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"Have done it, but not often. While the sensation wasn't bad - can see how you could really get into it - didn't like the 'not being in control' aspect. I'm very tops and am happy to leave it at that. " that's what troubles me its just at that moment I felt I wanted cock in me which has never occurred. I love my ass being played with, rimmed but don't really get any sensations if I'm fingered so don't know wwhy I got that urge | |||
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"Have done it, but not often. While the sensation wasn't bad - can see how you could really get into it - didn't like the 'not being in control' aspect. I'm very tops and am happy to leave it at that. that's what troubles me its just at that moment I felt I wanted cock in me which has never occurred. I love my ass being played with, rimmed but don't really get any sensations if I'm fingered so don't know wwhy I got that urge" Just curiosity I expect, I wondered what men got out of it as most I've been with, and watched, really love it. Many are versatile which is fine, but with others like me the mental blocks overcome the physical pleasure. You need to try it though, you won't know until you do! ![]() | |||
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"Brave post mate. We had a meet a couple of years ago with a Bi guy. He wanted me to fuck his arse while he was up Mrs N, to form a little train and tender, I guess. Mrs N said you'd better do as he asks. So anyway I fetched some lube and a rubber but then my brain said noooooooooooo, you are not doing that LOL. Mr Floppy came a calling. Yes, I guess the feeling and vibe given off in a meet makes the difference, I don't think I could plan ahead for the situation to arise but in that moment of pure pleasure our inhibitions seem to vanish. I remember first time I fisted someone it just happened during a highly charged erotic meet and was amazing I cannot be top, I am just not wired for it. Not sure about bottom LOL. Depends if Mrs N says " you'd better do as he asks LOL"." | |||
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"Brave post mate. We had a meet a couple of years ago with a Bi guy. He wanted me to fuck his arse while he was up Mrs N, to form a little train and tender, I guess. Mrs N said you'd better do as he asks. So anyway I fetched some lube and a rubber but then my brain said noooooooooooo, you are not doing that LOL. Mr Floppy came a calling. I cannot be top, I am just not wired for it. Not sure about bottom LOL. Depends if Mrs N says " you'd better do as he asks LOL"." Yes, I guess the feeling and vibe given off in a meet makes the difference, I don't think I could plan ahead for the situation to arise but in that moment of pure pleasure our inhibitions seem to vanish. I remember first time I fisted someone it just happened during a highly charged erotic meet and was amazing | |||
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"Don't take on more than you can handle , just stick with the rusty trombone ![]() what instrument size would you say is the best to handle ![]() | |||
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"I enjoy the stimulation, but the thought of another guy doing it is just not for me. The wife has a strap on and I have prostate massager/cock ring for when I fancy back door fun. Pegging is something we keep for ourselves although I wouldn't be averse to wearing a p spot cock ring during play in clubs etc." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Give it a go, otherwise you will never know. The people posting on here unsure about another man being in control, well, sit on his lap then. You'll be in full control. Don't expect miracles for your first go. It takes a little getting used to. " I'm not really thinking along the lines of should I do it or not, It was just the way out of the blue I had the urge to do it. As for the control thing I think you can still be in charge of things even if you're the one being fucked ![]() | |||
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"Give it a go, otherwise you will never know. The people posting on here unsure about another man being in control, well, sit on his lap then. You'll be in full control. Don't expect miracles for your first go. It takes a little getting used to. I'm not really thinking along the lines of should I do it or not, It was just the way out of the blue I had the urge to do it. As for the control thing I think you can still be in charge of things even if you're the one being fucked ![]() There's a guy I know that is pretty much only top. He say's he gets the urge every now and again with the right person and if he's feeling horny enough to do it. | |||
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"Ive only managed anal about twice to completion i just find it too painful no matter i relax and tons of lube. Tried everything to see if that works no luck there i cant even take a small butt plug so frustrating " Search 'anal' posts in the forum. There has been some usefull stuff in the comments from men and women. | |||
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"Oh and not a massive one. At first ![]() I wouldn't mind you riding me ![]() | |||
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"Oh and not a massive one. At first ![]() ![]() Haha its a deal ![]() | |||
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"I tend to top gay guys but bottom for bi or straight Strange right ![]() That does sound strange lol... I have no logic to who I top and bottom for either, just kinda do what feels right I suppose! | |||
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"Oh and not a massive one. At first ![]() ![]() ![]() Let me know when you're available ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Oh and not a massive one. At first ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I certainly will. Be gentle ![]() | |||
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"A nice post. I'm still curious to know what a finger or two might feel like up my ass. Would love to be blown while my ass is played with. " You will get the most explosive orgasm that you have ever had. I speak from experience ?? | |||
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"A nice post. I'm still curious to know what a finger or two might feel like up my ass. Would love to be blown while my ass is played with. You will get the most explosive orgasm that you have ever had. I speak from experience ??" Never had a guy cum so much after I slipped him a finger ![]() | |||
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"Daamn now I deffo wana try it. ![]() Well you're in the right place ![]() | |||
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"Daamn now I deffo wana try it. ![]() ![]() but unfortunately got noone that's interested to help me experiment. Ideally seeking a bi mf couple cos I wana not only experience getting fingered but wana share and suck my first cock too. | |||
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"Daamn now I deffo wana try it. ![]() ![]() Their loss fella ![]() | |||
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"Daamn now I deffo wana try it. ![]() ![]() ![]() I wont loose hope though. Have a great day | |||
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"Brave post mate. We had a meet a couple of years ago with a Bi guy. He wanted me to fuck his arse while he was up Mrs N, to form a little train and tender, I guess. Mrs N said you'd better do as he asks. So anyway I fetched some lube and a rubber but then my brain said noooooooooooo, you are not doing that LOL. Mr Floppy came a calling. I cannot be top, I am just not wired for it. Not sure about bottom LOL. Depends if Mrs N says " you'd better do as he asks LOL"." Well mrs could always peg you ![]() | |||
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"had a meet with a guy the other day and for the first time ever I had an urge to take cock, which has never crossed my mind before. Guy couldn't get hard again after cumming following oral otherwise I was definitely in the mood and its been on my mind since so I wondered about the experiences of other previously top only guys who started taking cock" Loving this thread guys.. ![]() | |||
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"Definitely on my to do list have been oral with a few guys need to try being bottom for anal" ![]() ![]() | |||
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