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"ok.. how are two people who've met from here seen if they went to a club or met another couple. obviously its not like meeting a married couple.. but does it make a difference? " What two people do together is entirely up to them, and it's up to them how much they tell other people. They don't have to give a life history to justify their arrangements or actions to others. If it works for them, then all to the good. Wolf | |||
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"but is it kinda frowned upon?" by some yes but there are plenty of fuck buddie couples, just meet one of them I have a male friend i sometimes meet with and a lot of couples just arnt interested when you say your only friends, some dont mind tho Me personally i cant see the diffarance, i think the weirdest comment i got from a couple is they only met married couples as they was risking a lot doing this and if things went wrong for them they wanted the olther couple to have as much to loose as them Even if i was married and things went wrong for us i wouldnt wish it on someone else but wierd how some peoples minds work | |||
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"ok.. how are two people who've met from here seen if they went to a club or met another couple. obviously its not like meeting a married couple.. but does it make a difference? " My partner and I met through swinging and have been together 20 months and plan on being together for the rest of our lives (growing old disgracefully ). We have no problems at clubs or meets. If you're talking about two people who see themselves as fuck buddies/friends with benefits etc - well yes some couples look down on them/avoid them but others will happily play with them. Best bet is for people to just be honest about who/what they are - that way everyone will be able to meet/play with people who meet their preferences. To my mind there is no right or wrong...everyone has preferences. | |||
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"ok i am not sure what u r asking as met my gorgeous fella off here and we r a couple a proper dates ring each other text about random shit love each other couple and if people frown at us they don't do it in front of me but if u r talking about people that made join profiles to meet other couples that is really none of my buisness i have enough to worry about with my own life to be concerned about there life history xxx" exactly i think people just quick to blame things on other people than themselves. fact is fuck buddy or not they are still a couple there, if they have problems with jealousy or anything else they are all the same problems a married couple can have. no matter what they are like you just need to get an idea what they are both like and how easy going and genuine they are | |||
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" no matter what they are like you just need to get an idea what they are both like and how easy going and genuine they are " and thats the hard part with alot of "couples" that arent really couples.. its hard to get them both together to talk or cam or get bothof their numbers etc etc. and alot of the time it ends up being a single guy faking it anyway which is why i think there is more of a prejudice against those kind of couples who are real | |||
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" no matter what they are like you just need to get an idea what they are both like and how easy going and genuine they are and thats the hard part with alot of "couples" that arent really couples.. its hard to get them both together to talk or cam or get bothof their numbers etc etc. and alot of the time it ends up being a single guy faking it anyway which is why i think there is more of a prejudice against those kind of couples who are real" yeah i found similar stuff too when in a couple, used to get quite a few guys who were doing it and said they were up for meet at the weekend etc, then as it got closer you got the vibe the guy was arranging it without the mrs knowing about it, come near the time, ask to send the same photos you sent previousily again (probs to show her) and then some excuse about kids comes up so cancelled till another time but they never speak again haha ! fun and games with couples accounts haha! | |||
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