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By *adet OP   Man
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I seem to get lots of views of my profile but not many messages

How can I improve my chances of being contacted?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I seem to get lots of views of my profile but not many messages

How can I improve my chances of being contacted?"

Probably better to get the occasional message from a genuine match than getting loads of messages from many that don't - that's how we see it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also message them first? Some people are shy so don't be afraid to take the initiative

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's said that advertisements that any of us think are stupid /rubbish etc may actually be some of the best, if they only appeal to the right target customers, leaving the rest of us cold.

If your profile effectively communicates to filter out the unmatched, whilst attracting the right people, it may be the same. Only you can know if it's communicating what you want and sells you well.

It's incredibly tough for all single men here, however attractive they or their profiles are - hence the volume of posts seeking help or complaining.

Read profile and site use advise and tips. Experiment with adjustments to your approach and ensure that your expectations are realistic too.

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By *adet OP   Man
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Thanks for the advice all

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Afraid you sound cheap to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you seem to have had plenty of meets tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could also message them first? Some people are shy so don't be afraid to take the initiative "

A perfect response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of threads like this....

Why not just message them?

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