FabSwingers.com forum: Disappearing people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We’ve just had a new strange experience. Someone we were arranging to meet up with completely disappeared - not just them, but also all the messages from them in our inbox and all the messages we’d sent them in our sent messages. Are site supporters able to do this? Previously when this happened, messages were just marked ‘user no longer on the site’.

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By *abydollxxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham - Selly oak

Probably blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have left the site

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Some people are just so rude

They blocked you and possibly deleted account too

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

They've deleted their account. Messages are no longer saved they just disappear.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

When someone disappears that's it everything goes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, they've left the site op.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If their messages have been removed then they have not blocked you, they have left the site.

Around 18 months or so ago the site began to automatically delete emails from inbox's when the sender left the site.

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By *uts123Man
over a year ago

Nr Ipswich

"They may have left the site"

This

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

They’ve left the site and are most likely extremely rude folk

No, sorry, we can’t say they’re rude as some on here will get annoyed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all!

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

When someone closes account or more likely its closed for them, it all goes.....like they never existed

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By *ycallMan
over a year ago

Dorking

"We’ve just had a new strange experience. Someone we were arranging to meet up with completely disappeared - not just them, but also all the messages from them in our inbox and all the messages we’d sent them in our sent messages. Are site supporters able to do this? Previously when this happened, messages were just marked ‘user no longer on the site’. "

I have just checked your profile and I must say that they must have been bonkers to bail.

Would assume that they liked the thrill of the chase but when things got real they pooped their pants and nuked the account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry they are obviously not looknig to meet you put it down to experience and move on.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Waiting to hear people say “ they were allowed to change their minds”. It’s called messing people about where I come from.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

People abruptly close their account for a variety of reasons.

Heck they may have accidentally messaged a relative and shit a brick.

Maybe found an ex by accident.

Maybe some crazed axe wielding stalker and they fled fearing for their life.

No one knows why they deleted their account unless giving prior warning to doing so.

It's gone so move on don't give it a second thought. *poof* thought gone just like their account.

Suspended accounts remain on site just comes up with the person may be blocked yadada or suspended. Messages disappear when suspended, not when blocked.

Deleted profiles state user is no longer on site when you go to their page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would assume that they liked the thrill of the chase but when things got real they pooped their pants and nuked the account."

This made laugh ?? An excellent summing up of the fakers, bottle droppers and wanna be's.

Sadly OP there's a lot of them on this site. A fair few of the single ladies and couples accounts are often just a single male acting the persona so they can talk the talk for wanking material.

Once they have cum splashed their keyboard they then block you and sometimes as _ycall said nuke the account

There's a few things you can do to then out.

Always reverse image search to see if their pictures are genuine or stolen.

Secondly don't engage in dirty chat in messages as this is the wanking material they are after.

KJ x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Sounds like they left the site. This will automatically delete from your messages now. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf no one owes anyone anything on here. Put it down to a lucky escape as they sound like muppets

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

Be careful they don’t reappear u set a new guise

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