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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Well I've been on here like forever lol and no meets is there something wrong with me or my profile that screams run away.

Now I do send msgs to ppl and yes I send thought out and nice msgs no one liners and always try tailor to persons profile but get very little response.

And yes I know women get loads mail and men out number women 1000000000 to 1 lol

But surely I can't be this ugly or bad to chat, get know an play with lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just come across as slightly desperate! And using sesh in your profile isn't good!

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Really how it sound desperate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldn't say you were ugly but

- there are probably better looking guys in your area also looking to meet

- there are guys who don't come across as verging on desperate to meet

just enjoy the site rather than sending out messages in the hope of a positive answer

i am great believer in that if you expect, it never happens (or at least not in the manner you had hoped)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every woman thinks my god I want you! Sometimes you just aren't there type! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok sorry again if u really want to meet people go to clubs and do socials and that way u actually chat to people and they can tell u r nice written words can be good face to face is better x

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"ok sorry again if u really want to meet people go to clubs and do socials and that way u actually chat to people and they can tell u r nice written words can be good face to face is better x"

Sounds good thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op sorry to say this but you really need some punctuation in your profile. I found it hard to read without it.

You don't need to talk about your personal life ie music. You really just need to say what you're looking for, your likes and can offer.x

your cock pic with untrimmed pubes is really off putting to x

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"Op sorry to say this but you really need some punctuation in your profile. I found it hard to read without it.

You don't need to talk about your personal life ie music. You really just need to say what you're looking for, your likes and can offer.x

your cock pic with untrimmed pubes is really off putting to x "

Thanks for the info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the cock pics!

Best of luck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok sorry again if u really want to meet people go to clubs and do socials and that way u actually chat to people and they can tell u r nice written words can be good face to face is better x

Sounds good thanks"
yes get your self out meeting people xx look at the socials and clubs thay are alot of fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, now u messaged me 3 weeks ago, i cant remember what your message said but i looked at and read your profile and wasnt tempetd to reply, sorry

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"ok sorry again if u really want to meet people go to clubs and do socials and that way u actually chat to people and they can tell u r nice written words can be good face to face is better x

Sounds good thanks yes get your self out meeting people xx look at the socials and clubs thay are alot of fun xxx"

You know I wanted come meet u jo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to play around with your profile a bit but it is a work in progress. I agree you need to shave your pubes or at least a serious trim.

We as a couple really want to see that the prospective guy is clean, discreet and is able to hold a conversation and is willing to email back and forth a few times until we are happy that we want to meet him for a drink etc then if we are all happy have some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok sorry again if u really want to meet people go to clubs and do socials and that way u actually chat to people and they can tell u r nice written words can be good face to face is better x

Sounds good thanks yes get your self out meeting people xx look at the socials and clubs thay are alot of fun xxx

You know I wanted come meet u jo lol "
well you never know as you come across a nice man xx be positive and you see xx

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"You need to play around with your profile a bit but it is a work in progress. I agree you need to shave your pubes or at least a serious trim.

We as a couple really want to see that the prospective guy is clean, discreet and is able to hold a conversation and is willing to email back and forth a few times until we are happy that we want to meet him for a drink etc then if we are all happy have some fun."

Thank you I've never thought about trimming etc so may be something to try, I also enjoy chat an emails to know ppl before social meet

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Well tried to take advice on board an rewritten pages hope its better now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself! You seem like a nice guy!

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Thanks ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just reread your profile and it's much better now.

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"just reread your profile and it's much better now.

"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try emphasising the fact that you can accommodate and are happy for last minute spontaneous fun - pretty sure you will soon get lucky then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to keep positive, live your life for yourself and enjoy doing things that you want to do.

If you think you can improve yourself or want to improve certain areas, do it and don't be afraid to commit yourself to self improvement.

Be positive and confident and you will be drowning in pussy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if you have time, come along to Fab Northern Chatroom - it's a great way to make new friends, get invites to parties and socials, and generally enjoy the fun and laughter side of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd invest in a few lucky charms and shrunken heads and dangle them from a tree in the garden too...

Wolf

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"ok sorry again if u really want to meet people go to clubs and do socials and that way u actually chat to people and they can tell u r nice written words can be good face to face is better x"

The site is just a networking tool, use it to get to socials ect and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you're Bi sexual but you don't mention in it that you are looking for a couple with a Bi male. A lot of couple have only a Bi fem, like us and we wouldn't look twice at a profile if the guy is Bi but wanting meets with straight couples. Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same, single men do find it harder. But the lucky ones that take the chance are pleased. Im back on after two years and already faced the struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read the old profile but this one looks fine. Maybe take out the penultimate paragraph as.that makes it sound more like dating than swinging. You could make more about being able to accomodate as that will increase your chances. You look like a good looking guy so put some more pics up of face and erotic body shots. Good luck! Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks will have find someone to take some I find them hard do and even though I have them hate mirror photos! x

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Thank you all for the info and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok sorry again if u really want to meet people go to clubs and do socials and that way u actually chat to people and they can tell u r nice written words can be good face to face is better x

Sounds good thanks"

It is good advice. For us and many others we meet, it is "personality that makes person attractive, thats why it is called a PERSONALITY.

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