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By *etsplay091 OP   Man
over a year ago

rotherham

This site is haaaardwork. How can you talk to women when they don't reply. How do you get verified meets when No1 wants to chat, let alone meet. ??

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

go to a club or an organised social. its really not that hard to get verified or to meet people within those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do chat, to those they’re interested in.

Go with the flow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks, give it time. You haven’t asked for advice so we can’t give it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile hints at the fact you may be cheating on your partner by been on fab / looking meets. Mainly the problematic accommodating without saying why. Having a family so discretion is a must.

Of course you may not be cheating and you are genuinely single. Either way though I'd make clear which it is on your profile.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep agree... it does hint you are in a relationship, hence the need to be discreet?

I’m single so it’s completely different, I’d suggest going to clubs first and getting to know people socially?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do want to chat. People do want to meet. Just not with you, it seems. Work on your messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is haaaardwork. How can you talk to women when they don't reply. How do you get verified meets when No1 wants to chat, let alone meet. ??"
try another site if this doesn't work, it can't work for everyone or go to a club cost you up to £70 but could be instant success but dont expect anything and you won't be disappointed or go to the Manchester social its a bit clicky but you can definitely pull there if of course youre worthy which im sure you are, good luck

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Three weeks is no time on here, there's guys who've never had a meet in over a year on this site.

Minimum effort with photos and profiles can be an issue, or not contributing to the forums, going to socials or clubs. As you've not asked for advice I can't comment on your profile.

One thing for certain, is you're competing with a lot of guys on here and not so many women.

Good luck Op

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

I wouldn’t waste my time on here there must be plenty of good clubs in your area look up when they have party nights and off you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the exception? I'm an ugly fucker but doing ok on here. I read a profile over and over before messaging so as to make a good impression when writing that all important first message. I take a risk in being 100% honest about not being very experienced but maybe people appreciate that? I don't know? I'm always respectful even if I get a no thanks but that's just me. Maybe I just got extremely lucky!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The site is as hard work as you want to make it OP - having the wrong expectations and a sense of entitlement will certainly make it seem so - likewise having the wrong attitude and approach or an unappealing profile etc

Not saying any of those apply to you necessarily but food for thought all the same.

I've never thought of the site as hard work, mainly because I don't see it as "work" at all - approach it with a laissez faire attitude and you might find the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am having a similar experience although perhaps not for the same reasons you are. Good luck and I guess going to a social would be a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be attraction to get someone interest a no reply just means you haven't sparked an interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 3 weeks.

Most men don't get their first meet until they've been here for at least 6 months. Some fair better, others worse.

Some of us have been here for years and still find that we don't get replies to messages, or even get our messages read.

That's how it goes on here. Nobody owes you a reply. It's in the site FAQ's.

What were your expectations on joining the site?

That you could stick up a couple of lines of text, a picture of your cock and be knee deep in offers by lunchtime?

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