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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice on how to be more successful would be appreciated! I’m struggling at the moment and even when I manage to start a conversation I end up getting ignored after 1 or 2 messages. I’m never disrespectful but still have no luck

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

You havent asked for profile advice so cang give it. But usually that's the first place we look.

4 links only profile. I'd suggest reading them. And remember theres less women on here than men. We have lots of choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I should have clarified but yeah it’s most probably something to with my profile. How would I stand out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You havent asked for profile advice so cang give it. But usually that's the first place we look.

4 links only profile. I'd suggest reading them. And remember theres less women on here than men. We have lots of choice. "

^^ this.

A message only gives so much about a person. I rely on the profile to tell me more and to whet my appetite. Otherwise I am less likely to keep messaging after the first one or two (when I can decide whether I'd like to meet or not).

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile literally says nothing that we can't already see in the summary.

All your photos are of your chest. You need some variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well to be honest your profile is really dull. It's not expressing any personality and your photos are not inviting. Have a look at others there are some good ones out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Those links are very good advice. I understand about how important a profile is compared to a message to keep interest. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok then I’ll change them up. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your honesty. I need a bit of a re-think, the hard part is making it stand out

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Thanks for your honesty. I need a bit of a re-think, the hard part is making it stand out"

If you search profile advise, there are hundreds of threads about how to improve your profile.

If ladies get 30 messages from guys, what would make them interested in chatting and hopefully meeting you.

What makes you different, fun. Think about your experiences, what you are good at, how you would like to meet.

Don't just write a list of what you want , think of how to interest people reading your profile.

Photos. More variety. Smart suit, trousers with zip partly down enticing the ladies. Your back, bum , legs. Look at guys profiles to get some ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on how to be more successful would be appreciated! I’m struggling at the moment and even when I manage to start a conversation I end up getting ignored after 1 or 2 messages. I’m never disrespectful but still have no luck "
its about personality, looks and profile is yours a good advert for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not goinv to sugar coat it. Your profile is shit..

Do your RESEARCH. Make an effort.

Engage with other outside of a screen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chill and do your own thing, don't be a sheep.

You've been here a while so surely you should know the sketch by now?

Either way, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile literally says nothing that we can't already see in the summary.

All your photos are of your chest. You need some variety. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the all the advice guys. Much appreciated

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