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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am dont pay any attention my lovely, you like what you like youre human " I know but when you get it everyday it’s annoying to explain that I don’t like the sensation | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am dont pay any attention my lovely, you like what you like youre human I know but when you get it everyday it’s annoying to explain that I don’t like the sensation " i can't say ive ever asked a woman that question until in the sex situation | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " Everyone has different likes and dislikes, I used to find it boring until I started to find the men with skills | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " Thank god for this post. I hate it and always get the same kind of responses xx | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am Thank god for this post. I hate it and always get the same kind of responses xx" I’m glad I’m not the only one | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am Thank god for this post. I hate it and always get the same kind of responses xx" Same! Your far from alone, but many (not all) men seem to think every woman loves it yawn | |||
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"Some men get offended when I don't want to give them oral It does nothing for me. I don't ask them to go down on me but they usually do anyway. After a while I need a change as it can get boring. " I know people don’t understand that it really doesn’t do nothing , I don’t mind giving but I hate receiving | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " Nope, I'm not a huge fan either, I get bored lol. | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " No, my ex wife didn't like receiving oral or being fingered. Her choice, we were in a sexless marriage anyway so none of that mattered. | |||
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"A lot of people think that one size fits all when it comes to sex. They're a sex god, and once you see their magic formula you too will be a convert! So when you flat out refuse to engage in this nonsense (because it is), they feel personally attacked." Well put. | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " I'm not keen either, doesn't do much for me, but blokes seem to be obsessed with it and get quite miffed if I say I don't want it. Porn has a lot to answer for! | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " No you're not strange. I don't like receiving either. It always amazes me that people can't accept that and I avoid them because usually they think it's the only form of foreplay available. | |||
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"Lots of women don't like it, I'd rather do the housework " Do you like other parts of your body being licked / kissed? Neck, ears, breasts, shoulders, spine, thighs, arms? | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am dont pay any attention my lovely, you like what you like youre human I know but when you get it everyday it’s annoying to explain that I don’t like the sensation " , We put it on our profile. I never, ever explain and it someone asks me why or implies it's because I'm ashamed of my genitals or have somehow been traumatised I just laugh. There's a hard core of people, not just men, who follow a formula that they hope has the widest appeal of you call outside of that it sends their brain into over drive. | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " Your your own person people should respect your preferences doesn't make you strange xx | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " Your not strange. I’m not too keen. But most men are crap at it. I’ve known some men who don’t like oral on them. Each to their own. Many different kinks on here | |||
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"Lots of women don't like it, I'd rather do the housework Do you like other parts of your body being licked / kissed? Neck, ears, breasts, shoulders, spine, thighs, arms? " yes very much so | |||
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"Generally not a huge fan. Though I was almost converted the other day. The old adage of being eaten like a peach .... Er no thanks something more delicate please ! " Chewed on like spare ribs? | |||
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"Lots of women don't like it, I'd rather do the housework Do you like other parts of your body being licked / kissed? Neck, ears, breasts, shoulders, spine, thighs, arms? yes very much so" That’s good enough for me. | |||
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"I neither like nor dislike it. I don’t feel like I’m missing out if I don't get oral but I’ll ask him to stop or wiggle out of it and on to something else. It stems from that ‘ladies first’ bollocks. I hate the pressure put on me to cum first just so he doesn’t feel guilty about cumming, it’s an event not a race. " It can feel a bit like "phew, now that's out of the way we can concentrate on me" | |||
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"I neither like nor dislike it. I don’t feel like I’m missing out if I don't get oral but I’ll ask him to stop or wiggle out of it and on to something else. It stems from that ‘ladies first’ bollocks. I hate the pressure put on me to cum first just so he doesn’t feel guilty about cumming, it’s an event not a race. It can feel a bit like "phew, now that's out of the way we can concentrate on me"" Exactly that, some see it as some sort of trophy too. | |||
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"Can't say I'm too bothered by it these days. Generally guys have stubble, which can be like sandpaper on some very sensitive bits. Hate when guys only go for the clit, rapid licking or fingers, because you can have too much of a good thing, and that can start to hurt. Complete turn off/ deal breaker are guys that say they are excellent at oral or that they will MAKE me cum, like it's a competition." I feel like a lot of men do this- go hard on the clit when in reality my gf has shown me that teasing slowly and gently is so much better. Sometimes just nibbling around the outside of the pussy and just teasing the clit for ages without even touching it is what gets her going the most. It's such a part of the body, I think a lot of the time less is more when it comes to licking pussy. Im sure its different for different women and you really have to know how to read her to be able to satisfy her, and if it's a one off you might not have that knowledge. | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " No not strange, an ex girlfriend claimed to feel nothing however hard I tried yet touch her breasts and she'd orgasm in seconds. For some it may be psycological. Afraid they're not clean down there, don't like the smell so how can anyone else ?, their pussy is ugly, afraid to reach orgasm, that they'll squirt or fart, the list goes on... | |||
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"Generally not a huge fan. Though I was almost converted the other day. The old adage of being eaten like a peach .... Er no thanks something more delicate please ! Chewed on like spare ribs? " That is sadly how quite a few go to it. | |||
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"Thanks everyone for the comments , makes me feel so much better knowing that I’m not the only one and people understand. Just hate that people called me weird and strange for not liking oral been done on me " you are perfectly normal but with exceptional breasts | |||
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"Everyone enjoys different things and often have places on their bodies they don't want touched OP. Nothing odd about that. You're very normal! The trick is in finding sensitive and empathetic partners ..." And what a trick that is. | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " I'm with you. I can't stand it. It can be boring, painful and sloppy. It's not my idea of fun. I had an message the other day practically accusing me of telling lies when I turned down the hours of licking for nothing in return. | |||
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"I like a little now and then, but not a fan. Just the same as fingering, I don't like it as 9 times out of 10 I end up with thrush. Garenteed 100% if they are smokers and dip a finger in. the bacteria on their hands / fingers changes the good bactria and bam thrush. Then after a recent play, someone, who did not know and needed a sat nav, gave me a vaginal tear. Scrapped me with a finger nail. I was sore for 4 days! So nope, no oral or fingering for me. Only fucking with a condom on. " Oh no... I really dislike fingering, it's not my thing. I don't mind oral but, can get bored. I love sucking though. I like a hard fuck | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " I cant stand recieving either. Most guys look at me like im an alien when i tell them! | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am " Glass half or full, use your charm and wittiness and hurt guy macho'ism I want satisfaction/enjoyment from your biggy lovely Willy not your sexy lips and tongue, it is to kiss, if you lick I won't kiss you, choice is your | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am Glass half or full, use your charm and wittiness and hurt guy macho'ism I want satisfaction/enjoyment from your biggy lovely Willy not your sexy lips and tongue, it is to kiss, if you lick I won't kiss you, choice is your " What was that?! | |||
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"Why do people get offended or they don’t understand that I don’t like receiving oral someone wrote you must not have it done right Am I strange for not liking it ? cause people are starting to make me thinking that I am Glass half or full, use your charm and wittiness and hurt guy macho'ism I want satisfaction/enjoyment from your biggy lovely Willy not your sexy lips and tongue, it is to kiss, if you lick I won't kiss you, choice is your What was that?! " If glass is filled half with water what you will call? Is it half full or half empty? It's way to check the person perception to deal with situation.. half full positiveness, half empty negativity... Either person can moan or use 250gm organ to deal | |||
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"My gf hates giving a bj does nothing for her that’s up to her at the end of the day it’s no problem to me. " Does she still want you to go down on her | |||
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"I like it but am not that bothered if I get it or not tbh... As long as I get penatrative (with a cock), vaginal sex, I am happy as that is what works for me ... I don't really like toys inside me and people think that is weird too. I wouldn't worry too much, just do you, anyone else matters not" The same here, no fingering or toys inside me thanks, dicks only. Only one person I have played with who I enjoyed oral with and didn’t get bored. One left my poor clit nearly swollen from chewing it like a dog with a bone. | |||
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"Am I strange for not liking it ?" No | |||
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