FabSwingers.com forum: a friend

By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

would you let your partner have sex with your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner can have sex with whoever he wants. I don't own him, don't control him.

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

he is a good friend of me and my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your partner want sex with this friend? Does your friend want sex with your partner?

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

i think she does and i think he would aswell

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

bump

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It could cause issues, be careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might take some engineering mostly from you. How do you expect to achieve it?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

With or without you present?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make them both aware of your thoughts on the matter yes or no if you’re not sure id default to a no until you are !!

Ambiguity and miss communication dangerous in theses scenarios

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Does she know you are on here OP?

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Might take some engineering mostly from you. How do you expect to achieve it?"

few drinks and see how it goes

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"With or without you present?"

either but id be happy to leave them alone

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Just make them both aware of your thoughts on the matter yes or no if you’re not sure id default to a no until you are !!

Ambiguity and miss communication dangerous in theses scenarios "

im happy for my wife to do it if she wants

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Sharing is caring!

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Sharing is caring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could cause issues, be careful."

Exactly this!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Your profile says that your wife doesn't play so I'm guessing it's a non starter.

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Your profile says that your wife doesn't play so I'm guessing it's a non starter."

she seems pretty flirty with my friend

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Flirty or friendly?....very different.

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Flirty or friendly?....very different."

both but seems to be more flirty

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

should i encourage her to get more flirty

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Green Arrow

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Might take some engineering mostly from you. How do you expect to achieve it?

few drinks and see how it goes"

Best doing these messy things sober. Stone cold sober.

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Green Arrow

green arrow ?

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Might take some engineering mostly from you. How do you expect to achieve it?

few drinks and see how it goes

Best doing these messy things sober. Stone cold sober. "

just a few drinks not getting d*unk lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

If she's now looking to play OP simply open a couples profile on here and take it from there as you could easily be misreading what you think is flirty behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Green Arrow

Got to love the green arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sex with one of my wife's friends occasionally, is great and has never caused any issues.

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"If she's now looking to play OP simply open a couples profile on here and take it from there as you could easily be misreading what you think is flirty behaviour."

ok noted

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"I have sex with one of my wife's friends occasionally, is great and has never caused any issues.

ok id like my wife and friend to have sex i wouldnt object if she wanted him

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Green Arrow

Got to love the green arrow

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Might take some engineering mostly from you. How do you expect to achieve it?

few drinks and see how it goes

Best doing these messy things sober. Stone cold sober.

just a few drinks not getting d*unk lol"

Reducing inhibitions can still lead to regret later on.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Green Arrow

Got to love the green arrow

Yup!

Dreamer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have sex with one of my wife's friends occasionally, is great and has never caused any issues.

ok id like my wife and friend to have sex i wouldnt object if she wanted him"

My wife set it up for me.

She asked If wanted to first.

Never looked back.

Maybe ask her how she feels about it.

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"I have sex with one of my wife's friends occasionally, is great and has never caused any issues.

ok id like my wife and friend to have sex i wouldnt object if she wanted him

My wife set it up for me.

She asked If wanted to first.

Never looked back.

Maybe ask her how she feels about it. "

ok thats a good idea

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

You need to talk to her about this as a fantasy, see how she feels. Talk about feelings, your love for each other, jeoulousy, boundaries. If all seems good talk to him too, approach from the fantasy side, see how he reacts. Talk about trust, the risk of feelings becoming involved, that you and her are not to be divided or controlled, see how he responds.

Then think, this could ruin your friendship with him, is it worth that ?. My partner won't play with 'normal' friends for that reason yet has played with others who then became friends

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Iv had sex with 3 of C's mates, sometimes C is there sometimes he isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such ménage a trois can flourish for years, unbeknownst to all parties.

Look a bit deeper old son, you may be in one already.

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By *newbiesCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Our first ever experience was me and the bf playing with my friend.

He didn't fuck her but had a play... I was more selfish and wanted to play with her myself haha

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

mmm some very good comments

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

Me and a ex did it with one of my friends . Big mistake. We talked about before hand planned i be out when he came round one day . She made it clear she was up for bit fun. Problem was he did and still does not understand swinging . He thought it was affair or payback for something i had done . Even after we turned it to 3 some with him. He tuck to texting her ring trying to see her without me etc even after she told him we meet couple etc for fun..old saying dont mess on own doorstep..

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Me and a ex did it with one of my friends . Big mistake. We talked about before hand planned i be out when he came round one day . She made it clear she was up for bit fun. Problem was he did and still does not understand swinging . He thought it was affair or payback for something i had done . Even after we turned it to 3 some with him. He tuck to texting her ring trying to see her without me etc even after she told him we meet couple etc for fun..old saying dont mess on own doorstep.."

You probably should have been clear with your friend first - that you didn't mind to share your wife with him. It would have then been clear to you if that was likely to work or not.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Absolutely not,same as i'd never go with one of Jacks friends....

Things can turn sour quickly in friendships

Plenty of choice for him and me on here.

Miss

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

"Sharing is caring!

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Suggest it and leave it at that if she decides to take it further then it's up to her, but don't push the idea has it may backfire.

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By *2345tony OP Man
over a year ago

gateshead

"Suggest it and leave it at that if she decides to take it further then it's up to her, but don't push the idea has it may backfire. "

ok thanks il do that

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By *lubberMan
over a year ago

Rothwell

"would you let your partner have sex with your friend "

Yes, as long as I got to watch, unfortunately not a reciprocated feeling, one of the few, things we don't agree on, damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It has the potential to make things awkward and people I'm friends with mean more to me than a one off fuck that could ruin that.

Sin.

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