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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can someone please look at my profile and tell me why I don’t get responses?

Be as brutal as you need to be

Thanks

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

5 penis photos and not alot of text is probably why

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

For me your age would put me off but then I’m old!!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"5 penis photos and not alot of text is probably why"

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

It’s absolutely fine. Your profile should be a true reflection of your personality, and this is yours. All the women who see it will now know all they need to about you. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What profile? There is virtually no information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s absolutely fine. Your profile should be a true reflection of your personality, and this is yours. All the women who see it will now know all they need to about you. Job done. "

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By *iguyandbbwCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Do u read profiles first b4 messaging and the send a unique message not some mass generic 1?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do u read profiles first b4 messaging and the send a unique message not some mass generic 1?"

Yes every message is unique just trying to start a convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair that is a nice dick you have there. However, no one needs to see So many pics of it. Seen one, seen them all.

Some pics of you in nice clothes would be good. Sexy but classy!

You say you accommodate but you don't say how or where. Your house? Hotel? Car? If a hotel, who do you expect to pay for it? If it's your home, do you live alone or house share?

I'm sure anyone going into your home for sex or a hotel, would prefer to know this beforehand to prevent timewasting.

You could write what you're offering women and not just what you're on here looking for.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

To many cock photos implies no imagination

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Generic text, too many cock shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More about you would help express yourself more make the text interesting and appealing. Women do actually read profiles and are put off by lazy people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the full body pic, but two almost the same? And one cock pick is enough.

You need to stand out in the text too. It's not really getting anyone's attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be they don’t fancy you.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If you want people to help fulfill you kinks it may be an idea to say what they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a quick change around is it better or worse

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Mate have you tried clubs or socials, that could be breaking point to get some convo start

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By *iguyandbbwCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Do u read profiles first b4 messaging and the send a unique message not some mass generic 1?

Yes every message is unique just trying to start a convo "

I can say if u had messaged us and read our profile ticked our boxes I.e not straight and used the subject box and a unique message, we would reply, we reply to all that follow what we ask even if it is a no ty,

I think your problem might be not you but other single guys, sum are arrogant and obnoxious and give a bad rep for others, so when u are polite a curtious it goes on deaf ears, I surgest u keep at it ull get meets or if u try clubs ull always meet people even if to make friends and move on from there

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I've had a quick change around is it better or worse"

You mean it was worse than it is now??

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I would never become someone's friend, just to see their face pic.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Its all cock shots and bland text its not very inspiring.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Age cock picture if you meet tv your bi .

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It’s absolutely fine. Your profile should be a true reflection of your personality, and this is yours. All the women who see it will now know all they need to about you. Job done. "

Yep, it’s perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He left the site

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"He left the site "
no , the op is still on the site

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"Can someone please look at my profile and tell me why I don’t get responses?

Be as brutal as you need to be

Thanks"

You have quite an attractive dick tbh! But the word help in your text puts me off straight away. I’m here for fun, not to teach

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm unsure who you message and how you message them - you've realised you're profile is important, as most people who get a message, check the senders profile.

All single men struggle for at least their first few months - it's standard. Expectations adjusting to this can make acceptance of low success rates easier.

Assuming you are targeting people who want your age and other attributes - at least you are focusing on the right people - many guys don't!

Others here prefer fewer cock pics but want to have a clear grasp of how you look. Can they do this and then decide if they fancy someone like you? Ensure that they can by giving the right mix of pics.

Interests? Let them clearly understand why you will be a good match. Thus they'll understand your tastes, your strengths etc.

If they get left unsure or with the wrong impression, they go to the next message in their list.

Sharpen it up, improve how it and your pics sell you and it's then much easier. Get to fab social events or clubs , or other ways to get to know people. Find friendly people here, so you're not left in isolation and uncertain. Message me to talk it through if you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the cock pics and do some better ones with more variety. And say a bit more about yourself. Go in the chatrooms regularly and make yourself known. Just enjoy being on Fab ... be positive and you never know what might happen.

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By *ugh JamptonMan
over a year ago

Witham

Advertising your Snapchat speaks of desperation, and also SC is a kids chat....

There are thousands of profiles of single men with a few cock and body shots and no face pics.... And same usual bland I want this and I want that profile blurb... You need to state what you can offer, not just what you want.

A meet, whether it be a woman/couple or anything else you are looking for, will want to see your face to see if they fancy you enough to fuck you....

Not having a face pic usually means you aren't single or are hiding from someone/something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked for advise 3 days ago and have not changed anything.

Pics, more information about you.

People aren't so keen on helping you or introducing you to things. Maybe try club's or socials.

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