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By *ounglad134 OP   Man
over a year ago

preston

Do any other lads struggle with getting replies from females?

Im not an ugly lad at all, not the best looking either so I always send face pics

Im verified too

What tips/advise would you give (especially females looking at males profiles) for ticking points?

Thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other lads struggle with getting replies from females?

Im not an ugly lad at all, not the best looking either so I always send face pics

Im verified too

What tips/advise would you give (especially females looking at males profiles) for ticking points?

Thank you in advance "

You have one public photo

Little info

Can't accommodate

There are lots of threads giving advice and all would be relevant to you.

Good luck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Do you mean in the chat rooms OP? Just be yourself and join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean in the chat rooms OP? Just be yourself and join in. "

Good point. I assumed perhaps wrongly you were looking for profile advice. Mrs is 100% correct.

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Ms not Mrs)

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We would pass,as your one public pick is of your cock and it has a big Bush

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By *edroom-BuddyMan
over a year ago

nelson

I am in a same situation been on the site from quite some time. 80% people do not even bother to reply.

The people who respond are like i am male meet me first you get to play with my wife's panties while i will suck you and than you will get a chance to see wifey

If its a single female profile there is no response if there is a response it will be like unfortunately you are not my type

I even tried “FUCK ME FOR A CHARITY” lol

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Your profile is limited, one cock pic, and you haven’t selected safe sex. Most women will avoid you given all of that. If it’s a fair representation of you then you are limiting your chances here.

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By *ouple4832Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Your profile is basically empty. If you don't put the effort in to making your profile unique and interesting, then you're just another dick pic thats going straight into the bin. Thats just how it works.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Read your status and then I couldn't be bothered to even look at the rest of the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok heres the best way to imagine fab ...there are 20 guys in a room with one female only one is going to get lucky to even talk to her let alone have fun with her ..there you have it that's fab for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other lads struggle with getting replies from females?

Im not an ugly lad at all, not the best looking either so I always send face pics

Im verified too

What tips/advise would you give (especially females looking at males profiles) for ticking points?

Thank you in advance "
let them come to you and your blank avatar thats my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are not attracted then they are not attracted. Most will do something with their profile to address this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you have no ego but you status update says "I don't not chase".

If your profile represents you then I'd leave it as it is.

KJ

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west


"Do any other lads struggle with getting replies from females?

Im not an ugly lad at all, not the best looking either so I always send face pics

Im verified too

What tips/advise would you give (especially females looking at males profiles) for ticking points?

Thank you in advance "

Being blunt op

Your profile is rubbish.

Think of a better user name as well, not sure why but your current one sounds a bit chavvy.

You’re trying to catch a carp in a pond full of tench using a egg whisk for bait at the moment, it’s not going to happen.

you’re welcome x

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

Can't offer the single girl view, but as a couple looking for guys for Char to play with, we'd bypass you straight away for the status update, the lack of profile pic and the single public pic being a dick pic.

Get some decent body/face shots, leave something to the imagination (really....almost no-one wants to see your dick until you're ready to put it in them) and try and come up with some conversation points in your profile.

Bry (and Charlotte)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't a test, or even a job interview OP.

If someone doesn't fancy you, it doesn't matter how many of their 'requirements' you meet, it's never gonna happen.

I find it strange how so many people have such difficulty grasping this - or maybe it's because when they join up, they assume that this is nothing more than a sex site and that people on here will pretty much shag anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're not doing anything wrong you're figure is amazing they just haven't spotted you yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you had the best profile on here 9/10 your message will be ignored anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying I don't chase? So you expect it all to fall in your lap? Read profiles carefully,message people,make your first message unique and personal to the recipient,put some nice pics on your profile,hide your face if it's an issue,get to socials,get to clubs. This is advice I have taken on board from all fellow fabbers and now I'm talking to a lovely couple and joined a club. You have to put the effort in to get the most from the site. Good luck.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

He has had some good advice,but has he changed his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has had some good advice,but has he changed his profile "

I know right?

Why ask if you don't take the advice on board?

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Been here a year. Sent hundreds of personally tailored msgs. Had 4 or 5 possible meets but only one caught my fancy and i had Ashes tickets and ended up cancelling like an asshole. It takes time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a year. Sent hundreds of personally tailored msgs. Had 4 or 5 possible meets but only one caught my fancy and i had Ashes tickets and ended up cancelling like an asshole. It takes time."

You been to a club? Great way to meet people.

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By *jloversCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Dick pic as profile pic instant turn off.

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