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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why when we go to a meet 14 out of 14 so far were the only ones there no one turns up why ??? were not that ugly we just seem to waste our time on here no genuine couples thats why we dont get a green tick as they dont turn up either ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why when we go to a meet 14 out of 14 so far were the only ones there no one turns up why ??? were not that ugly we just seem to waste our time on here no genuine couples thats why we dont get a green tick as they dont turn up either ???"

perhaps you need to look at the way you select people if you have so many that dont show........

The Scottish scene is pretty big.....plenty genuine people around....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 scheduled meets in 2 weeks,,,, perhaps its not building up a rapport with the couples you are trying to meet with... not actually doing your homework on them and agreeing to meet before you know if they actually exist....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why when we go to a meet 14 out of 14 so far were the only ones there no one turns up why ??? were not that ugly we just seem to waste our time on here no genuine couples thats why we dont get a green tick as they dont turn up either ???"

Your profile suggests otherwise.. Verified and according to it you have had a meet recently.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"14 scheduled meets in 2 weeks,,,, perhaps its not building up a rapport with the couples you are trying to meet with... not actually doing your homework on them and agreeing to meet before you know if they actually exist...."

What are u doing to check they exist...as you dont have pics on your profile you must be accepting every message that comes in without any effort on your part.

You get out of swinging what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why when we go to a meet 14 out of 14 so far were the only ones there no one turns up why ??? were not that ugly we just seem to waste our time on here no genuine couples thats why we dont get a green tick as they dont turn up either ???"

you've arranged 14 meets and nones turned up?

i havnt had that many no shows in 11 years ,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why when we go to a meet 14 out of 14 so far were the only ones there no one turns up why ??? were not that ugly we just seem to waste our time on here no genuine couples thats why we dont get a green tick as they dont turn up either ???"

I think you're looking for people who are in a very small minority on this site - people who will have bareback sex regardless of whether there is an attraction or not.

I would suggest that you need to relax your 'no pics' rule if, as you say, you're not that ugly. Good luck

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

We agree with most of the points above. Expand your profile considerably, and get some photos on there, and meet socially to make sure you're all compatible before sorting play meets out. We've not had anyone not turn up in a couple of dozen meets over the last two years. Bon chance!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"why when we go to a meet 14 out of 14 so far were the only ones there no one turns up why ??? were not that ugly we just seem to waste our time on here no genuine couples thats why we dont get a green tick as they dont turn up either ???"

So you have arranged a meet everyday since you joined? That would be pretty good going for a single fem, let alone couples!

Even asking for single males we would have a problem arranging 14 meets in a row on 14 consecutive days! Are you sure you are not talking to people and vaguely saying about a meet and they don’t intend it to happen, in other words are you reading the signs all wrong?

Also, most people on here won’t meet and shag regardless of looks, personality, cleanliness or any one of a number of other requirements! Seems you would have better luck hawking the lady round local bars and clubs. If you aren’t worried about anything but the sex, there are loads of blokes out there more than willing to dip their wick in any lady!

In my opinion and it is just my opinion, swingers are not “shag anything” merchants! They are more discerning than most. They for the most part don’t appear to be looking for a quick shag with just anyone, or the single guys on here wouldn’t need to post sob stories about how they can’t get meets!

Perhaps this is the wrong place for you as you seem to have fallen into the same trap that quite a few single guys seem to get into. Namely that this is a swingers site so everyone is up for anything! It just aint so!

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

So, you have been on 2 weeks had a meet in the First week!! What is there to complain about !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to look at your profile and think I would meet them? No pics and bareback?

There has to be an attraction for me to meet anyone and safe sex is a must and is also for most on here. This is a swingers site and not a knocking shop.

If a single guy had your profile he would never get a meet and your very lucky to have had one already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to look at your profile and think I would meet them? No pics and bareback?

There has to be an attraction for me to meet anyone and safe sex is a must and is also for most on here. This is a swingers site and not a knocking shop.

If a single guy had your profile he would never get a meet and your very lucky to have had one already.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

"Stop asking for pics to see if there is an attraction"

No thanx......

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We go to a club instead, it avoids these issues, and then if they don't turn up - hey your in the club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We go to a club instead, it avoids these issues, and then if they don't turn up - hey your in the club..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read your profile I agree with what has been said about pics as I def wouldn't meet without seeing pics, I know we here for sex but there has to be an attraction to both body and mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 meets in 14 days!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bit of a nosey sod i tend to look at feedback between people if someone is good enough to meet and leave feedback for you isnt it polite to leave something on theirs ?

The no pics and bareback may be a big issue for a lot of people not wanting to meet aswell, 2 weeks isnt very long to be here and then start a thread about not getting meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one likes a whinger will say your profile is like a shop window and yo need to sell yourself as much as possible what do you have to offer, what do you like etc. Be sociable think about the first message you send. Build rappour with people in chat and forums. And try social meets first so the pressure is off playing. Be lucky and happy swinging.

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