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Profile advice for men seeking woman / couples Part2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If your profile is shit and pictures are shit, your messages are most likely shit too...

What do most people do with bagged poo? They bin it, just like you messages and your profile!!

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Picture requirements guidelines minimum.

1. Decent fully clothed picture

2. Decent face picture

3. Decent torso with face naked

NO DICK PICK!

Keep that in private until requested

Profile text guidlines (think book summary approx 100 words)

1. Be personable

2. Be honest

3. Give a little insight to what you are looking for.

DON'T BE A DICK!!

Messages guideline.

1. Address people by their username and relationship status. If they are a couple address them as a couple.

2. Be polite and personable

3. Attract and entice the reader

DON'T BE A DICK!!

Out and about guidelines

1. Head to local social events

2. Head to clubs

3. Network with other swingers

DON'T BE A DICK!!!

Happy fabbing.

Mistress Amelia

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Very good advice, sadly people who are likely to be dicks either won't read it or they don't realise that they are being a dick, it just comes naturally to them.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Have to disagree with keeping dick pics private, I like good perv even if I have no intention of meeting... Mrs H.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say no dick pic then no meet. Couldn't careless about looks, our best guy meets have been with older guys everytime. Basically if we meet a guy they are just a breathing sex toy and then its good bye.

The best guys are fully understanding of this and get what fab is about.

Mrs xx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Have to say no dick pic then no meet.

"

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

That works I'm sure when meeting you but ultimately doing that makes no difference if there's no attraction.

Tbh I think every profile on here is different, there is no one size fits all. Read the profile jump through the hoops and if there interested they'll reply. If they don't, don't take it personally as it can take any little thing to be discounted.

One thing I would say don't change don't try to be something different. If you're alright it will show if you're a dick it will also show. Helping dickheads pretend not to be a dickhead helps no-one

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"If your profile is shit and pictures are shit, your messages are most likely shit too...

What do most people do with bagged poo? They bin it, just like you messages and your profile!!

--------------------------

Picture requirements guidelines minimum.

1. Decent fully clothed picture

2. Decent face picture

3. Decent torso with face naked

NO DICK PICK!

Keep that in private until requested

Profile text guidlines (think book summary approx 100 words)

1. Be personable

2. Be honest

3. Give a little insight to what you are looking for.

DON'T BE A DICK!!

Messages guideline.

1. Address people by their username and relationship status. If they are a couple address them as a couple.

2. Be polite and personable

3. Attract and entice the reader

DON'T BE A DICK!!

Out and about guidelines

1. Head to local social events

2. Head to clubs

3. Network with other swingers

DON'T BE A DICK!!!

Happy fabbing.

Mistress Amelia

"

My 2p's worth.

This is your prescription so is biased towards your preferences, theres no one size fits all profile.

If you give folk a formula they may adopt it and instead of being seen for their true selves they're trying to be someone else.

You say "don't be a Dick".. I call it natural selection ..those that get the site and how it works do it without the prescription, those that are "dicks" if they read and adopt it will be harder to spot.

Lastly if everyone adopted this prescription it'd be bland everyone being the same.

P.S.

Profile advice is apllicable to all genders and demographics. Its not just single guys who can use it.. and others ca be "dicks" as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is lovely to have an open ducussion surrounding profiles..

Having been on Fab for too many years, he majority, if not all of ones who ask,"look at my profile"," what am I doing wrong","nobody loves me" are male orientated.

Hence the reason for specifically targetting male profiles..

Having consistantly passed over advice to alot and read alot of the posts from others the same things re-occur.

Hence the pictures, text and go out and meet people.

The rest is purely to desist the "dicks" because we know that the female populous constantly get barraged with messages and unwanted, sometimes, abusive attention both in fab and in everyday life from the male privileged.

Like puppies, sometimes a little training can help do thry dont shit all over the floor!!

Those who don't buck up there ideas or fail to make the grade, well they are surplus to requirement and will be the outcasts of society never to pass on their genie pool and most likely die with a hollow shell of a wiener!!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Address people by their name(s), if provided, as it's preferable to usernames, surely?

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"It is lovely to have an open ducussion surrounding profiles..

Having been on Fab for too many years, he majority, if not all of ones who ask,"look at my profile"," what am I doing wrong","nobody loves me" are male orientated.

Hence the reason for specifically targetting male profiles..

Having consistantly passed over advice to alot and read alot of the posts from others the same things re-occur.

Hence the pictures, text and go out and meet people.

The rest is purely to desist the "dicks" because we know that the female populous constantly get barraged with messages and unwanted, sometimes, abusive attention both in fab and in everyday life from the male privileged.

Like puppies, sometimes a little training can help do thry dont shit all over the floor!!

Those who don't buck up there ideas or fail to make the grade, well they are surplus to requirement and will be the outcasts of society never to pass on their genie pool and most likely die with a hollow shell of a wiener!!!

"

Male privileged puppy training surplus to requirements.. seems from your "superior" tone its not advice its do as I say.. I prefer to treat folk as an equal(s).

Its their profile and their choice(s), as I said further up.. "natural selection"

I know the only abusive message I have received came from a single lady.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Google

The Firm

Dominatrix Toxaemia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Google

The Firm

Dominatrix Toxaemia

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your profile is shit and pictures are shit, your messages are most likely shit too...

What do most people do with bagged poo? They bin it, just like you messages and your profile!!

--------------------------

Picture requirements guidelines minimum.

1. Decent fully clothed picture

2. Decent face picture

3. Decent torso with face naked

NO DICK PICK!

Keep that in private until requested

Profile text guidlines (think book summary approx 100 words)

1. Be personable

2. Be honest

3. Give a little insight to what you are looking for.

DON'T BE A DICK!!

Messages guideline.

1. Address people by their username and relationship status. If they are a couple address them as a couple.

2. Be polite and personable

3. Attract and entice the reader

DON'T BE A DICK!!

Out and about guidelines

1. Head to local social events

2. Head to clubs

3. Network with other swingers

DON'T BE A DICK!!!

Happy fabbing.

Mistress Amelia

"

So so true. Lately we have tried giving men the benefit of the doubt on here. It was totally misplaced. We haven’t been contacted by a single one who wasn’t selfish with what they were looking for. Showed very little respect for us as a couple. Got to the stage now where we will only consider guys from couples who can play away with wives permission. They seem to be the only ones who understand how to talk to a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always hard for guys here as most cpls/ladies have had the “being a dick”guys message them so put off straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So so true. Lately we have tried giving men the benefit of the doubt on here. It was totally misplaced. We haven’t been contacted by a single one who wasn’t selfish with what they were looking for. Showed very little respect for us as a couple. Got to the stage now where we will only consider guys from couples who can play away with wives permission. They seem to be the only ones who understand how to talk to a couple. "

Have to agree in part, many single guys message (explicitly) to the female half, completely ignoring/oblivious of male half.

Not all though thank goodness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of advice on here for single guys like me,After rewriting my profile out after reading the advice my profile is still rubbish,Need to rewrite it again.

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