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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the title says I live and work relatively close to a couple clubs. Every time I get ready to go to one I chicken out of it, as I'm scared I might bump into someone I know. Any advice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are not likely to out you as a swinger to your friends and family as they are also in a swingers club

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

There`s no guarantee that going to a club further away will stop this! I`ve had it happen 150 miles away from where I live.

If you see someone you know, they`re there for the same thing as you. If you make eye contact, give a polite nod of the head and move on, unless you fancy each other of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to think the same, but we have never met anyone we know at our local club. Also we have come to the point were we are not bothered if we do meet anyone we know. After all we are all there for the same reason, to have fun.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I've bumped into a few people I know but we are in the same place so we've had a chat and just carried on with our nights.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I don't understand why it should bother you , if ur neighborhood peers are then they are there for the same reasons unless ur going to tab oo to suck cocks lol

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We live 50 plus miles away from our local and we ran into people we knew. But then there's none in our county

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

It's not a problem bumping into people I know at a club. It shouldn't worry anyone, unless they are cheating on their husband and wife. That would be awkward.

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

As a single man, what is it you fear about meeting someone you know?

A single man looking for sex is hardly newsworthy and doesn't carry the same social stigma as couples swinging or women having multiple partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it...live and enjoy life.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I've run into a customer from work (retail) at a club, who asked me to please refrain from mentioning where we'd met if i saw him with his wife.

I asked him, in return, to please not announce to my coworkers the same thing.

As if (mine probably all guessed, anyway).

I find people at clubs to be quite discreet, and more interested in their own business than anyone else's.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

More likely to be a problem if a non swinger friend neighbour co worker etc sees you entering or leaving said establishment

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I guess you can bump into anyone anywhere. I bumped into my brother on a Thursday afternoon in a sex shop 150 miles away from home. It could happen anywhere

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"More likely to be a problem if a non swinger friend neighbour co worker etc sees you entering or leaving said establishment"

I wonder what the problem would be here anyway. The OP is a single guy entering a club where sex happens. That's not really something to be ashamed of if you are spotted? In fact the non swinger would probably be very jealous

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP go for it. I haven’t met anyone I know in a club. But they are there for the same reason as you. I know others have said it easier for a single man, but I believe it’s just as difficult. I was so nervous going into my first club. I would recommend going on a night an event is on and get yourself on the guest list.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I live 19 minutes away from one. Never been.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Have bumped into someone from work at a club and it was nowhere near the office. Everyone is there for the same thing so no need to worry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I live even closer than that...to two!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do it mate. We live super close to one and it’s the only one we go to... we have only seen someone we know once.. and let’s face it, your all there for the same thing. No point in travelling miles for something that’s just as good nearby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me.

I live not far from xtasia and chameleons and I don't care what people think, after all we are there for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find the people are scared normally have something to hide about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone thought along the lines of its better to travel further away, you’d probably meet more people that you know! Why anyone worries though as if they are in the club too, who they gonna tell?

We have 2 clubs within 15 minutes of us but frankly there are better clubs further afield when we have the desire to go. We wouldn’t care if we bumped into anyone we know

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

If only we had a club nearby. The nearest club to us is an hour & half drive - oh the joys of living in Lincolnshire!

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By *iraelWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

An work colleague found my fab profile using the “who’s near” feature on here, then promptly sent a message asking what Chams was like. They’d only ever been up to Cupid’s as too worried about bumping into someone at Chams.

They’re now an ex colleague, and we have a good gossip in the bar at Chams once a month or so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

These are the two i'm close to!

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