FabSwingers.com forum: What is the trick of getting a meet

By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Hello

What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.

Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.

Help please TIA

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Luck. If you are a man.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Be polite be patient and take no for an answer

Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.

Just be honest and be interested good luck .

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By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer

Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.

Just be honest and be interested good luck . "

Tried all that. Need a miracle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello

What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.

Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.

Help please TIA"
have some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker

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By *erlinMan
over a year ago

bristol

You need be about 20 good looking with a massive cock lol

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By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Unfortunately not 20 but have a massive cock so people say

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By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Hello

What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.

Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.

Help please TIAhave some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker

maybe I should try that I

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Try attending a few socials x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try attending a few socials x"

What they said.

You have been on for at least two years. By seems never been to a group social. Swinging is as much about chatting and socialing as it is the sex if not more. No couple or single is going to think much when see profile if looks like not effort to mix is being put in

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Did someone mention cake ?? ?? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like people have said try socials or clubs. I think the real secret is just be nice be willing to have good conversation and not be pushy. these things have worked for me.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Same as everywhere, be yourself.

No point being anyone else, you'll be rumbled as soon as you met anyway.

Go to your local socials, join in on the forums, be respectful and don't expect anything.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Try attending a few socials x"

This,great way to get to know new friends that can lead to more

Miss

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

"Try attending a few socials x"

I have attended a few socials and not met a couple or single female yet.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

looked at ne pic in the hope to see your face, but all i can see is a place that needs tidying. That would put me off, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer

Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.

Just be honest and be interested good luck . "

This

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By *y93Man
over a year ago

London

I have to say socials and clubs got me started. It was so easy to meet and chat with people in those situations some of which lead to play, without those meets I doubt my profile would have gotten very far just on fab itself.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer

Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.

Just be honest and be interested good luck .

Tried all that. Need a miracle lol"

No, you need to make an effort and attend socials and/or clubs and start networking. Good luck. X

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By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford

"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer

Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.

Just be honest and be interested good luck .

Tried all that. Need a miracle lol

No, you need to make an effort and attend socials and/or clubs and start networking. Good luck. X"

Yeah totally agree to this advice - it was only after a few club nights that people noticed us so to speak and then comes verification which then also helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe don’t start with sexy chat, think of it how you’d approach someone in person. That photo of you in the mask is scary lol

If someone is really suggestive in their first message it can be offputting to some but u know others like it. Generally being yourself, making sure you’ve read the profile and discussing something from it works but they also have to be attracted and that can be the hard part on here. You may find you do better with clubs. Good luck! - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are times when we are planning a meet and welcome a decent message from verified fellas and couples. There are also times when we are horny and just want a "rent a cock" for some mmf.

I imagine a lot of guys who may be perfectly good looking guys miss out on these meets as they've been blocked for not reading profile.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Read profiles, respect wishes, make the most of your profile to stand out in a good way, some luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did someone mention cake ?? ?? ?? "
see

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

lying

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"You need be about 20 good looking with a massive cock lol"

20?!

Nah.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Not treating women like robots with buttons, for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need be about 20 good looking with a massive cock lol"

Nah, there's more people that won't meet 20 year old males than those that will tbf.

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By *lubberMan
over a year ago

Rothwell

"Hello

What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.

Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.

Help please TIA"

Is that a serious question? Are you after profile advice too?

The 'trick' is the same as in the pub or the coop, find somebody who finds you appealing and interest them, it's no different to real life, because it is real life. You can't just message people and expe t them to want to have sex with you if they don't fancy something about you. Unless you're in a club then it's more to do with atmosphere if the other person is at least OK looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No trick. Just be what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Luck. If you are a man. "

Nope that's not it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer

Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.

Just be honest and be interested good luck . "

That's not it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello

What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.

Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.

Help please TIAhave some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker

That's definitely not it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need be about 20 good looking with a massive cock lol"

Eurgh...I don't know where to start with this. No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try attending a few socials x"

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as everywhere, be yourself.

No point being anyone else, you'll be rumbled as soon as you met anyway.

Go to your local socials, join in on the forums, be respectful and don't expect anything. "

You should have stopped with be yourself. No one likes someone trying too hard

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Luck. If you are a man. "

Luck has nothing to do with it.

Effort does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to lie, the pic of you in the clown mask is probably hindering more than its helping. Same with the pic of you in the helmet and biker gear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not going to lie, the pic of you in the clown mask is probably hindering more than its helping. Same with the pic of you in the helmet and biker gear. "

Agreed. Bit scary ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello

What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.

Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.

Help please TIAhave some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker

That's definitely not it"
it is youre in denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that clown outfit and mask going to turn the ladies on? It looks a little creepy to be fair. Maybe have a look at changing some pics too? Good luck hope you find

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By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Maybe should wear my outfit for Asylum halloween eve ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the trick? Don't be a dick

Jokes aside, your pictures are not great.

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By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"What's the trick? Don't be a dick

Jokes aside, your pictures are not great. "

What pics do you recommend. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the trick? Don't be a dick

Jokes aside, your pictures are not great.

What pics do you recommend. ?"

Have you read the above comments, OP? The mask one isn’t the best to be honest ...

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By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"What's the trick? Don't be a dick

Jokes aside, your pictures are not great.

What pics do you recommend. ?

Have you read the above comments, OP? The mask one isn’t the best to be honest ... "

It's my Halloween outfit lol but yes I know people don't seem to like it ??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here."

Being appealing to your target audience

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By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here.

Being appealing to your target audience

Scary pic gone. It was Marionette from Five Nights at Freddie's and not a clown

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

If you're a man, and really single, then you need to be the Ferrari of men! You need to be above average across the board! This is swinging, this is sexual fun and fantasy! This is test driving a Ferrari around the Nürburgring! Not driving a Ford focus around the m25...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're a man, and really single, then you need to be the Ferrari of men! You need to be above average across the board! This is swinging, this is sexual fun and fantasy! This is test driving a Ferrari around the Nürburgring! Not driving a Ford focus around the m25..."

Yep. This is what I want. Obviously those looking for more will settle for less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here.

Being appealing to your target audience

Scary pic gone. It was Marionette from Five Nights at Freddie's and not a clown

With the best will in the world, most couples on Fab aren't going to look at your pics and think "Oh thats a character from a videogame" they're going to look and think you're dressed up as a psycho clown.

Your profile is your market stall. It's where you set out everything you have to offer to potential buyers. As such, if you want people to bite, you've got to make it appealing and sexy. If you want to post pics of you cosplaying as your favourite videogame characters, then more power to you, but if you want to meet up with people, you need to make yourself seem like the sort of guy they would want to meet up with.

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By *ichelangeloxMan
over a year ago

cambridge

As in most things if life, when your looking for it, you can’t find it. When you don’t care about finding it, hey presto, there it is!! Go figure!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the trick? Don't be a dick

Jokes aside, your pictures are not great.

What pics do you recommend. ?

Have you read the above comments, OP? The mask one isn’t the best to be honest ... "

Exactly.. plus you trying to cover the tattoos - just colouring over them is not a nice look.

Surely you can upload pictures in clothes which could be more esthetically pleasing...

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By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Thank you for all the tips. Got rid of the scary outfit and biker ones. Yeah I should try a club, having the guts to go will be a good start. May go to Asylum Halloween won't be wearing the clown outfit.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Try some pictures when you've got nice clothes on.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Hello

What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.

Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.

Help please TIAhave some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker

This could work!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"You need be about 20 good looking with a massive cock lol"

Ask most 20 year olds on here and they would majorly disagree.

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