FabSwingers.com forum: Catch 22

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I seem to be caught in an unspoken catch 22 of Fab.

I've been told by multiple people now that a lack of Verifications puts people off meeting, even if only for a social.

Yet, I cant get a verification without a meet?

I'm planning an appearance at a local club to try and rectify that, but does anyone have any other hints/tips?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha other posts have pushed me out of sight! Feedback please folks haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to clubs and socials are the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s easy to get a verification. Go to a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a visit booked in at my local club. Really looking forward to it, albeit a tad nervous

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Just because you get that veri doesn't mean you'll get more meets. Js

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just because you get that veri doesn't mean you'll get more meets. Js"

I'm not expecting to be inundated with meets just because I have a veri

, but since I've been told its putting people off, it cant hurt to get ome or two.

What would you suggest?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

A lot of people will just use that as an excuse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So are you saying I was politely fobbed off? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So are you saying I was politely fobbed off? Haha"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So are you saying I was politely fobbed off? Haha

Yes"

Haha ah well, a polite fobbing off is better than a rude one.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"So are you saying I was politely fobbed off? Haha"

It's possible, message them again once you've got your veri.

No need to be nervous when you go to the club.

You'll probably get a tour, told the rules and may get introduced to a couple of people.

Treat it as a night out, no expectations, don't be a dick.

You can always ask the club management to verify you.

Don't expect a couple of veris to open the door to clunge central, it probably won't.

But it could help.....

Enjoy your night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So are you saying I was politely fobbed off? Haha

It's possible, message them again once you've got your veri.

No need to be nervous when you go to the club.

You'll probably get a tour, told the rules and may get introduced to a couple of people.

Treat it as a night out, no expectations, don't be a dick.

You can always ask the club management to verify you.

Don't expect a couple of veris to open the door to clunge central, it probably won't.

But it could help.....

Enjoy your night."

Haha cheers pal.

Not expecting the flood gates to open as you say haha. Only here for a bit of fun. If it doesn't happen, it doesnt happen haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.

Signed a single and by no means alone.

What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums

The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.

Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.

Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.

Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on cam to get verified then do a social or a club x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"So are you saying I was politely fobbed off? Haha"

Fraid so but we could be wrong. Go back to them when you have a veri and see what excuse they come up with

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.

All the site verifies is that a guy profile sent in a guy pic, a couple profile sent in a couple pic etc.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.

Signed a single and by no means alone.

What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums

The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.

Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.

Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.

Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?

"The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me."

Really?

If you base your security on the say-so of an overworked picture mod who scans through dozens of pics, and will miss any but the most obvious of fakes, then crack on dude!

Photo veries are pretty much worthless, I could rip a pic of a good-looking couple of the 'net, and make it look like they are holding a piece of paper with our profile name on it, and I'm not that technically-minded.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your help everyone. I'll.lool at going on Cam, have a visit to a club booked, and then just rely on my charm to try and get a social or 2 haha.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Isn't there an organised social in your area you go to?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.

Signed a single and by no means alone.

What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums

The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.

Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.

Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.

Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?

I too have multiple cats. When you have a group of cats it's called a clowder.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I see you have a verification now. Congratulations

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.

Signed a single and by no means alone.

What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums

The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.

Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.

Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.

Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?

We should start a book club!

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

It is a conundrum...

I got my first veri recently and it hasn’t meant my messages are more likely to be replied to but it was absolutely amazing getting it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on cam to get verified then do a social or a club x"

He has a cam veri from 3 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I pointed that out to one person. Apparently that means nothing. "You could still be a time waster" was their response. No pleasing some people it seems haha

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Cam veris are useful for couples and females just to prove it's not a sad single guy pretending. For guys? Not so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cam veris are useful for couples and females just to prove it's not a sad single guy pretending. For guys? Not so much."

It's a minefield out there isnt it haha. More than 22 catches it seems

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.

Signed a single and by no means alone.

What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums

The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.

Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.

Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.

Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?

Yes i have

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