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4 years with no girls cos of anxiety

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone I hope someone reads this and can understand my situation.every time I talk to a pretty girl and she talks back and jokes and smiles I freeze up and break eye contact.Im sure I would have been with more gals but I feel I'm gonna end up alone cos I'm so distant.

I'm 32 irish well built tattoos big ones.my manhood is just over7" so it's not that.I wish I could meet a gal who accepts me for being me.

HOPE TO GET SOME GREAT REPLIES PEACE AND LOVE EVERYONE XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you work with any women or have women friends? Practice talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain fella. Im rubbish at talking to new people in general...if i go to a party i cant just go up to a random person and start talking to them just cant do it. Its different if they start the convo but i still run out of things to say pretty quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anxiety is a bitch! I totally understand what you mean. Struggled with it my whole life. Part of being on here is trying to push myself to be more confident and open up to meeting new people, even if just chatting in forums for now. Always good to break down those barriers. Hope it helps you too and gets you what you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same. If a guy looks at me or talks I clam up. People on here think I'm a time waster , I'm not I just panic and if I make arrangements to meet someone i normally cancel as my anxiety goes mad.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hi everyone I hope someone reads this and can understand my situation.every time I talk to a pretty girl and she talks back and jokes and smiles I freeze up and break eye contact.Im sure I would have been with more gals but I feel I'm gonna end up alone cos I'm so distant.

I'm 32 irish well built tattoos big ones.my manhood is just over7" so it's not that.I wish I could meet a gal who accepts me for being me.

HOPE TO GET SOME GREAT REPLIES PEACE AND LOVE EVERYONE XXX"

Interested why you brought your cock size into it as if it's a deal breaker for meeting women ?

You've got a lot of work to do before you get to that point and if you are at that point I doubt it matters to the majority of women

Good luck though

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hi everyone I hope someone reads this and can understand my situation.every time I talk to a pretty girl and she talks back and jokes and smiles I freeze up and break eye contact.Im sure I would have been with more gals but I feel I'm gonna end up alone cos I'm so distant.

I'm 32 irish well built tattoos big ones.my manhood is just over7" so it's not that.I wish I could meet a gal who accepts me for being me.

HOPE TO GET SOME GREAT REPLIES PEACE AND LOVE EVERYONE XXX"

Ps I don't mean it in a nasty way but make sure you're mentally tough enough to cope with multiple rejections on fab if you already suffer from anxiety

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Hi everyone I hope someone reads this and can understand my situation.every time I talk to a pretty girl and she talks back and jokes and smiles I freeze up and break eye contact.Im sure I would have been with more gals but I feel I'm gonna end up alone cos I'm so distant.

I'm 32 irish well built tattoos big ones.my manhood is just over7" so it's not that.I wish I could meet a gal who accepts me for being me.

HOPE TO GET SOME GREAT REPLIES PEACE AND LOVE EVERYONE XXX

Interested why you brought your cock size into it as if it's a deal breaker for meeting women ?

You've got a lot of work to do before you get to that point and if you are at that point I doubt it matters to the majority of women

Good luck though

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It doesn’t sound like he is saying his cock size was a deal breaker for meeting women.

He is saying his cock size is not the reason for his lack of confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone I hope someone reads this and can understand my situation.every time I talk to a pretty girl and she talks back and jokes and smiles I freeze up and break eye contact.Im sure I would have been with more gals but I feel I'm gonna end up alone cos I'm so distant.

I'm 32 irish well built tattoos big ones.my manhood is just over7" so it's not that.I wish I could meet a gal who accepts me for being me.

HOPE TO GET SOME GREAT REPLIES PEACE AND LOVE EVERYONE XXX

Ps I don't mean it in a nasty way but make sure you're mentally tough enough to cope with multiple rejections on fab if you already suffer from anxiety "

I agree with this.

This site can crush any man's confidence.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Are you hoping to meet someone to settle down with on here? Just because you mention meeting a firl, ending up alone etc... If so, I'd suggest you ask for some profile pointers.

Anxiety is shit, but there are things you can do to improve your chances.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Are you hoping to meet someone to settle down with on here? Just because you mention meeting a firl, ending up alone etc... If so, I'd suggest you ask for some profile pointers.

Anxiety is shit, but there are things you can do to improve your chances. "

Yeah I think we’d agree you may want to ask for some profile pointers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not being rude but id take the claim of having a big cock away as you pic shows different unless you have massive hands ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's just that he would let a man suck him off or even fuck a bloke if he can watch straight porn , another fab straight man

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By *hyandtwistedCouple
over a year ago

loughborough

not being funny but your current status ""shaved most of my pubic hair,i just wanna squirt a load down someones neck.id come in guys mouth if i can watch straight porn at same time.anal too" Just relax with who your are straight/bi just go with the the flow. relax you aren't getting any now what can be worse.

Be clear with yourself before you can with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much does a polar bear weigh?

Enough to break the ice!

Easypeasy

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