FabSwingers.com forum: A surprise for the Girlfriend

By *unandflirty88 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Hi all,

I’ve got a love girlfriend with an amazing sexy life, we’re very much in love and enjoy the kinkier side of sex.

We have both done 3soms with others before.

What my girlfriend wants is for me to organise her a surprise 3som with either a guy or girl. (She is Bi)

The first she wants to know about it is when she is tied up blindfolded in bed and feels a warm mouth on her..

What is the best way of going about this?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Post a meet on here

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By *unandflirty88 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Good thinking!

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

I'd say, get a couple's profile first.

Walk into a house, walk up to a restrained woman, touch her without her knowledge or knowing that you have consent.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What could possibly go wrong?

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"I'd say, get a couple's profile first."

This, or at least mention there's an OH in the single one.

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By *unandflirty88 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

She isn’t over fussed about having a profile, she just wants me to arrange it..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No person, especially a man will do this. Anyone who will is not somebody you want near your girlfriend.

Set up a couple's profile, chat with someone who will want to know they have consent if they've got any decency and do it as role-play.

It's a great fantasy but the reality isn't practical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I’ve got a love girlfriend with an amazing sexy life, we’re very much in love and enjoy the kinkier side of sex.

We have both done 3soms with others before.

What my girlfriend wants is for me to organise her a surprise 3som with either a guy or girl. (She is Bi)

The first she wants to know about it is when she is tied up blindfolded in bed and feels a warm mouth on her..

What is the best way of going about this?

Ta "
tie her up and blindfold her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No person, especially a man will do this. Anyone who will is not somebody you want near your girlfriend.

Set up a couple's profile, chat with someone who will want to know they have consent if they've got any decency and do it as role-play.

It's a great fantasy but the reality isn't practical"

Yea id do this, you could even social meet with a guy so he knows everything is good and then not tell her date you set it for at least then all party's would know there's no issue.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I think it would have to be a very brave or very stupid person that did this and I think it's very unlikely to happen.

I can see the attraction but unless the third person has spoken to your gf beforehand they are on very dodgy ground.

I have arranged a couple of meets that Debs hasn't known about before (one was based on the 'Debs Fantasy' story linked from our profile) but it needed a lot of trust from the guy that there actually was a woman involved and she had a safeword. For this reason we would have a hard job arranging Fuck'n'Go (another story). That will probably have to be arranged with someone that knows us in real life.

Actually that may be your way forward. To preserve her fantasy she doesn't have to know its someone already known to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I’ve got a love girlfriend with an amazing sexy life, we’re very much in love and enjoy the kinkier side of sex.

We have both done 3soms with others before.

What my girlfriend wants is for me to organise her a surprise 3som with either a guy or girl. (She is Bi)

The first she wants to know about it is when she is tied up blindfolded in bed and feels a warm mouth on her..

What is the best way of going about this?

Ta "

Because this is the easiest thing ever!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I’ve got a love girlfriend with an amazing sexy life, we’re very much in love and enjoy the kinkier side of sex.

We have both done 3soms with others before.

What my girlfriend wants is for me to organise her a surprise 3som with either a guy or girl. (She is Bi)

The first she wants to know about it is when she is tied up blindfolded in bed and feels a warm mouth on her..

What is the best way of going about this?

Because this is the easiest thing ever!!!"

We posted a meet with this same scenario a couple of months ago and would you believe we had absolutely no interest, not one message for this , no idea why ? & we removed filters

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Just take her to a club and she can have any combination she wants from one-on-ones to gangbangs. She'd probably appreciate the chance to try something different.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say, get a couple's profile first.

Walk into a house, walk up to a restrained woman, touch her without her knowledge or knowing that you have consent.....

That a handcuffs job and not the fluffy ones.

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By *unandflirty88 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Weird, you would think it should be straight forward enough..

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By *unandflirty88 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Not at all, it’s consensual with all parties.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not at all, it’s consensual with all parties. "

But can you see how anybody with any regard for safety and consent (their own and hers) would want to hear it from her? Agreeing with another man to be sexual with a restrained woman he says is his partner is too risky .

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

We posted a meet with this same scenario a couple of months ago and would you believe we had absolutely no interest, not one message for this , no idea why ? & we removed filters "

Because no sensible man would have sex with a restrained stranger he hasn't discussed the scenario with first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We posted a meet with this same scenario a couple of months ago and would you believe we had absolutely no interest, not one message for this , no idea why ? & we removed filters

Because no sensible man would have sex with a restrained stranger he hasn't discussed the scenario with first"

This would have been fully expanded via a prior meeting

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

This would have been fully expanded via a prior meeting "

That is different. In this case the OP says the first his partner will know about it is when she feels a warm mouth on hers as she is tied up and restrained.

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By *unandflirty88 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Who said I wouldn’t discuss it with them first?

We posted a meet with this same scenario a couple of months ago and would you believe we had absolutely no interest, not one message for this , no idea why ? & we removed filters

Because no sensible man would have sex with a restrained stranger he hasn't discussed the scenario with first"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would have been fully expanded via a prior meeting

That is different. In this case the OP says the first his partner will know about it is when she feels a warm mouth on hers as she is tied up and restrained. "

Right , I’m with you now

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By *unandflirty88 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

The first she will know about it in the sense of at that moment. Not, we haven’t discussed it and she doesn’t know what’s coming or going on..

You can chose to see it that way. It’s kinda obvious it’s not that way though..

This would have been fully expanded via a prior meeting

That is different. In this case the OP says the first his partner will know about it is when she feels a warm mouth on hers as she is tied up and restrained. "

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Who said I wouldn’t discuss it with them first"

No one. But you did say she wouldn't and that is what people are talking about.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We play almost entirely in clubs and there are a few guys there that I particularly like fuck. For one of my birthdays we stayed overnight in a hotel, and without me knowing B arranged for one of the guys to surprise me. We had a fantastic threesome that lasted hours. I was worn out but very happy and satisfied.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The first she will know about it in the sense of at that moment. Not, we haven’t discussed it and she doesn’t know what’s coming or going on..

You can chose to see it that way. It’s kinda obvious it’s not that way though..

This would have been fully expanded via a prior meeting

That is different. In this case the OP says the first his partner will know about it is when she feels a warm mouth on hers as she is tied up and restrained. "

Then you probably need to make this much more clear. There's no harm in having a couple's profile in that case and she would find it much easier to fulfil this fantasy of hers.

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