FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are a married couple very new to the swinging scene! We have met a guy and have become very friendly talking almost every day we have had quite a few meets now and feel very comfortable

Looking for advice from others who have regular meets with the same person , how often do you meet and how friendly do you let it become?

Thanks for any reply’s

By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Theres no one size fits all answer here. It's about what you want and how far yoire willing to let it go. But make any boundaries clear between the 3 of you.

By *lubberMan
over a year ago

Rothwell

"Hi

We are a married couple very new to the swinging scene! We have met a guy and have become very friendly talking almost every day we have had quite a few meets now and feel very comfortable

Looking for advice from others who have regular meets with the same person , how often do you meet and how friendly do you let it become?

Thanks for any reply’s "

Personally that sounds like it's heading towards danger, sounds in danger of becoming more of a poly relationship than swinging. Fine if that's what you BOTH want and what you've discussed.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be clear with each other and with him about what the limits of the relationship are. You can't ask us where to set the boundaries, you have to discuss this between the three of you and set those boundaries yourselves.

If you set those limits properly, then you'll be able to have a fulfilling threeway relationship that everyone involved is comfortable with.

If you don't set them properly, then one or more of you may end up developing feelings that imbalance the relationship and make things complicated.

Once you've agreed those boundaries, anything else is irrelevant: its up to you to decide where those boundaries are based on what it is all parties concerned are looking for.