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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it worth while in attending a club as a single guy to gain some experience maybe veris. Seems as no one wants to meet an un verified guy. My local club would be Atlantis in stoke. Would I get treated as a desperate as a single guy attending. Or will it be ok. Thanks in advance for any advise

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Is it worth while in attending a club as a single guy to gain some experience maybe veris. Seems as no one wants to meet an un verified guy. My local club would be Atlantis in stoke. Would I get treated as a desperate as a single guy attending. Or will it be ok. Thanks in advance for any advise"

Definitely good place to start, its how i learnt about swinging and i have met some great people at clubs/parties x

Just make sure you make an effort to chat to people and gey involved and you will enjoy it

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Is it worth while in attending a club as a single guy to gain some experience maybe veris. Seems as no one wants to meet an un verified guy. My local club would be Atlantis in stoke. Would I get treated as a desperate as a single guy attending. Or will it be ok. Thanks in advance for any advise"

You lucky man having Atlantis as your local club.

Firstly there is a social evening there next Tuesday, when you can go for free and check it out, discuss the club and meet some of the regulars and staff.

If you can't make the Social, then come along any Friday night. It is like a nightclub, that gets sexier as the night passes.

The club does not allow guys to wander about following people. Turn up looking smart, smile and chat to people. Don't expect sex

Plan to have a good laugh and make new friends and anything more is a bonus.

Don't forget to take ID.

All new people get a tour of the club, and rules of the club will be explained .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it worth while in attending a club as a single guy to gain some experience maybe veris. Seems as no one wants to meet an un verified guy. My local club would be Atlantis in stoke. Would I get treated as a desperate as a single guy attending. Or will it be ok. Thanks in advance for any advise

You lucky man having Atlantis as your local club.

Firstly there is a social evening there next Tuesday, when you can go for free and check it out, discuss the club and meet some of the regulars and staff.

If you can't make the Social, then come along any Friday night. It is like a nightclub, that gets sexier as the night passes.

The club does not allow guys to wander about following people. Turn up looking smart, smile and chat to people. Don't expect sex

Plan to have a good laugh and make new friends and anything more is a bonus.

Don't forget to take ID.

All new people get a tour of the club, and rules of the club will be explained . "
Thankyou _izzy. I'll try to get over on tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it worth while in attending a club as a single guy to gain some experience maybe veris. Seems as no one wants to meet an un verified guy. My local club would be Atlantis in stoke. Would I get treated as a desperate as a single guy attending. Or will it be ok. Thanks in advance for any advise"

Good question.

I've often wondered how much difference having a pukka veri on a profile might make.

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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago

Near the River

I would definitely recommend going to parties - it’s quicker and allows you more face to face intros. I don’t bother messaging females (except friends) as I usually miss the boat.....

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’ve visited a few clubs as a single guy. I’ve met some lovely people, had some great conversations and seen some very erotic sights. So, I would say it’s really worth going.

Atlantis is close to you - lucky guy. Very welcoming from the moment you step in the door. Lovely people. Go, enjoy!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I’ve visited a few clubs as a single guy. I’ve met some lovely people, had some great conversations and seen some very erotic sights. So, I would say it’s really worth going.

Atlantis is close to you - lucky guy. Very welcoming from the moment you step in the door. Lovely people. Go, enjoy!"

Well said SEB. When you coming back to see us ?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Is it worth while in attending a club as a single guy to gain some experience maybe veris. Seems as no one wants to meet an un verified guy. My local club would be Atlantis in stoke. Would I get treated as a desperate as a single guy attending. Or will it be ok. Thanks in advance for any advise

You lucky man having Atlantis as your local club.

Firstly there is a social evening there next Tuesday, when you can go for free and check it out, discuss the club and meet some of the regulars and staff.

If you can't make the Social, then come along any Friday night. It is like a nightclub, that gets sexier as the night passes.

The club does not allow guys to wander about following people. Turn up looking smart, smile and chat to people. Don't expect sex

Plan to have a good laugh and make new friends and anything more is a bonus.

Don't forget to take ID.

All new people get a tour of the club, and rules of the club will be explained . Thankyou _izzy. I'll try to get over on tuesday"
okey dokey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally worth doing. We will not consider a guy unless he’s an experienced swinger. Get yourself down there. But beware it’s still a slow process. Just because you are at a club, sex is not a guarantee.

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