FabSwingers.com forum: Meet Nerves

By *empseyANDRedhead OP Couple
over a year ago

warwick

So do you ladies get very nervous and need a bit of dutch courage on a meet ?

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

"So do you ladies get very nervous and need a bit of dutch courage on a meet ?"

Nevemind you ladies some of us guys also need it lol.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

No, I don't.

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By *rs spicyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield near centre

I've had a fair few meets but I still get nervous when meeting a chap for the first time.

To be fair, the nerves make it better!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've always a nervous excitement before a meet but no I've never needed Dutch courage.

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By *empseyANDRedhead OP Couple
over a year ago

warwick

"I've had a fair few meets but I still get nervous when meeting a chap for the first time.

To be fair, the nerves make it better!

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Dont get us wrong, love the nerves and the built up excitement

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yes!

Meeting someone new, I'm usually like a headless chicken getting ready

Even people I've known, met regularly, can still get me in a tizz

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Oh... But no Dutch Courage, I'm usually driving & I wouldn't drink on a first meet/social

I want to my wits about me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent a full week before a meet feeling nauseous every waking hour. Definitely wouldn't introduce alcohol into the equation before a meet but yes I suffer terribly with nerves!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Worse thing you can do is to take a drink or anything else that dulls your decision making.

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

The day I don't get nervy before a new meet is the day I stop meeting.

It adds to the anticipation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The day I don't get nervy before a new meet is the day I stop meeting.

It adds to the anticipation. "

Agree 100% xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The day I don't get nervy before a new meet is the day I stop meeting.

It adds to the anticipation.

Agree 100% xx"

Totally agree - the nerves and excitement is what makes fab meets - FAB

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

The intensity of nerves changes from person to person... but yeah, have to agree with the above: the nerves are fantastic energy

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"So do you ladies get very nervous and need a bit of dutch courage on a meet ?"

Don't forget us couples as well.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I used to love the feeling I got before going into a club. Sometimes I’d get butterflies in my stomach as I approached in the car. I do get it now and again still. It’s the adrenaline I think.

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I tend to tremble a fair bit just before I meet a new man,but I find I relax once I have his cock in my mouth

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I tend to tremble a fair bit just before I meet a new man,but I find I relax once I have his cock in my mouth"

That ol' icebreaker...

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Yep, I get nervcited. A small glass of wine before a meet always helps the nervousness subside and let's the excitedness out. We have a meet in a couple of weeks and I've been nervous since we set the date.

Gem

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not really, because I always chat for a while first to get to know them, then meet in a public place.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes i get nervous. I don’t actually get excited about meets, they are what they are, but i get nervous about meeting someone new more than what the meet is about (if that makes sense?) because i’m an introvert and meeting new folk is actually quite a nightmare for me.

Still, not ready to die alone surrounded by cats quite yet, so have to force myself out there.

And I don’t drink alcohol on meets.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Yes i get nervous. I don’t actually get excited about meets, they are what they are, but i get nervous about meeting someone new more than what the meet is about (if that makes sense?) because i’m an introvert and meeting new folk is actually quite a nightmare for me.

Still, not ready to die alone surrounded by cats quite yet, so have to force myself out there.

And I don’t drink alcohol on meets. "

I can relate. Meeting new people in person as part of what I study has been flippin' harrowing. It is less intense for socials, but it is kinda still there.

Prefer coffee to alcohol on meets. But I would say that

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve always got super nervous before a meet to the point of almost backing out

Start doubting myself if they will like me

Always have a couple drinks before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet for social only first so don't get nervous. I'm usually only half expecting them to turn up and then only half expecting for us to like each other. So I don't build myself up for anything for the social meet. Just go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you ladies get very nervous and need a bit of dutch courage on a meet ?"

No. But if my gut warns me I pay attention to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg i was so nervous.. Terrified even lol, but super excited...

I got a postcode for an hotel and arrived in the car park. I sat for 5 mins or so to compose myself.

I got out of the car and took a couple of breathes. Reminded myself that the worst that could happen would be that he was an axe murderer which gave me the giggles

Then i put my hat on and got into my stride

I was shaking when the door opened, but the first 20 seconds happened exactly as I'd been told they would and then i started to calm down

It helped that i had agreed to call a friend after an hour to check in

Just keep breathing OP and remember, you have choices... If it's not working don't feel embarrassed to put a halt to it

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen

Isn't this what makes us tick, the excitement and nerves of a meeting I never find the Dutch courage thing works for me though.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I get a little nervous before a meet. Always worried they wont fancy me or we wont get on, etc, etc.

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

If only I could get chance of meeting a cpl or lady for some fun then I'd let you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get nervous

I enjoy the whole process, excited, yes, but not nervous. It’s on my terms. I suggest where to meet, in public, and if they don’t like me, well, it doesn’t happen often, but it’s fair enough. MYbe I won’t like them?

I’m mostly bothered that the meet will be a waste of my time....

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

I get nervous and excited but as i meet with hubby it helps keep me calm ,he is confident enough for us both ...

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I would not take any dutch courage to meet a lady . I like to be cold stone sober and im always a gent .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I did have one or two meets where we did not have any chemistry. One lady just messed me about not showing up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, everytime. But it's more that I'm not going to be what they expected so I end up getting into a flap.

I also have a drink every meet. Again not because of the guys themselves, but because of my own stupid insecurities. Not excessively, but I will end up with wine at some point.

Sin.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

"Yes, everytime. But it's more that I'm not going to be what they expected so I end up getting into a flap.

I also have a drink every meet. Again not because of the guys themselves, but because of my own stupid insecurities. Not excessively, but I will end up with wine at some point.

Sin."

Just remember, whatever anxious thoughts your having, they're thinking exactly the same things.

Failing that just imagine them naked...

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By *andS_GlasgowCouple
over a year ago

Giffnock

Wife is exact same - whereas Hubby is chilled !!!

"I’ve always got super nervous before a meet to the point of almost backing out

Start doubting myself if they will like me

Always have a couple drinks before "

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Very nervous!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Even after quite a few years at meets, I still have nerves meeting up with people.

But, I tend to find that some informal discussion between us all, can reduce the tension or even make it disappear completely.

I've had ladies say they welcomed the talking too as it broke the ice and made it easier once the fun began.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing you can do is just get in with it. Shyness is a waste of time. If you wanna fuck em you will no time for floppies

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