FabSwingers.com forum: Starting to swing

By *avingalook420 OP Couple
over a year ago

belfast

We're a good looking couple who are very new to the swinger scene. We had our first social last night but we're wondering how other couples have made the social - sex transition? Just looking some advice so we're not completely awkward lol

By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"We're a good looking couple who are very new to the swinger scene. We had our first social last night but we're wondering how other couples have made the social - sex transition? Just looking some advice so we're not completely awkward lol"

It all depends.

We tend to meet at parties, clubs and other events, which makes it easier.

For a couple-on-couple social it again depends on where the social is held.

If its in their house, then as Jayne is more tuned in to these sort of things, she will often swap seats to be next to either the male or female, and then just ask for a kiss...if they are keen then it rapidly moves on from there lol!

If its held in a neutral venue (like a pub etc), its more difficult, then you have to gauge how you think its going, and just ask if they want to move things on to somewhere a bit more private.

Of course, someone may have already pre-empted this by stating during your pre-social chat that the first social is a "no play" event, in which case both parties have a chance to go away, and decide if they want to continue, in this case if you get an invite for a second "social" then I'd say book a hotel room lol!