FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to meet anyone!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning all. Was on here before but subscription ran out. Never got to meet anyone and rarely had anyone reply. Any tips at all?

Cheers!

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

It’s your profile. Just one line and a single picture doesn’t make you stand out. There are thousands of single guys on here so there is a lot of competition.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Morning all. Was on here before but subscription ran out. Never got to meet anyone and rarely had anyone reply. Any tips at all?

Cheers!"

Go to a club or social meet up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't think I'd have the balls to go on my own lol

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Don't think I'd have the balls to go on my own lol"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I'd need to go with someone first to show me the ropes!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Think I'd need to go with someone first to show me the ropes!"

Realistically that is unlikely to happen. Some clubs have newbie nights. They are friendly and social. If you stuggle with those then you need to think if clubs are for you.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Morning all. Was on here before but subscription ran out. Never got to meet anyone and rarely had anyone reply. Any tips at all?

Cheers!"

Personally think you need to show more body and cock pics.looks too dull atm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think I'd need to go with someone first to show me the ropes!

Realistically that is unlikely to happen. Some clubs have newbie nights. They are friendly and social. If you stuggle with those then you need to think if clubs are for you. "

Thanks for the advice hadn't said about the clubs. Also didn't know they done newbie nights.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning all. Was on here before but subscription ran out. Never got to meet anyone and rarely had anyone reply. Any tips at all?

Cheers!

Personally think you need to show more body and cock pics.looks too dull atm"

You read some profiles and ask for no cock pics.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Don't think I'd have the balls to go on my own lol"

Take a few deep breaths, screw up your courage and walk on in with your head held high and smile at people.

I did and not looked back.

If it is a well run and regular social then they will be used to nervous newbies and will do everything they can to make you feel relaxed and to get you talking with people.

If I can do it then anyone can.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Think I'd need to go with someone first to show me the ropes!"

When you go to a club, tell them you are new. You should get a tour of the club, rules explained and ask if they will introduce you to a couple of friendly regulars.

There are loads of posts about profile advise, so search for those and have a read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy once in a blue blue moon get any luck always looking getting nowhere

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Think I'd need to go with someone first to show me the ropes!"

Take a mate with you then.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Think I'd need to go with someone first to show me the ropes!"

There's not really any ropes to be shown. All clubs have social ares, bars, comfy places to sit, just like any other bar or club. Just go and do that, any sexual exploits are a bonus.

Always call the club first, they will give you their rules and expectations (nearly all of them are exactly the same) and google 'swinging etiquette'.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's the same as going to a regular pub or club OP. Some social skills are needed. Just behave like you normally would in a social situation and you should be fine.

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