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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will message a woman on here and they will read my message and dont message back im wondering what im doing wrong

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Many women on here get inundated with messages you have to remember. It's does say in the site F.A.Q no reply equates to a not interested etc. as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i understand what you mean thanks for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will message a woman on here and they will read my message and dont message back im wondering what im doing wrong "

Because they dont want to have sexual relations with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don’t think you are good enough. They have loads to choose from. Are you top of the game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You describe yourself as a young stud with a cute baby face. But you only display cock pictures.

They might not believe you.

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By *tormy_TrooperWoman
over a year ago

crewe

Depends what kind of messages you’re sending. I try and reply with a polite no thanks if I’m not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah true i understand thanks

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Because they want to save your time and you are not what they are looking for, so they don't see the point in letting you know that, it's not good for your ego and it's not going to change anything, they are looking for something different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they dont have too ?? there could be several reasons but it dont matter as its within the rule of fab

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No pics means i would delete without even looking at the message.Everyone can have a pic up,not cock,but torso ,bum etc.

Its a numbers game here op,does your profile make you stand out ?if not what do you think you can do to change that.Sell yourself .

Miss

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"No pics means i would delete without even looking at the message.Everyone can have a pic up,not cock,but torso ,bum etc.

Its a numbers game here op,does your profile make you stand out ?if not what do you think you can do to change that.Sell yourself .

Miss"

Was just about to say the same ,how can anyone have any interest in you if they have no idea what you look like (and I dont mean face picks)we would just pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The name screams immaturity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worrie mate it happens to everyone here i guess happen to me aswell even providing a face pictures all i get is the block button even tho i only sent one message

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Various reasons, too many maybe or too busy, although we reply to all even if it takes a while as only polite but think single females would have far too many to deal with so don’t take it to heart

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lots of reasons, eg.

1) boring message

2) lousy profile

3) no photos

4) they have lots of men to choose from and can choose quality

5) they are busy and don’t have time to reply

6) they are not busy but cant be bothered

Etc etc

Don’t take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will message a woman on here and they will read my message and dont message back im wondering what im doing wrong "

Because they aren't interested in you. Harsh, but those are the rules of the game here. It happens to everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one owes you a reply! Harsh but true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Took my pics down and thanks for your help mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand thanks for your help x

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By *aysolCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Lots of reasons, eg.

1) boring message

2) lousy profile

3) no photos

4) they have lots of men to choose from and can choose quality

5) they are busy and don’t have time to reply

6) they are not busy but cant be bothered

Etc etc

Don’t take it to heart.

"

Completly. I cannot understand why guys with no photos or anything still think they are going to get somewhere by sending a 'hi' message. Put some effort into it, even if you copy and paste!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I will message a woman on here and they will read my message and dont message back im wondering what im doing wrong "

You're being to needy, just because you don't get a reply it doesn't mean your doing something wrong it's just that they either don't like what you're selling or they've had a better offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.dont have too

2.some get too many replies

3.a simple no thanks can end up like playing tennis.. You get why no... I only want to chat etc..

4.cba

5.not inspiring enough

And many more..

I wouldn't get hung up about it.. Its fab.. Move on.

Good luck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite frankly I’m amazed how many forum threads there are like this! Nobody owes anybody a message, the ratios of men v women v fakes are crazy on here.

Even more so if no effort being made. And that applies to all

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By *ang1802Man
over a year ago

cheadle

Mate plenty more fish in the sea. It's their loss. Dont worry about it. I dont reply to all of mine and I'm a bloke. I've standards just like anyone else has. Although some are higher than others I guess, including yours. Be confident and assertive without being rude and arrogant

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

If you get emails at work, do you answer all of them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i understand thanks mate

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Whats the point in people messaging back if they are not interested its just a waste of everyone's time.

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