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"Best to be honest and upfront from day one with him my advice, I am in the market to find a girlfriend ideal world from this site, though winning the lottery seems more likely. I met a lovely lady off POF some 8 months ago, and dated got on great but my life is swinging when I finally mentioned it I was subsiquently dumped and dubbed a pervo. I couldnt leave the scene have many friends I enjoy hooking up with and prefer to share a fun lifestyle. If you are in love simples, walk away from this or talk now " WOW...Im gobsmacked, someone who has actually managed to get a bloody date off POF | |||
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"Ok so I've been happily single for about 4 years but have recently started dating this really nice guy. its nothing serious and its official yet so im still free for play as i wish as we haven't got to that stage yet. " By that I take it you mean you haven't slept with him yet then so you deem it totally acceptable to shag whoever you still want until you make it serious by shagging the new guy ? ??? Or have you both agreed that it dosent matter if either of you do shag around while you date each other? ?? If it's the first one then you're simply cheating on him and would have been berrated by most people on here if you were a Guy. | |||
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"No I've not slept with him but i also haven't slept with anyone else so that isn't my point my point was to get advice on when if at all to mention this part of my life. and i wouldn't say anything to a guy for sleeping with a woman if they weren't in a committed relationship as technically there both still single " But if they are dating someone like yourself where do you draw the line as to when it becomes cheating by meeting others for sex? I think you need to find out what he wants from you, either just friends or relationship and then tell him straight about what you like doing and see what response you get and take it from there. | |||
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"Well one week on and we officially as of this evening became a couple so for now I've decided i won't be meeting anyone for swinging. if our relationship gets to that point i may mention it if looks like could be a good reaction other wise ill see how all goes x " well think thats lovely x x You get to know each other and trust and maybe love x And for alot of people one,, the right one is all thay need . xx | |||
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"Well one week on and we officially as of this evening became a couple so for now I've decided i won't be meeting anyone for swinging. if our relationship gets to that point i may mention it if looks like could be a good reaction other wise ill see how all goes x well think thats lovely x x You get to know each other and trust and maybe love x And for alot of people one,, the right one is all thay need . xx " awww good luck!! | |||
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"let him see your profile if you talk to him and he seems ok with it. otherwise, test the water first and if he doesnt seem interested then dont say no more. id love to find love with a partner who swings too.you can still have fun if the other is ill/not feeling well/menstruating etc etc. i would want to know about the meets though as if not i would consider it cheating. just talk, only way forward.xx " I was going to suggest something similar to this. At the very least, even if you don't show him your profile, I'd show him this site and say that when you were alone you'd brose or chat with people on here, see where it goes from there, you'll soon know from how he reacts if you will want to tell all and indeed whether he may want to take part. Good luck anyway | |||
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