FabSwingers.com forum: Starting out (older couple)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are married and looking to get some excitement back in the bedroom so we joined the site. As first timers we would like a social meet with a M/F couple first then meet the same couple and have same room sex with own partner, no touching from others just watching and being watched. Are couples into this or are we not going far enough. Advise welcome.

By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

There are other couples who do this and it isn’t unusual for new people to start in this way.

I’ll also point you towards clubs as a good way of exploring this. You can chat to others but only play together in the sort of environment you want, with others present.

There’s a club in Dundee now, haven’t had the chance to try it ourselves yet.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s how we started too. We took everything in baby steps! Many people go to clubs and only play alone but socialise with others. Have fun!! X

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are other couples who do this and it isn’t unusual for new people to start in this way.

I’ll also point you towards clubs as a good way of exploring this. You can chat to others but only play together in the sort of environment you want, with others present.

There’s a club in Dundee now, haven’t had the chance to try it ourselves yet. "

Thanks for replying, didn't want to start playing with others then calling a halt as things got uncomfortable, so any advise welcome

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

be absolutely clear from the start about what you want to do. If everyone understands there shouldn't be a problem. There are no hard and fast rules about how far you should go