FabSwingers.com forum: Any chance for boring?

By *udematt OP Man
over a year ago

Tarporley

I know I have a boring personality, I cannot change this fact. I bet some of you are already half asleep just from this sentence!

Is there anything I can do to be more appealing to ladies either on fab or just in general?

Thanks for your time.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

What's the craziest thing you've ever done?

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By *udematt OP Man
over a year ago

Tarporley

"What's the craziest thing you've ever done?

KM"

Sat in the open door of a helicopter while it was flying, had a harness on though so not that crazy!

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By *ave DevineMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I know I have a boring personality, I cannot change this fact. I bet some of you are already half asleep just from this sentence!

Is there anything I can do to be more appealing to ladies either on fab or just in general?

Thanks for your time."

Talk to women anywhere, make conversation, not in a creepy way but a friendly polite way, the more you do it the more confident you will become and you never know your luck, ask about them, people love talking about themselves so be a good listener.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Put one of those kids windmill things stalk first down your japs eye and photograph it you sure won't be boring then!

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By *udematt OP Man
over a year ago

Tarporley

Cheers Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go on about being boring. Don't try to impress or be something you're not. Use your strengths rather than focusing on your weakness

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"What's the craziest thing you've ever done?

Sat in the open door of a helicopter while it was flying, had a harness on though so not that crazy!"

Still, not boring.

Give yourself credit

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Put one of those kids windmill things stalk first down your japs eye and photograph it you sure won't be boring then! "

They're only for kids?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Hobbies? Things that you're passionate about? Things you enjoy asking questions about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put one of those kids windmill things stalk first down your japs eye and photograph it you sure won't be boring then! "
the thick stalked kids windmill things omg

it would only work as a vid on a windy day

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By *udematt OP Man
over a year ago

Tarporley

Those are some great ideas, although the windmill suggestion I think is a bit too exciting for me hehe

I like talking about cricket and sailing mostly and the occasional muttering about men’s style (sartorial talks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe think of yourself as stable, consistent or safe rather than boring.

I bore people, but others find me interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had amazing sex for many months with a guy I met from here who was boring as f*ck to chat too.

But it wasn't his conversation I was after, so all good

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

blimey if sitting in the open door of a helicopter in flight is boring I must be reeeeaaaalllyyy boring.

I think most of us can be boring to others if we don't share interests or if we monopolise conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't consider myself boring, but the one time I was sat in a helicopter, I made damn sure the door was securely shut before we took off!!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I don't consider myself boring, but the one time I was sat in a helicopter, I made damn sure the door was securely shut before we took off!!"

There's a thread somewhere about riskiest places you've had sex.

I "may" have posted on it.

A helicopter "may" have been mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't change who you are into what you think people want you to be. Be yourself.

But as others have said, focus on your positives.

What some folk find interesting may bore the living shit out of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't consider myself boring, but the one time I was sat in a helicopter, I made damn sure the door was securely shut before we took off!!

There's a thread somewhere about riskiest places you've had sex.

I "may" have posted on it.

A helicopter "may" have been mentioned.

Respect

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

One person's boring is another person's really interesting.

Be you, don't try to be someone or something your not.

That way lies madness.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your pics are not recent. That would put me off a bit

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"What's the craziest thing you've ever done?

Sat in the open door of a helicopter while it was flying, had a harness on though so not that crazy!"

Cool, with or without Wagner playing at full volume?

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By *aughtyangelsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

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By *udematt OP Man
over a year ago

Tarporley

Cool, with or without Wagner playing at full volume?"

No wagner playing couldn't hear it even if it was

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By *udematt OP Man
over a year ago

Tarporley

"Your pics are not recent. That would put me off a bit"

I realise that I am in the process of getting some new ones done, I've just lost some weight so wanted to wait till it was more noticeable!

Thanks for the heads up though it is appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay.

You have been on this site 6years! 6years... you have had meets previously.

If you haven't figured out what you need to do by now, shut up shop and go set yourself up as a priest in a missionary...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You describe yourself as a 'fun guy' on your profile. You must have thought yourself as more than boring to describe yourself as 'fun' ?

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By *udematt OP Man
over a year ago

Tarporley

"You describe yourself as a 'fun guy' on your profile. You must have thought yourself as more than boring to describe yourself as 'fun' ?"

I think I am fun physically just not mentally well not for most at least. I always try to put my best foot forwards. I definitively wouldn't get any meets with putting I'm a boring guy on my profile.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

I think we are boring as a couple ,dont drink much ,dont go to clubs ,but we do enjoy our meets as a couple its the only time i make the effort and wear sexy underwear etc ,always too busy with work etc and not being spring chickens we get tired ,

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand

"Put one of those kids windmill things stalk first down your japs eye and photograph it you sure won't be boring then! "

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By *udematt OP Man
over a year ago

Tarporley

"Okay.

You have been on this site 6years! 6years... you have had meets previously.

If you haven't figured out what you need to do by now, shut up shop and go set yourself up as a priest in a missionary...

Do you know of any good missionaries I might go and get a brochure?

For the most part I think I have been very lucky with the meets I have had they have all been with lovely kind and fun people. I still don't know why they decided to meet me or have fun with me when so many others didn't. I'm not very good at reading these things, but I try to be considerate and kind to everyone I meet I don't always succeed!

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By *ycallMan
over a year ago

Dorking

"You describe yourself as a 'fun guy' on your profile. You must have thought yourself as more than boring to describe yourself as 'fun' ?

I think I am fun physically just not mentally well not for most at least. I always try to put my best foot forwards. I definitively wouldn't get any meets with putting I'm a boring guy on my profile. "

You might be surprised

It would stand out more especially if you made a joke out of how boring you are.

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