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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The struggle is genuinely real on this site! Have tried to show off the 'assets' have tried witty banter but its not off to a sweeping start... Points people?!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Seven days is nothing on Fab.

General profile advice.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/910950

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Maybe better joining as a couple with your wife/girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean presumptuous much aaand inaccurate. By thanks for your constructive feedback

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Too short and tells us nothing about you, what you bring to the party and why we should meet you.

High discretion needed is a warning sign. Yes it could mean many things but imagine that most like us will read that to mean you are married.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Maybe better joining as a couple with your wife/girlfriend."

I did think the same at first look.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Profile says to me, you'll fuck anything as long as there's a pulse. No personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All very useful, I did mash this out in a rush so pet me revisit and I'll see what you all think. Ta all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at me, I've only been here two weeks and i'm no oil painting but I took the plunge and messaged a couple last night and you know what they messaged back. All I did was read the profile a few times and and sent a nice well thought out message. We have been chatting all day and although nothing is set in stone I am enjoying the experience.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

FFS been here 1 week, profile says sweet FA, cannot accommodate and now moaning because the site hasn't been instashag for you!

Get a grip and reign in your expectations, if you are that desperate for sex, then make an appointment and pay for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious what you expected from a brief profile and a few very typical pics?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

For God's sake put your cock away!

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich


"For God's sake put your cock away!"

Totally agree all the pics have cock in puts me off to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great cock pics - i like to see what im getting when i look at a profile.

Go to a club, get verified and you'll be away

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so here's my spiced up profile. Tried to inject some of my character!

Also for whats meant to be a really welcoming community some of you are pretty unwelcoming for someone seeking advice...

London

Strictly NSA fun. Discretion needed due to the profession and also I highly enjoy keeping this life as my little secret.

Would ideally like to engage in at least an attempt at witty banter before it descends into a stream of dicks, cocks, pussys and fucks in conversation.

I do like to play a little rough so expect a gentle spank at the very least...

Looking to explore multiple fantasies so here's the hit list:

- Cuckold play with a hot couple

- An older ladies toyboy

- Slipping out from work at lunch for fun in the city...

Other than that beautiful single ladies and couples looking for group fun will never be turned away and already a regular Le Boudoir attendee...

Let me know if you're interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For God's sake put your cock away!"

Abit ironic considering your bits are out too

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Great cock pics - i like to see what im getting when i look at a profile.

Go to a club, get verified and you'll be away

Mrs "

Yeah, clubs are the way forward, you've several good options in the London area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for having my back guys

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Yep I having same problem tried various methods. Can be frustrating it's not as though I want to fuck the site just looking for some fun.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"For God's sake put your cock away!"

It's a nice cock tho

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"Thanks for having my back guys "

Give it time fella. Takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Simple advise. One dick pic is fine. But pop the others into friends or private and try to include a variety of pics that are interesting, maybe partially clothes giving us a hint of what's on offer.

You list what you are wanting . Try thinking of what you offer. People are not here to fulfil your wish list.

Go to a club. If you are a regular at a club like you say, then get some meet verifications. That will show you are genuine and do exist.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. You've only been on for 7 days!!!

What did you expect? Instant responses? Floods of women dropping at your feet?

It doesn't work that way!

You are up against 100's of other guys all seeking the same. You have to stand out amongst them.

Ditch the cock pics to Private until asked. Try to put up facial and body pics instead.

You don't say why you don't accommodate; that can put people off, so say why!

Get to Socials or Clubs in your area + get into the Forums. It's all about getting noticed.

It can take months to achieve success. Patience and Perseverance are key!

Good luck!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I mean presumptuous much aaand inaccurate. By thanks for your constructive feedback "

Oh I don't think so. The telltale signs are there for all to see. Just be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't try so hard and just be normal instead of making yourself out to be some kind of novelty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a regular at Le Boudoir why not ask someone there to verify you next time you go? That will help a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What were you expecting from this site, OP? Constant stream of women willing to drop their knickers in a flash at the sight of your 'tool'? It doesn't work that way, and as others have said, a week on Fab is nothing. There are way too many men and it's hard to show your personality on here.

I'd say stick to the club, as it seems to be working for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says one thing yet your pics another. Your pics suggest to me your all about your cock!! I’d be put off instantly.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

All cock photos equals no imagination

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