FabSwingers.com forum: Period and going to a club ??

By *ooBoo2300 OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!

Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft play definitely seems a shame to miss out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the guy you’re meeting......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take 3 ibuprofen about 6 hours before and it will be dried up by the evening. I have used this trick many times.

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By *ooBoo2300 OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’m not sure the ibuprofen will work for me, I have a very heavy flow.I will try it though. I use a moon cup as it holds the most!!

I’ll tell the guy I’ve arranged to meet, I don’t expect him to stick by my side all the time either...or if you arrange to meet someone, are you supposed to only play with them?! Argh this was so much easier as a couple!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your worried just rearrange it for later in the week or the week after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Friday will you be finished by Tuesday. If not be honest or raincheck x

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By *ooBoo2300 OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’m gonna be full flow by Tuesday...?????

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Ohwwe no, just no sorry. I just couldnt, I have to rearrange, but thats just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a Bloody Mary special .

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I would cancel

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

I have been to a club before with my period.... Just socialise and soft play, but let the guy know who you are meeting x

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By *wesomethreesomeCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Warrington

Explain to the guy if he decent he will understand. Still go to the club. You don't have to play. If it your first time there go to get the feel of the place chat to staff and clientele and enjoy the experience the club has to offer x. K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take 3 ibuprofen about 6 hours before and it will be dried up by the evening. I have used this trick many times."

Never tried this. Will be popping these tomorrow

P.s i would re arrange. Nikki x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Rearrange.

In future, look into Beppy sponges. Maybe not for full flow, depending on your cycle.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm rearrange for when I was feeling 100%.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would rearrange. There are always other meets at clubs......plenty of guys who will offer their services.....!

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I'd rearrange too. Because of the horrible pain I get with it too, I couldn't meet someone.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I’m not sure the ibuprofen will work for me, I have a very heavy flow.I will try it though. I use a moon cup as it holds the most!!

I have horrendous periods and it works for me. I did it accidentally the first time as I was dosing up through illness and I wondered why my period had stopped part way through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications

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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications"

You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took Norethisterone to stop my periods on a holiday. Spent the whole time feeling sick from the tablets instead.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I took Norethisterone to stop my periods on a holiday. Spent the whole time feeling sick from the tablets instead."

Norethisterone made me grow thick facial hair....not good!!!

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By *LOVEpinacoladasWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

Beppy tampon! Basically a sponge you put up there that you can have sex with. Can be a bugger getting it out again though... These have been great for me when I've had a weekend away/party planned and my period's kicked in.

I guess you're not on the pill or you'd have said, but if you are you can just continue taking them and miss the break.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Luckily for me I’m in the menopause, best thing about it is my periods stopped a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!

Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "

If you're not on the pill, I would go on the mini pill. I'm on it and never have a period as you continually take it without a break. Then it's fun all the time!

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Ladies, although it's lovely to be able to play all the time, have no pain & fewer swings, please be careful that you don't make yourself ill & do get a dexa scan done if your on long term contraceptives (6yrs plus) without a period because you can develop ostereoparosis through lack of calcium & hormones, especially if it's the jag form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications

You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday. "

You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week

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By *im and her HertsCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Take 3 ibuprofen about 6 hours before and it will be dried up by the evening. I have used this trick many times."

Me too

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By *im and her HertsCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!

Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "

Go anyway. It's just as much about the socialising fun too. I have before and just soft play too. Just be honest with the guy if it escalates. You can still please him or her

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By *im and her HertsCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!

Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "

Or you can just take your date back to your room and have some messy play together and even more in the shower.

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

If you are asking for opinions, I will give mine. NO! Just really, no. Periods have never stopped me having sex if I am WITH someone but for me, it seems strange to even consider it on a first meet? But that’s just my opinion. Your life, your choice. Do whatever makes you happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a horny guys point of view...

Tell the guy (or girl) and let them decide if they are up for it.

I have enjoyed my face and tongue being used during periods many times and it just adds to the appeal. I might he weird though

I am sure I am not the only guy to lie underneath and pull the cord

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'd be cancelling and making another date to go. X

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By *ob rodMan
over a year ago

lancaster

Tell him and it’s up to him

TBH there are that many time wasters on here he might presume u r one of them even though it’s genuine

Or offer to do a social somewhere else and don’t bother with club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!

Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "
go for it its only blood

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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications

You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.

You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week

You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Certainly let the guy know... and tell him it'll need to be anal only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took Norethisterone to stop my periods on a holiday. Spent the whole time feeling sick from the tablets instead."

Oh God. I took them for a week before my period was due and we were going to our monthly club event so I wanted to be able to play etc.....I thought I was going mad! Mood swings. Hot flushes. Acne. The works! Never taken any kind of contraception so I think my body was just like, 'NOPE!'

I've never tried the Ibuprofen thing before but will now. BDCAW Xx

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By *hedireCouple
over a year ago

wigan

A woman i was meeting for the first time for sex told me she was on her period and it was up to me if we had sex. It was messy and very horny. Advice is if you're ok with it just say.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Certainly let the guy know... and tell him it'll need to be anal only

That’s if she wants anal......goodness what an option

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!

Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "

The most important question is what do you want?

If your head is not into it, then even soft play may feel like more of a chore than a thing you are doing for your own enjoyment.

Clubs will always be there another night as will willing and sexy men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications

You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.

You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week

You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due). "

Does it work? How long does it take?

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By *ooBoo2300 OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks everyone! I’ve told him the situation and he seems ok with it, I’d like to go if I’m still in the mood!! But if my cramps are bad or flow really heavy I won’t be comfortable so I’ll make a decision on Monday. And yes, anal is certainly a great option!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Certainly let the guy know... and tell him it'll need to be anal only

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That’s if she wants anal......goodness what an option

I was kidding, but then the OP is wearing a strapon in one of her pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why let a bit of red spoil the fun??? I think you would be surprised by the amount of guys who do enjoy period play

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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications

You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.

You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week

You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).

Does it work? How long does it take? "

Takes 3/4 days for me but I have really heavy flow. Some people it can stop it in 2 days.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications

You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.

You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week

You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).

Does it work? How long does it take?

Takes 3/4 days for me but I have really heavy flow. Some people it can stop it in 2 days. "

Be careful using ibuprofen as a period stopper, it can cause harm.....let nature take its course......

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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications

You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.

You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week

You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).

Does it work? How long does it take?

Takes 3/4 days for me but I have really heavy flow. Some people it can stop it in 2 days.

Be careful using ibuprofen as a period stopper, it can cause harm.....let nature take its course......"

I was talking about Norethisterone. I can’t see how ibuprofen would work tbh. But people say it does.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.

Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications

You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.

You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week

You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).

Does it work? How long does it take?

Takes 3/4 days for me but I have really heavy flow. Some people it can stop it in 2 days.

Be careful using ibuprofen as a period stopper, it can cause harm.....let nature take its course......

I was talking about Norethisterone. I can’t see how ibuprofen would work tbh. But people say it does. "

Apologies I read it wrong. Yes Norethistetone if taken in enough time does work. It caused me thick facial hair though lol which was annoying....

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d cancel too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 ibuprofen once in a while will not cause any harm. Periods stopping is a while documented side effect of NSAIDs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can use bebby sponges they are for women that still want sex if you have your monthly’s I don’t play when I’m on but there are products out there if some choose to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beppy Sponge even

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I've been to clubs while bleeding before, I didn't really have a choice as I was almost permanently on my period back then, I didn't play often and then it was basically just giving blowjobs lol. Ask the guy you're meeting how he feels about it or if he'd like to rearrange, it's still your choice obviously but then you have more info to base your decision on.

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