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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all! Looking for some advice

Really enjoying this site so far and have to ask some advice...

I totally understand people (especially women) have to look out for safety and use verifications to do so. I have been turned down a couple of times because I don't have veris but can't get veris unless I meet someone...any advice appreciated

Ps. I am not spamming dick pics or aggressive messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all! Looking for some advice

Really enjoying this site so far and have to ask some advice...

I totally understand people (especially women) have to look out for safety and use verifications to do so. I have been turned down a couple of times because I don't have veris but can't get veris unless I meet someone...any advice appreciated

Ps. I am not spamming dick pics or aggressive messages "

You've only been here a week. These things take time. Patience is important. Chat, if u can, and dont push for a meet.

Good luck

P.

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By *inkyandperky555Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Go to social club meets.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Social meet, Club or get someone to veri you on cam, It`s a start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can single guys get verified on cam? I thought only by meets?

As in, the webcam part on this website?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Social meet, Club or get someone to veri you on cam, It`s a start."
this and be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me about 5 weeks to get my first verification then my second was from a club visit. Be patient it will happen.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If they like/fancy you enough I'm sure they will get over your lack of veris

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Go to a club chat away with no expectations, soon find your verifications, and friends change bottom half of your profile, maybe swinging but women like to be made to feel special. Don’t bother with cam just looks like you love wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all! Looking for some advice

Really enjoying this site so far and have to ask some advice...

I totally understand people (especially women) have to look out for safety and use verifications to do so. I have been turned down a couple of times because I don't have veris but can't get veris unless I meet someone...any advice appreciated

Ps. I am not spamming dick pics or aggressive messages "

Cam is the easiest, although some will still want a personal veri.That means club, or social, at which point you may decide it isn't worth the hassle, or you may not.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A social doesn't have to be arranged meets with quite a few people. Trying to chat and meet up for a coffee can get you are verification. So maybe once you do get chatting with someone suggest this as an icebreaker

Cam verifications are what they say on the tin, so some will treat those as not genuine veris, but still better than nothing.

Club visits are probably the quickest way, especially if you end up having fun with someone.

Good luck Op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Can single guys get verified on cam? I thought only by meets?

As in, the webcam part on this website?"

Yes they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perseverance, keep being polite, friendly and take 'no thanks' replies with good grace and eventually you'll get your first veri.

That's what I found at least, it's a marathon not a sprint.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Took us over six months to get our first then we went to a social. This and going to the clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can single guys get verified on cam? I thought only by meets?

As in, the webcam part on this website?"

Personally as some advice - I do not regard webcam veris as a true veri. So someone has seen you on cam? How does that even go towards to who you are, what your about, if your a safe person to meet?

I would suggest - go to some socials, or find a club that allows single males meet and chat couples and others and gain the veris the true way.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I wouldn't focus too much on the whole verification thing, it's true some people want verifications, others are not bothered at all though.

If you feel it's something that is really holding you back pop along to a social or a club, like others have said oh go on cam or in the chat rooms and ask if somebody would please verify you.

It can just be hard work on here not necessarily anything to do with verifications

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