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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suffer from ed although my doctor says it's all in the mind.

What's the best way to arrange a meet to explore the possibility that the doctor is wrong.

my offers welcome

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England


"I suffer from ed although my doctor says it's all in the mind.

What's the best way to arrange a meet to explore the possibility that the doctor is wrong.

my offers welcome "

Yes im sure you future meets would love the idea of being a Guinea Pig. Im sure you will have a que of women flocking up with an offer of 50/50 chance of getting it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from ed although my doctor says it's all in the mind.

What's the best way to arrange a meet to explore the possibility that the doctor is wrong.

my offers welcome "

Try a prostitute they dont care aslong as they get paid

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Viagra

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

You can get pills for that these days if your doctor will not prescribe them you can buy over the counter now at most pharmacies. If you don't want to do that there are internet site that sell them too.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Maybe you aint attracted to women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doctor says Viagra or other ed remedies should not be taken if you have high blood pressure

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

A pair of lolly sticks and some rubber bands...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work out when it started happening (or not as the case maybe) and see what changed in your life that could be causing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some very rude and uncalled for comments on this thread. From men I might add.

From a females point of view I would say to discuss your predicament with any potential meets. There is plenty of stuff you can do sexually with a lady that does not include penetrative sex. Oral, finger play ect.I have met men with this problem and had fun Hev female half xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doctor says Viagra or other ed remedies should not be taken if you have high blood pressure"

What are you taking for blood pressure, some treatments can cause erectile problems x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pair of lolly sticks and some rubber bands..."

...And here's me thinking this forum is for Support And Advice.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Your doc could be right. If all other medical reasons, Prostate problems, diabetes, etc have been ruled out, then your Ed could be caused by whatever is going on in your head. Stress, tiredness, lack of arousal etc. Usually, if you get a hardon in your sleep, or wake up with a boner, it's a sign that your hydraulics are functioning OK.

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london


"Doctor says Viagra or other ed remedies should not be taken if you have high blood pressure"

Rubbish. I get mine on Precription due to high blood pressure

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

You could always get yourself a penis extension sleeve or hollow strap on. They are great fun to use and play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doctor says Viagra or other ed remedies should not be taken if you have high blood pressure

Rubbish. I get mine on Precription due to high blood pressure"

why is it rubbish ?? hes not you ?? you dont know his medical back ground not everyone can take ed meds my hubs was took of them as they nearly killed him

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Doctor says Viagra or other ed remedies should not be taken if you have high blood pressure

Rubbish. I get mine on Precription due to high blood pressure"

If your Dr has advised against taking medication I'd listen to the medical professional rather than an internet forum. If it is psychological speak to them again I'm sure they can offer some suggestions.

I took a long hard look at mysrlf in the mirror this morning... some fu*ker put viagra in my eye drops

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london


"Doctor says Viagra or other ed remedies should not be taken if you have high blood pressure

Rubbish. I get mine on Precription due to high blood pressure

why is it rubbish ?? hes not you ?? you dont know his medical back ground not everyone can take ed meds my hubs was took of them as they nearly killed him"

Sorry if that come across as rude. My doctor offered them to me when I was told I had high blood pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, even though I am a woman, I can understand how your problem can seriously affect you. Men are supposed to be able to 'perform', but we are all affected by what is in our heads. Sometimes you might not be aroused enough, not necessarily by the person, but by the situation/location etc. Sometimes it might be what is called 'performance anxiety' - you worry you're going to have problems getting or staying hard, and you worry you'd disappoint the person you're with. Then it becomes the self-fulfilling prophecy.

I'd say being honest and open about it with your partner/meet is the best strategy. As not every single woman needs to be fucked senseless, some prefer oral/fingering/boob play etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But also, I'd carefully check the side effects of any medication you might be taking - one of my past meets, on my previous profile, discovered that his ulcer medication was causing his issues.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Look for soft swing profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from ed although my doctor says it's all in the mind.

What's the best way to arrange a meet to explore the possibility that the doctor is wrong.

my offers welcome "

You can inject your penis to get hard. Amount injected depends how long its to last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try getting your testosterone checked.

If you have low t it can cause issues but doctors don't regularly test it and many won't acknowledge that male androgen deficiency is a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When these things are are non physical they can be a right pain as the issue compounds itself. Once you have one instance of ed, next time you need an erection, it plays on the mind and makes it even worse.

Had this after a vasectomy, was told it was all in the mind and nothing pills would sort out. Got some pills online and they worked. Only needed them twice and the problem went away.

I'm sure the pills were just working as a placebo and had no medical effect but it enabled me to overcome the mental anxiety.

The herbal ones from the machine in the supermarket worked, after that I went online and bought some more, thinking they were the same but what turned up was a sildamax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you exercise much? How much do you masturbate and consume pornography? Are you under stress? Sleeping well? How's your diet?

All of the above (and more!) can cause ED so maybe take some time for some self-evaluation to get to the root cause of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When these things are are non physical they can be a right pain as the issue compounds itself. Once you have one instance of ed, next time you need an erection, it plays on the mind and makes it even worse.

Had this after a vasectomy, was told it was all in the mind and nothing pills would sort out. Got some pills online and they worked. Only needed them twice and the problem went away.

I'm sure the pills were just working as a placebo and had no medical effect but it enabled me to overcome the mental anxiety.

The herbal ones from the machine in the supermarket worked, after that I went online and bought some more, thinking they were the same but what turned up was a sildamax."

Sildamax is sildenafil sulphate. Aka viagra

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester


"Doctor says Viagra or other ed remedies should not be taken if you have high blood pressure"

My hubby has type 1 diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholesterol and gets it no problem.only needs it if we plan on having a right session.but suppose everyone is different xx

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london


"How much do you masturbate and consume pornography?

All of the above (and more!) can cause ED ."

My Doctor. She told me that’s cobblers when I said I masturbate every day.

Even said to me use porn to try turn the wife on.

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By *r_StockingtopsMan
over a year ago

Selby

Viagra and analogs actually reduce blood pressure, it was actually discovered in a blood pressure trial as the side effect were erections. You definitely can't take them if you are on any kind of nitrate heart medications but apart from that, the side effects are quite mild and short lived. You can try an online pharmacy like Lloyds online doctor as you will have to an an online assessment and won't be prescribed them without a long health questionnaire. They do help my ED but it's important to rule out other factors like diabetes first. It's a common problem, be open and honest about it and you can still have a lot of fun.

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