FabSwingers.com forum: Why did this happen?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So a bi female on here posted a meet now status. I glanced on her profile to show my interest and then she messaged me saying do I want to meet now so I tell her I can only accom blah blah blah long story short she said her bf was with her and would not join in if they came over. She asked for my number to vid chat as she didn't want to send pictures and I said I dont exchange numbers on here only o exchange kik. So she said she would re download it. Convo is flowing till then and then I add her on kik we chat abit then she vid calls says hi then drops the call. Me thinking it was the signal I leave it for awhile. I then come on fab and check my profile views and she's disappeared from the list, turned out she had blocked me straight after dropping the vid call. This is the second time something like this has happened why cant people be honest and say Im just not into you !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry to rant. It just knocks my already low confidence when something like this happens to me.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Well for a start, people are on average weird. And behind a computer screen they may not be who they appear.

But we also guarantee that literally everyone who has been on fab a while has been “rejected” in some way, sometimes politely, sometimes not.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

Did you actually see her on the video,are you sure it was a woman

Miss

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By *unny_linguisticsCouple
over a year ago

South Brum

"Hi op

Did you actually see her on the video,are you sure it was a woman

Miss"

Be my guess too

Single man maybe even got a female friend to say hello.

That would be the only reason why they rang off to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi op

Did you actually see her on the video,are you sure it was a woman

Miss"

Yeah I saw her live on cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a bi female on here posted a meet now status. I glanced on her profile to show my interest and then she messaged me saying do I want to meet now so I tell her I can only accom blah blah blah long story short she said her bf was with her and would not join in if they came over. She asked for my number to vid chat as she didn't want to send pictures and I said I dont exchange numbers on here only o exchange kik. So she said she would re download it. Convo is flowing till then and then I add her on kik we chat abit then she vid calls says hi then drops the call. Me thinking it was the signal I leave it for awhile. I then come on fab and check my profile views and she's disappeared from the list, turned out she had blocked me straight after dropping the vid call. This is the second time something like this has happened why cant people be honest and say Im just not into you !"
why would she not be into you you look rather nice

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

The world is full of arseholes, the more you meet the easier it is to spot them.

Think of Where's Wally once you see him, you can't miss him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I looked rough that day I even said so before we cammed. She seemed nice then she dropped the call and blocked me on here. There's so many maybes but im over it now. Thanks anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are cowardly. I’m really sorry they did this and I do understand how it hurts and shakes your confidence. It’s easy to know it’s them but it doesn’t stop you internalising it. Xx - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The world is full of arseholes, the more you meet the easier it is to spot them.

Think of Where's Wally once you see him, you can't miss him."

Hahaa yes unfortunately its true. Sad but true!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think sometimes people change their mind or get cold feet when push comes to shove. Sometimes also I think unbeknownst to you they maybe casting the net wide and chasing a few potentials at the same time with a veiw to pick the best offer. Which is all fine. The problem is a lot of people will not be adults and tell you straight how the ground lies. In stead they will block without explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had this also but different,way was chatting with a couple on fab lots of messages etc exchanged face pics then added as friends, all of a sudden we had a message they didn't like one of our pics that was in our friends only gallery and instantly blocked us

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By *ensualmassage1979Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I’m new here I have found there is a lot of weirdos out there I agree with all of you are you start chatting with people that asked for Face pics and then they disappear there are a lot of people collecting pictures I don’t know for what reason is but some have a thrill of messing people around

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