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"Hi all, I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it! Thanks " If you don't want to change then things will remain the same Ever considered leaving oral until later? | |||
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"Hi all, I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it! Thanks " Anal lol | |||
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"Have you tried doing other things whilst waiting for her sensitivity to die down? Alice can cum extremely quickly from oral sometimes. I think place my mouth over her entire front garden. And I pause a bit, allowing her to settle down and for my mouth to be generating some warmth. My tongue can then begin to lick her lips or enter her. Some women get nothing out of a tongue in their pussy, but Alice's g-spot is close to the front, so she loves it. All that time, I'm obviously breathing warm hair onto her clit. She soon gets back in the mood for things. I discovered this accidentally, because what I used to do was simply rest my tongue on her clit, whilst she recovered, or blew very very gently on her. Over the time, it evolved into the method above. Even better, as we like a bit of bdsm, I might provide some forced orgasms and keep going. " Fab idea, I will give it a go and report back thank you. | |||
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"What's your technique like prior to her orgasm?" Well...I have tried fast and concentrated on the clit and slow and all around. Both have the same outcome | |||
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"Hi all, I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it! Thanks If you don't want to change then things will remain the same Ever considered leaving oral until later?" Happy to change, hence the post. I think that is a good idea. I will give it a go | |||
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"Frustrating isn't it? One of my exes was like this, if she could have kept going for more than 30 seconds at a time she would have been a world class lay, but as it was she was a frustrating lay. " This is exactly how it is! | |||
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"Using a wand vibrator over time can diminish the effect of oral sex, damn things . Have you tried vibrators ?, does she still orgasm quickly ?." I did not know that will give it a try...thank you | |||
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"I think place my mouth over her entire front garden. " Front garden. Mind the rhododendron. | |||
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"Dump her !" WOW! | |||
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"I wish I had this problem lol " Precisely. | |||
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"Just to play devils advocate .. Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral? Lots of women dont." That would be my first thought too. Has she said anything about wanting it to go on longer? Unless she has, I don't see any technique working. Either she is faking it, or she finds a really quick orgasm that way to be satisfying and isn't bothered it then stops play. In which case, maybe you are not well matched sexually? | |||
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"Hi all, I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it! Thanks " Within seconds and then can't do much else hmm I suggest you get her to suck you pleasure you and you fuck her all you can before you make her cum or find someone else buddy. | |||
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"I wish I had this problem lol Precisely. " Yep. Takes me forever - even with the best technique! | |||
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"I think place my mouth over her entire front garden. Front garden. Mind the rhododendron. " Ha ha | |||
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"Just to play devils advocate .. Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral? Lots of women dont." I have asked her, as I thought it might be a possibility. But is says she loves it. | |||
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"Just to play devils advocate .. Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral? Lots of women dont. I have asked her, as I thought it might be a possibility. But is says she loves it. " Does she want it to last longer? | |||
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her. " Now that’s hot! I thought this was horrid at first, but after a few times it can be a real turn on especially for the lady. Plus you get used to it x | |||
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her. Now that’s hot! I thought this was horrid at first, but after a few times it can be a real turn on especially for the lady. Plus you get used to it x" Good man | |||
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her. " This is a preference.....Mr D | |||
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her. This is a preference.....Mr D " No. No. No. No. No. No. No. The Lady always cums first. Then cum inside her. Then lick it out. Then she cums again. Ooh, I'm getting turned-on! | |||
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"Hi all, I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it! Thanks " 5 mins isn’t a bad something we struggle to get past the first minute | |||
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her. This is a preference.....Mr D No. No. No. No. No. No. No. The Lady always cums first. Then cum inside her. Then lick it out. Then she cums again. Ooh, I'm getting turned-on! " Exactly this, fem is always top priority anyway | |||
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