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By *izaandstu OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

Do any other couples find it hard to get meets with other couples or single females. We would love to have more meets with other bi female couples and bi female but we don't seem to get any interest?from couples or females it seems to only get guys who want to meet up. Has anyone any advice on why we can't sort meets with other couples or females. Any advice would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the same problem hun.cant get any response ?? must be in the profile advert we think ? Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try a couples and single ladies night at a club?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

There are 3 really good ways of getting more meets with the people you want to meet.

1/ Go to socials.

2/ Go to socials.

3/ Go.... I think you get the idea lol!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I suggest putting some pics of the male on your profile and a pic of you together

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By *izaandstu OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wigan


" We have the same problem hun.cant get any response ?? must be in the profile advert we think ? Hugs xx"
thanks hun at least we know other couples are finding it the same xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"There are 3 really good ways of getting more meets with the people you want to meet.

1/ Go to socials.

2/ Go to socials.

3/ Go.... I think you get the idea lol! "

Talk to yourself mate, they aint listening!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"There are 3 really good ways of getting more meets with the people you want to meet.

1/ Go to socials.

2/ Go to socials.

3/ Go.... I think you get the idea lol!

Talk to yourself mate, they aint listening! "

Yeah, looks like it dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suggest putting some pics of the male on your profile and a pic of you together"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends what your looking for. We'd meet up with you if you were a little closer.

It would help to see your other half in a few public pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're the same! We're looking for same room fun with bi fem couples, and/or a bi fem for fun and shenannigans! Everyone seems to think we just want "performers":/ we are well up for catering for all involveds needs as well as ours. Our lack of verifications dont help either

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By *H and HJCouple
over a year ago

Bangor


"I suggest putting some pics of the male on your profile and a pic of you together"

I agree-it’s what we look for.

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Come to the social event held by ourselves at club sx on the 27th

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We find clubs and socials are easier than getting a meet up of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to find that in clubs other than a casual hello no one really pays any interest. We still go as its opportunity to get naked in a public place. Everyone tends to know each other and stays within their own circles. Maybe it's just us.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We only meet couples where both are bi. And like to see pictures of everyone and do the same in return.

We gave up trying to meet single women lol.

Clubs have opened up a whole new experience for us.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"We tend to find that in clubs other than a casual hello no one really pays any interest. We still go as its opportunity to get naked in a public place. Everyone tends to know each other and stays within their own circles. Maybe it's just us."
have u tried club sx at blackpool

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Whether I play alone or with my fwb I'd want to see both people of the couple. There has to be attraction for either all 3 or 4 of who's involved so it not always easy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn’t hard to get meets in fab, just got to put effort into your profile and actually be pro active messaging people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend to find that in clubs other than a casual hello no one really pays any interest. We still go as its opportunity to get naked in a public place. Everyone tends to know each other and stays within their own circles. Maybe it's just us."

It’s not you, this happens in every swinging club, it’s just like going in a local pub, if you are not a regular or are not meeting anyone else there then people won’t talk to you unless you make the first move x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend to find that in clubs other than a casual hello no one really pays any interest. We still go as its opportunity to get naked in a public place. Everyone tends to know each other and stays within their own circles. Maybe it's just us. have u tried club sx at blackpool"

Not yet to be fair may be something for the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend to find that in clubs other than a casual hello no one really pays any interest. We still go as its opportunity to get naked in a public place. Everyone tends to know each other and stays within their own circles. Maybe it's just us.

It’s not you, this happens in every swinging club, it’s just like going in a local pub, if you are not a regular or are not meeting anyone else there then people won’t talk to you unless you make the first move x"

We do make a move, obviously not saying the right things or doing the right moves.

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

Even harder if the lady in your partnership is not bi find it difficult to find other couples that both are straight as for socials that don't have any in Lincolnshire

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I suggest putting some pics of the male on your profile and a pic of you together"

This,we like to see both people and wouldn't reply or message a profile with only the lady showing.

Miss

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I suggest putting some pics of the male on your profile and a pic of you together"

The lack of them does put a lot off.

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By *erdycouplCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We are new been on cam a couple of times we look for couples or females to explore bi side. Would love to chat and flirt with a girl verification first, surprising how many men get verified as couples lol x feel free to drop me a message I'm waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to find bi female couples to have find with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice female pics op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to find bi female couples to have find with "

This

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Absolutely have no problem

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By *averingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

romford

Yep. Were on the other side. Seeking a couple where female is not bi as our lady isn't... impossible

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By *hoenix Couple 666Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

We are new so haven't experienced this much yet, we have had 3 couples arrange a meet and then not turn up but we expect that so already decided we will only meet in clubs.

We have just registered at quest which is our local club so hopefully we will have a bit more joy there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Were on the other side. Seeking a couple where female is not bi as our lady isn't... impossible "

This is our problem too.. and the fact we are only fuck buddies doesnt help, we just want a same room swap, but its near impossible to find. People we chat to want a bi fem for fem on fem play or a guy using his wifes pics

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Yes we struggle!! I'm fully bi and tbh not interested in playing with couples with straight females (just our preference).

We find it difficult to meet couples it's usually people we meet at parties but did get lucky a few weeks back and met a lovely couple!! They're fast becoming friends too which is nice.

We find it difficult I think because C has gained some weight over years of medication. Also we're into BDSM but this isn't essential we can play vanilla if needs be!

There's no clubs in our county the closest clubs and regular party is 50 plus miles which means overnight stays!! We've yet to make it to a local social but will soon hipefully.

Just keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really isn’t hard to get meets in fab, just got to put effort into your profile and actually be pro active messaging people x"

Meets ain’t a problem - finding ones attracted to is harder

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We tend to find that in clubs other than a casual hello no one really pays any interest. We still go as its opportunity to get naked in a public place. Everyone tends to know each other and stays within their own circles. Maybe it's just us."

We found this at xtasia!! We were on holiday so miles from home and were really excited!! Barely anyone spoke to us apart from a couple of lovely couples. People turned their back on us when we tried to speak on some occasions. Was not a nice environment really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend to find that in clubs other than a casual hello no one really pays any interest. We still go as its opportunity to get naked in a public place. Everyone tends to know each other and stays within their own circles. Maybe it's just us.

We found this at xtasia!! We were on holiday so miles from home and were really excited!! Barely anyone spoke to us apart from a couple of lovely couples. People turned their back on us when we tried to speak on some occasions. Was not a nice environment really. "

Thought it was just us

Been and not really enjoyed it

Was a great foam party and everyone just stuck with own partners !!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We strugle to get couples to meet. We have no problem with just the "male half" availible.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We tend to find that in clubs other than a casual hello no one really pays any interest. We still go as its opportunity to get naked in a public place. Everyone tends to know each other and stays within their own circles. Maybe it's just us.

We found this at xtasia!! We were on holiday so miles from home and were really excited!! Barely anyone spoke to us apart from a couple of lovely couples. People turned their back on us when we tried to speak on some occasions. Was not a nice environment really.

Thought it was just us

Been and not really enjoyed it

Was a great foam party and everyone just stuck with own partners !! "

We went to the swingers night and no one spoke. The fetish night we did was cool but not really swapping, etc.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The advice is very similar to that which is given to all the single guys who ask the same question.

Read the profiles, send a decent opening message which shows you have read their profile. Make sure your profile is attractive and entices others, a good mix of photos of both of you plus a write up that shows what you want and what you can offer.

Simple really

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