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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

Hi all,

I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!

Thanks

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Have you tried doing other things whilst waiting for her sensitivity to die down?

Alice can cum extremely quickly from oral sometimes. I think place my mouth over her entire front garden. And I pause a bit, allowing her to settle down and for my mouth to be generating some warmth.

My tongue can then begin to lick her lips or enter her. Some women get nothing out of a tongue in their pussy, but Alice's g-spot is close to the front, so she loves it.

All that time, I'm obviously breathing warm hair onto her clit. She soon gets back in the mood for things.

I discovered this accidentally, because what I used to do was simply rest my tongue on her clit, whilst she recovered, or blew very very gently on her. Over the time, it evolved into the method above.

Even better, as we like a bit of bdsm, I might provide some forced orgasms and keep going.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

What's your technique like prior to her orgasm?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi all,

I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!

Thanks "

If you don't want to change then things will remain the same

Ever considered leaving oral until later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frustrating isn't it?

One of my exes was like this, if she could have kept going for more than 30 seconds at a time she would have been a world class lay, but as it was she was a frustrating lay.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Just congratulate yourself on your amazing skills. Something tells me she would not want it to take longer. Have a break and get back to it later.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe she could play with you until the sensitivity has gone ,then you could go back to her afterwards.

Or like others said leave the oral till later in play.

Miss

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Using a wand vibrator over time can diminish the effect of oral sex, damn things . Have you tried vibrators ?, does she still orgasm quickly ?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!

Thanks "

Anal lol

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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond


"Have you tried doing other things whilst waiting for her sensitivity to die down?

Alice can cum extremely quickly from oral sometimes. I think place my mouth over her entire front garden. And I pause a bit, allowing her to settle down and for my mouth to be generating some warmth.

My tongue can then begin to lick her lips or enter her. Some women get nothing out of a tongue in their pussy, but Alice's g-spot is close to the front, so she loves it.

All that time, I'm obviously breathing warm hair onto her clit. She soon gets back in the mood for things.

I discovered this accidentally, because what I used to do was simply rest my tongue on her clit, whilst she recovered, or blew very very gently on her. Over the time, it evolved into the method above.

Even better, as we like a bit of bdsm, I might provide some forced orgasms and keep going. "

Fab idea, I will give it a go and report back thank you.

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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond


"What's your technique like prior to her orgasm?"

Well...I have tried fast and concentrated on the clit and slow and all around. Both have the same outcome

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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond


"Hi all,

I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!

Thanks

If you don't want to change then things will remain the same

Ever considered leaving oral until later?"

Happy to change, hence the post. I think that is a good idea. I will give it a go

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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond


"Frustrating isn't it?

One of my exes was like this, if she could have kept going for more than 30 seconds at a time she would have been a world class lay, but as it was she was a frustrating lay. "

This is exactly how it is!

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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond


"Using a wand vibrator over time can diminish the effect of oral sex, damn things . Have you tried vibrators ?, does she still orgasm quickly ?."

I did not know that will give it a try...thank you

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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

Thank you for all the ideas. I will report back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think place my mouth over her entire front garden. "

Front garden.

Mind the rhododendron.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I wish I had this problem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an enlightening thread. Keep up the good work boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I had this problem lol "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to play devils advocate ..

Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral?

Lots of women dont.

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks

Dump her !

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Goodness! I'm the opposite. Takes me so long, most give up, but i just love the journey so much i dont want it to end.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Dump her !"

WOW!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I wish I had this problem lol "

Precisely.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts


"Just to play devils advocate ..

Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral?

Lots of women dont."

That would be my first thought too.

Has she said anything about wanting it to go on longer? Unless she has, I don't see any technique working. Either she is faking it, or she finds a really quick orgasm that way to be satisfying and isn't bothered it then stops play. In which case, maybe you are not well matched sexually?

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hi all,

I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!

Thanks "

Within seconds and then can't do much else hmm I suggest you get her to suck you pleasure you and you fuck her all you can before you make her cum or find someone else buddy.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Guys, the reality is, a woman will not sacrifice the ability to get pleasure sooner rather than later. Few of us are this selfless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I had this problem lol

Precisely. "

Yep. Takes me forever - even with the best technique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez I'm sooo opposite to this OP!... fem

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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond


"I think place my mouth over her entire front garden.

Front garden.

Mind the rhododendron. "

Ha ha

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By *amest47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond


"Just to play devils advocate ..

Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral?

Lots of women dont."

I have asked her, as I thought it might be a possibility. But is says she loves it.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts


"Just to play devils advocate ..

Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral?

Lots of women dont.

I have asked her, as I thought it might be a possibility. But is says she loves it. "

Does she want it to last longer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her. "

Now that’s hot! I thought this was horrid at first, but after a few times it can be a real turn on especially for the lady. Plus you get used to it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her.

Now that’s hot! I thought this was horrid at first, but after a few times it can be a real turn on especially for the lady. Plus you get used to it x"

Good man

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

After a clitoral orgasm, direct stimulation will be too sensitive for some time. Instead, I find some gentle rubbing around the pubic region works and then gradually leading to more intense play as the sensitivity wears off. Fingering of the vaginal walls for G-spot stimulation is another option and of course there's plenty of non-genital erogenous zones for you to play with.

Every woman is different in their response and recovery and that's part of the pleasure in learning how best to adapt to their likes.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Following from last night - when we met with another woman who, like Alice, can cum quickly - I have to repeat my previous advice.

Our friend last night enjoyed a tongue in her pussy (after a clitoral orgasm). As I did so, my nose and upper lip would gently rub against her clit. It turned out to be a great way to gradually gauge her level of sensitivity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum quite quickly whilst rubbing my clit during intercourse. Or oral. We take 5. Then carry on. No touching my clit. Although he tries. I love the sensitivity I feel inside. So I retaliate when he cums. whoop gets him squirming. But, each to their own. X

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By *its n cheekynessCouple
over a year ago

chorley


"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her. "

This is a preference.....Mr D

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her.

This is a preference.....Mr D "

No. No. No. No. No. No. No.

The Lady always cums first.

Then cum inside her. Then lick it out. Then she cums again.

Ooh, I'm getting turned-on!

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"Hi all,

I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!

Thanks "

5 mins isn’t a bad something we struggle to get past the first minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My clit is incredibly sensitive when I’ve orgasmed to the point I can’t bear it to be touched. However it only usually takes me a few minutes to recover and I’m raring to go again. In that time I’ll keep myself occupied by pleasuring my playmate.

Are you saying that she’s not interested in any kind of sexual contact after she’s come? I’ve never come across that and totally understand why you’d find it frustrating

Miss V

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

bolton

I’m the same, and somehow I’m the problem

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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

I cum quickly but I also cum lots and like it that way. It helps that Mr L is large and hits my g spot straight away. He is also very good at oral and we usually start with that.

I wouldn't cope if it only lasted 30 seconds or 5 minutes each time and neither would he lol!

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By *its n cheekynessCouple
over a year ago

chorley


"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her.

This is a preference.....Mr D

No. No. No. No. No. No. No.

The Lady always cums first.

Then cum inside her. Then lick it out. Then she cums again.

Ooh, I'm getting turned-on! "

Exactly this, fem is always top priority anyway

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Just tie her to the bed and crack on..lol

I.ve had a few ladies experience squirting for the first time that way as they cant close there legs when sensitive down there..

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