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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i put a face pic in all my messages and send more than one line, but no one seems to reply, any pointers on where im going wrong peeps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i put a face pic in all my messages and send more than one line, but no one seems to reply, any pointers on where im going wrong peeps x "
You have no public pics, not verified and are Bi sexual, that put's a lot of women off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would suggest following:

- public pictures

-Deleting hi to anyone bothering to read this

- Deleting is it hard to reply with a no thanks??

I dont think some people realise the volume of messages couples and females get. Comments like this wont help.

Do those three things and see how you go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get yourself verified def. worries me if u"ve bn on site a while and havent

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I'd agree with some of the above - get the negativity out of your profile. However, don't let the fact you're bi (and honest about it!) worry you - some people don't mind playing with bi guys and some (like us) positively prefer it.

I'd also agree about getting some public pics in your profile. They don't have to be face shots but some nice torso / back / bum pics nude or semi clad would be good. Throw your audience a bone!!

Think about going to a club - Abfabs has a bi night on Mondays for example. You'd have the opportunity of meeting couples there and maybe even the chance to play. Just a thought.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you message a couple, you need to remember that both of them have to like you, ans I don't mean in a sexual way. Your message should be directed at both of them, because if you piss the guy off, you can forget about shagging his missus.

There are loads of things you can do to help yourself, but if you need to ask what they are, perhaps you're not ready for this.

It's not easy to pull on a swinging site, and you need the same life skills you need to pull in a pub for example.

Best of luck though

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Jack. You look good in blue dear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks

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