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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where is the best place to buy a collar? Looking for something discreet she can wear on nights out.

Thanks in advance

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

loads of on line sites have them. It depends largely on your budget

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Depends what you're looking for. A collar is a symbol of your bond and commitment much like a wedding ring. I've known everything from a simple necklace, a bracelet or an anklet.

You could be as simple as a cheap chain, a torque necklace or bangle (lockable or otherwise) if you're feing flush and she's so inclined, a Tiffany necklace with a lock on it is a poignant symbol but also super acceptable to the general public (and with some people brings serious bonus points for coming in that duck egg coloured box)

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"Depends what you're looking for. A collar is a symbol of your bond and commitment much like a wedding ring. I've known everything from a simple necklace, a bracelet or an anklet.

You could be as simple as a cheap chain, a torque necklace or bangle (lockable or otherwise) if you're feing flush and she's so inclined, a Tiffany necklace with a lock on it is a poignant symbol but also super acceptable to the general public (and with some people brings serious bonus points for coming in that duck egg coloured box)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen girls literally wearing dog collars. Pets At Home Styly!

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

I make collars and other symbols of ownership in leather and steampunk style brass at the upper end of the market.

Incidentally, I completely agree with the preceding poster who said collars are like wedding rings.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

a lot depends on what you want from the collar is it to be an overt symbol of ownership or a private symbol of togetherness and love ? as stated by others it can be a dog collar from the pet shop bold overt making a statment it could be a chain with a name it could be a chocker with a lock more discreet and private to you but giving a message in social situations that those in the know can understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

vicar of dibbly used to make hers out of fairy liquid bottles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning.

Difficult to find discrete collars. If you want a locking collar there is one on ebay. Search 'locking day collar, story of o'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pandora sells a beautiful lock necklace in Rose gold, Black and Silver

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I wore one made from a jubilee clip. It’s on my profile. It felt great to wear as you can feel it if that makes sense.

It’s all about personal choice. Yes collars for pets can be used and come in all colours and sizes. It’s about the sentiment behind it not how much it costs. A gift from your Dom is special.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wear a collar often but it doesn't symbolise ownership.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a lot depends on what you want from the collar is it to be an overt symbol of ownership or a private symbol of togetherness and love ? as stated by others it can be a dog collar from the pet shop bold overt making a statment it could be a chain with a name it could be a chocker with a lock more discreet and private to you but giving a message in social situations that those in the know can understand "
definitely looking for more of a descreet private symbol. Maybe I'll look further a field than the regular sites

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Got a lovely going out collar for My Girl at the Birmingham Bizzare Bazaar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really see how a collar could be discreet. Your best bet for discretion is an anklet or bracelet in my opinion.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I wear a collar often but it doesn't symbolise ownership. "

Can I ask what it does symbolise? #curious

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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...


"I wear a collar often but it doesn't symbolise ownership.

Can I ask what it does symbolise? #curious"

It doesn’t have to symbolise anything - does it? #curioustoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you Google discrete collar there are lots on Etsy. But unfortunately they are most shipped from the US so huge postage costs.

My collar is currently broken which is upsetting. It got broken during play with another couple. On the look out for a replacement

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"I dont really see how a collar could be discreet. Your best bet for discretion is an anklet or bracelet in my opinion."

I think they are using discrete to mean the collar will not scream of bdsm and submission. But it is to be visible when worn in public.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"I dont really see how a collar could be discreet. Your best bet for discretion is an anklet or bracelet in my opinion.

I think they are using discrete to mean the collar will not scream of bdsm and submission. But it is to be visible when worn in public."
correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is the best place to buy a collar? Looking for something discreet she can wear on nights out.

Thanks in advance"
moss bros

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have three collars plus my sub name tattooed under my breast. I have a story of O bracelet that is very discreet I never take off. And a very delicate black leather collar with a pearl hanging from it. The other is a full on thick leather collar which is not apt for daily wear lol Try Etsy, that's where Sir got mine from

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

If you like to shop in person rather than online, Honour in Waterloo have a good selection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like to shop in person rather than online, Honour in Waterloo have a good selection "
on the station?

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By *ittlemiss1985Woman
over a year ago

Lansing

I have heard of couples using necklaces that usually have some special meaning to them, or ankle braces like someone suggested, instead of collars when they go out.

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

When i was collared i wore a torque from Extreme Restraints.

Nillas never questioned it but i did get the occasional knowing smile from people in the lifestyle

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Some lovely ones on Etsy

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Try subspaceleathers, they've got tons and also do custom if you cant find what you want!

I got one from there a few months back and rate them highly!

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you like to shop in person rather than online, Honour in Waterloo have a good selection

on the station? "

Just round the corner, opposite Cubana Bar

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