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By *agnar1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole

With being a single guy on here, is it better to mail, wink couples or ladies or do you just have to sit back and be patient? Still looking for my first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends as everyone you ask will have a different opinion and none wrong!

Personally I prefer winks, so I can check you out at my leisure and wink you back if I like what I see but most will delete all winks for being a waste of time/effort!!

Some men do fine not messaging by chatting in the forums and the ladies will message them whereas off the forums I doubt you'll get many first messages tbh.

So who knows? Find whatever works for you through trial and error...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Tbh i know exactly what I'm looking for. Due to recieving so many messages aday, I prefer the personal touch. Someone who talks to me with respect and fellow human being rather than a sex object and "any hole a goal" approach.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

My advice is to only message people who you think there could be connection and be friendly, non pushy and abit personal. Flirting helps too

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By *agnar1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole

Thank you for the advice, will try. Am looking for fwb rather than lots of sex with different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mail forget the wink button and if you sit back nothing will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admittedly it is really tough for a single guy to get started on here. The male to female ratio is crazy, so getting noticed can be tough. I attended some meetups/parties and met some cool people through that which helped grow a network. I was looking for the same thing as you, so didn't play with all these people but have made some good friends and also met fwb's. That's just me though.

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By *agnar1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole

Ok have sent a couple of messages to test water. Will keep you updated on how it goes.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


" I attended some meetups/parties and met some cool people through that which helped grow a network. I was looking for the same thing as you, so didn't play with all these people but have made some good friends "

This, 100%.

You get talking to people and through them get to meet others.

Networking works.

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