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By *elin44 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bromley

Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?

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By *reeman76Man
over a year ago

oldbury

Works for me lol x

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

No problem at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

Nope - just set out your guidelines before a meet & everyone should respect your wishes!

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derby and often London

Imagine you’ll not struggle for volunteers to be honest!!

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By *azswingerCouple
over a year ago

worthing

It should never be a problem, im always in control and they only do what i like, all about respecting each other then everyones happy!i love it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

No of course it would be not a problem I have done quite a few mmf meets and it’s great to spit roast the lady then swap around also I think you will enjoy the attention of two guys as they kiss you and touch you and slowly strip you and you will have all the fun of having two lovely cocks

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By *elliNevvaMan
over a year ago

London

Op -did that post manage to break your inbox yet?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No problem at all, as long as you state your boundaries and pick guys that are respectful of them. Arrange a social first to get a feel for them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No problem in my experience

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By *haverMan
over a year ago

bracknell

No problemo

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By *teve48ukMan
over a year ago

Ware

More than happy to help!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem at all just set your boundaries and say what you want, has always wrked for us

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

Nope, this is the way I do MFM, never had any complaints

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think it would be a problem, you must know what fab guys are like!

You never know, if the situation arises, you might feel so turned on you'll want them both to fuck you!

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

Folkestone

It might be worth while meeting with two prospective guys on their own, make sure that your comfortable and able to trust them. Its bad enough to be in a situation where one guy your with doesn't listen, but to be in a situation wheres there is two I imagine is a different kettle of fish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how bi they are. I would happily be involved in that but some would be against it. Yeah as people have stated above make it clear from the beginning that's the plan and it should be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say "Queue this side for most guys on here" I don't think you'll have any issues with offers . Hardest part will be choosing the lucky two

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"No problem at all, as long as you state your boundaries and pick guys that are respectful of them. Arrange a social first to get a feel for them. "

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

Not at all, that's how most of her MFMs have been. Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just guide me to the back of the queue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here. I think you may want to focus on getting one guy you trust, so he can keep an eye on the other guy for you. Little team to help each other with fantasies? As it can be quite a vulnerable position to put yourself in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem. I loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No problem. I loved it "

I mean..we all loved it

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"Not on here. I think you may want to focus on getting one guy you trust, so he can keep an eye on the other guy for you. Little team to help each other with fantasies? As it can be quite a vulnerable position to put yourself in. "

This... Thats been exactly my plan for when im ready for the MFM. Have always said I will have to have full trust in one of the guys before I could even consider it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, so much fun to be had in a mfm without it.

Have lots of fun. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on here. I think you may want to focus on getting one guy you trust, so he can keep an eye on the other guy for you. Little team to help each other with fantasies? As it can be quite a vulnerable position to put yourself in. "

This. Its a great scenario but you need to ensure your safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one..

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Not a problem at all your in charge!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

Im not a big Anal fan or DP either so I'm fine with the spit roast position, or the reverse cowgirl and a guy in front.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?

Im not a big Anal fan or DP either so I'm fine with the spit roast position, or the reverse cowgirl and a guy in front."

I actually enjoy the reverse cowgirl position better, it's harder to keep the cock in your mouth though with the bouncing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should never be a problem, im always in control and they only do what i like, all about respecting each other then everyones happy!i love it.."
this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

You’ll get the guys queuing up......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im joining the queue

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By *inn_the_humanMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's something I've done a few times now with my other half, and I'd say about half the time the scenario was as you've described.

I think other posters have hit the nail on the head-lots of communication with all parties beforehand and be frank about what you're after. If that's not what the guys are after then they'll tell you, but to be honest I can't see it being an issue. I think most guys appreciate that anal and dp aren't exactly "everyday" exploits.

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By *elin44 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bromley

Good advice

Thanks.

I need to start communicating better.

Strangly, although I am on fab I am rubbish at being assertive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

My friend and I have shared his missus on quite a few occasions and anal/DP was never involved. She just enjoyed us in her mouth and pussy at different times until we both finished inside her.

It think you should definitely have a list of do’s and don’t’s and let them know. Also, some guys might not even want to DP anyway unless they really don’t mind.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"Good advice

Thanks.

I need to start communicating better.

Strangly, although I am on fab I am rubbish at being assertive."

Unfortunately being on Fab doesn’t make you assertive. But it can be helpful in working out what you want, and many people (but not all) get negotiating and boundaries

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

Exactly what I am into.... Works for me every time ??

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By *elvetonMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Not at all!!

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Op -did that post manage to break your inbox yet?"

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

I'm sure 1000s will jump at the chance.

As with any sexual encounter consent is always a must. So if they want more just say no thanks and move on to the next one.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

It’s a question of limits. If that’s what your limits are, then you let the guys know and then they know what to expect. Anyone who gets annoyed or wants to change the terms mid way through is a dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

Its not a problem or a deal breaker in our opinion

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I've had loads of 3sums and only ever had DP once.

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

Never been a problem for me

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

It wouldn't be a problem at all OP

I've participated in several MMF where there has just been spitroast and swapping ends so the lady is kept at the center of attention and all have equal fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on here. I think you may want to focus on getting one guy you trust, so he can keep an eye on the other guy for you. Little team to help each other with fantasies? As it can be quite a vulnerable position to put yourself in. "

Definitely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

I’ve enjoyed MFM and have never asked for, or been invited to partake in anal, or DP. Neither are a pre-condition, necessary, or expected for a successful, or enjoyable MFM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem I've had some great mfm meets where it's all about the last. Good boundaries little alcohol and respect works fine. Mr

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.

Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"

As long as you set the ground rules like you have you should have no problem at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time and decision, don't let anyone pressure you into it but it's definitely not a deal breaker xx

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"No problem at all, as long as you state your boundaries and pick guys that are respectful of them. Arrange a social first to get a feel for them. "
Exactly this.

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By *utton SimonMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Why not invite guys that you have been with back, you know what they are like , they know you, message them, and invite them

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why not invite guys that you have been with back, you know what they are like , they know you, message them, and invite them "

The best advice on here as you are far more likely to have fun and you should be able to trust them.

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