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"Been on here awhile and still had no luck with a meet... I've had meets outside of here nights out etc... but I feel as if maybe I'm wasting my time do I need to adjust my profile somehow or is it okay as it is? "I’d say it’s among the worse profiles I’ve ever seen, and that’s against some hefty competition. Spend a couple of hours reading the advice given in numerous threads of this nature, then seek out some of the profiles of both men and women who give that advice, and hang your head in shame. Or don’t do any of that. The fact that you think that your profile might be “okay as it is” suggests that you really haven’t got much of an idea what this site is about, so you might as well leave it as it is, and do everyone a favour. | |||
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"Been on here awhile and still had no luck with a meet... I've had meets outside of here nights out etc... but I feel as if maybe I'm wasting my time do I need to adjust my profile somehow or is it okay as it is?
I’d say it’s among the worse profiles I’ve ever seen, and that’s against some hefty competition. Spend a couple of hours reading the advice given in numerous threads of this nature, then seek out some of the profiles of both men and women who give that advice, and hang your head in shame.
Or don’t do any of that. The fact that you think that your profile might be “okay as it is” suggests that you really haven’t got much of an idea what this site is about, so you might as well leave it as it is, and do everyone a favour. "Going by your comments and looking at yours you clearly don't either!  | |||
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"Been on here awhile and still had no luck with a meet... I've had meets outside of here nights out etc... but I feel as if maybe I'm wasting my time do I need to adjust my profile somehow or is it okay as it is? "As it stands it dosn't really stand out in a positive way so you need to work out what you are looknig for. Currntly it looks like a barebackers profile and that may be affecting your chances. So a switch up with photos would be a start sot just close up groin shots as people in general want more than that so some arty style body shots would be better. Then a bio with more about you could well help 2-4 paragraphs about what you want what you like and about you if you are a relaxed guy and so on so people can get a feel for what you are like. Its all about appealing others to the point they are interested in contacting you. Above all avoid coming across as bitter or arsey or being negative to other males its not big or clever and puts people off. Good luck take peoples advice and I am sure things will improve. | |||
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"Looks good to us. Keep up the good work. ‘Safe sex’ listed on your profile and bareback pics....nice mixed messages. "Thanks I'm looking to take some more pics of me when I get home I do have some pics private as I am not sure if they would be acceptable to put on as it's just boring old me doing nothing spectacular lol. | |||
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"So some classy pics of maybe me in uniform or maybe casual wear would be a good start and go from there? " I would say anything other than bareback photos after looking but then its your choice at the end of the day. I would also take notice of old men trying to neg you out and suggesting you leave. Sadly bitter people exist on here and hate the competition. You just need to be yourself add a bit more and don't take fab too seriously.  | |||
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"Been on here awhile and still had no luck with a meet... I've had meets outside of here nights out etc... but I feel as if maybe I'm wasting my time do I need to adjust my profile somehow or is it okay as it is?
I’d say it’s among the worse profiles I’ve ever seen, and that’s against some hefty competition. Spend a couple of hours reading the advice given in numerous threads of this nature, then seek out some of the profiles of both men and women who give that advice, and hang your head in shame.
Or don’t do any of that. The fact that you think that your profile might be “okay as it is” suggests that you really haven’t got much of an idea what this site is about, so you might as well leave it as it is, and do everyone a favour. " | |||
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"Been on here awhile and still had no luck with a meet... I've had meets outside of here nights out etc... but I feel as if maybe I'm wasting my time do I need to adjust my profile somehow or is it okay as it is?
As it stands it dosn't really stand out in a positive way so you need to work out what you are looknig for.
Currntly it looks like a barebackers profile and that may be affecting your chances.
So a switch up with photos would be a start sot just close up groin shots as people in general want more than that so some arty style body shots would be better.
Then a bio with more about you could well help 2-4 paragraphs about what you want what you like and about you if you are a relaxed guy and so on so people can get a feel for what you are like.
Its all about appealing others to the point they are interested in contacting you. Above all avoid coming across as bitter or arsey or being negative to other males its not big or clever and puts people off.
Good luck take peoples advice and I am sure things will improve.
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"Decided it's in my best to leave this site too many that obviously dont want me on here so take care guys all the best" Thats sad! The fact some on here can be so unplesent someone feels they have to leave. | |||
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"Looks good to us. Keep up the good work. ‘Safe sex’ listed on your profile and bareback pics....nice mixed messages. "Do you do everything in your interest list at every meet? | |||
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"Looks good to us. Keep up the good work. ‘Safe sex’ listed on your profile and bareback pics....nice mixed messages.
Do you do everything in your interest list at every meet?"Doesn’t matter what WE do....the OP (now left) asked for advice on HIS profile....and we gave our opinion on his....that’s how the forums work | |||
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"Really sad that unplesent haters on here drive people off fab some people are just disgusting! " Completely unrelated but but wow, very hot | |||
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"What a shame another guy asking questions about his profile has been hounded out. Some people on here Real £$%£s! "Just to clarify, I didn’t ask the OP to leave, but suggested that he leave his profile as it is. A number of threads recently have concluded that too much advice can lead men to concoct profiles that don’t accurately reflect their intentions or personality. | |||
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"What a shame another guy asking questions about his profile has been hounded out. Some people on here Real £$%£s!
Just to clarify, I didn’t ask the OP to leave, but suggested that he leave his profile as it is. A number of threads recently have concluded that too much advice can lead men to concoct profiles that don’t accurately reflect their intentions or personality. "Just my preference m, but I agree. I’d rather see a profile written by the person behind it, than a profile written by committee to please the majority. This particularly applies to photos too, they should be chosen by the profile owner. They are often very insightful indeed! | |||
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"What a shame another guy asking questions about his profile has been hounded out. Some people on here Real £$%£s! "I have to agree some real nasty types on here who relish putting down people asking for advice. | |||
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"What a shame another guy asking questions about his profile has been hounded out. Some people on here Real £$%£s!
Just to clarify, I didn’t ask the OP to leave, but suggested that he leave his profile as it is. A number of threads recently have concluded that too much advice can lead men to concoct profiles that don’t accurately reflect their intentions or personality. " | |||
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"Well that was brutal!! "What do you expect some nasty people on here. | |||
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