not sure I would want to embarrass the lady if she found out I know what she gets up to

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I wouldn't. We've seen several on here we recognise we just go about our business!!

If at a club I'd say hi but not on fab.

We ran into a couple we knew in a club. And we just went over and said hi.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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You've answered your own question, you wouldn't meet them regardless and you feel it would embarrass the lady, so No real need to possibly cause any embarrassment.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We block anyone we recognise to save all our blushes. We would never mention it either.

Lou x

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

nope, i wouldn't but id be happy to be approached by someone who new me

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

We have found a few people on here we know

After they messaged us but left it as polite conversation

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"nope, i wouldn't but id be happy to be approached by someone who new me"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. And I want to be left alone.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you know them from outside Fab why would it embarrass them if you said hello? They don't know that you're on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you know them from outside Fab why would it embarrass them if you said hello? They don't know that you're on Fab. "

She's smart, this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink with a couple on here who I recognise. Wouldnt dream of mentioning that I know theyre on fab.

Theyre not interested in single guys so why ruin a good friendship?

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By *tickler2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"If you know them from outside Fab why would it embarrass them if you said hello? They don't know that you're on Fab. "

I am quite sure the lady in particular wouldn't want this to get out. Not that it would. I'd never say anything.

It's just I've known her a very long time and think she would be embarrassed that I knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you know them from outside Fab why would it embarrass them if you said hello? They don't know that you're on Fab.

I am quite sure the lady in particular wouldn't want this to get out. Not that it would. I'd never say anything.

It's just I've known her a very long time and think she would be embarrassed that I knew"

So why think about saying anything? Just respect their privacy perhaps?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

No, there was one on here looking a while ago but we'd been there done that anyway before we even came to Fab so no real surprise she was here.

We wouldn't approach/message & as others have said would block if too close to home.

S

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Never! What happens on fab stays on fab. We never bring the fab world to the vanilla world

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Sorry, misread the op.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I've just recognized a couple on here that I know outside of fab.

Just wondering what you would do?

The thing is, I would never meet them for our type of fun for reasons that will remain untold.

Not sure I would want to embarrass the lady if she found out I know what she gets up to"

No no no, you just leave them to it, block and move on.

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By *tickler2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

Thanks for all the replies.

Glad to see most have the same views as me.

But always worth asking the question.

It will remain my little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just recognized a couple on here that I know outside of fab.

Just wondering what you would do?

The thing is, I would never meet them for our type of fun for reasons that will remain untold.

Not sure I would want to embarrass the lady if she found out I know what she gets up to"

Block and keep to tour business... what happens on fab should stay on fab.. discrecy is a rule unfortunately that many forget

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Thanks for all the replies.

Glad to see most have the same views as me.

But always worth asking the question.

It will remain my little secret"

It's not your little secret. That's just creepy. Just block them and respect their privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies.

Glad to see most have the same views as me.

But always worth asking the question.

It will remain my little secret

It's not your little secret. That's just creepy. Just block them and respect their privacy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if she knows you're on fab and keeps it quiet in case she doesn't want to embarrass you?

There's always 2 sides of each story.

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By *tickler2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"Thanks for all the replies.

Glad to see most have the same views as me.

But always worth asking the question.

It will remain my little secret

It's not your little secret. That's just creepy. Just block them and respect their privacy."

That was in jest. I Mean that I will not , as I said contact them or tell anyone.

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By *tickler2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"What if she knows you're on fab and keeps it quiet in case she doesn't want to embarrass you?

There's always 2 sides of each story."

If she does that then everyone will continue enjoying Fab

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By *egan_CDTV/TS
over a year ago

In the closet

I normally keep the two worlds totally separate to avoid any possible confusion.

That said I was taken to task by a female Fab friend when I admitted I’d seen her in the street but NOT said hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much potential shame for most. Like in another post, want to remain straight in public but bi on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen several locals on here.

A good friend.

My best friend.... that was a surprise !

A bloke from the pub, bar stool chats are getting saucier....

And a couple who’s daughter is in the same class as mine.

A few, who I knew wouldn’t mind, i have said hello to.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Block their profile and don't let on that you saw them on here.

You don't intend to meet them ,so best forgotten.

Miss

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Nope leave them be

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