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How to make a profile interesting?

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By *avid566 OP   Man
over a year ago

tidworth

Hey all,

I have not been on this site for every long.

I have sent messages out but with very little or no interest.

I am now thinking it's my profile and wanted to know how to improve it or make it more interesting.

Any comments or help welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all,

I have not been on this site for every long.

I have sent messages out but with very little or no interest.

I am now thinking it's my profile and wanted to know how to improve it or make it more interesting.

Any comments or help welcome."

Make it different than everyone elses.

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By *avid566 OP   Man
over a year ago

tidworth

Agreed but how?

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I'd trim it down a bit fella

And maybe don't call yourself 'Funky'

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By *avid566 OP   Man
over a year ago

tidworth

Ok thanks for the reply I will change the nickname.

What would you trim down on the profile?

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I'd probably take out the paragraph about wierd requests - save it for when your chatting. Also the bit about accommodating

You're also going to need a few more pics fella

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"Hey all,

I have not been on this site for every long.

I have sent messages out but with very little or no interest.

I am now thinking it's my profile and wanted to know how to improve it or make it more interesting.

Any comments or help welcome."

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By *avid566 OP   Man
over a year ago

tidworth

Ok that makes sense but i keep the part about accommodating so people know why i can not accommodate if that makes sense.

As for pictures i will add more but i like to keep this side of my life private but do sens them on request.

I appreciate the comments though thank you

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

OP, your profile needs to accurately reflect your personality, so only you will know of that's true or not.

However.....

It’s a really lazy profile. It feels like you wrote it in 10 minutes and either have a low critical faculty or just can’t be bothered. Either way, it’s not going to attract a discerning woman or couple.

“always up for a laugh” - is a meaningless statement and also suggests immaturity. Think of an alternative way to impart this.

“if you have any weird requests feel free to ask and I will try my best to accommodate that” is both belittling of people’s kinks and also a bit desperate. Are you really happy to do things out of your experience or comfort zone just to get laid?

“If you have any other questions feel free to message and I will answer them.” More laziness. Your profile should give out as much info as anyone needs to make an informed decision, but also a somewhat pointless statement.

Your grammar is really sloppy and full of superfluous information or statements.

Bring your ‘A’ game to fab or flounder in anonymity.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

The above is all precise I'm afraid

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By *avid566 OP   Man
over a year ago

tidworth

Ok thank you all I will have a look at changing it but again thank you for your comments much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, your profile needs to accurately reflect your personality, so only you will know of that's true or not.

However.....

It’s a really lazy profile. It feels like you wrote it in 10 minutes and either have a low critical faculty or just can’t be bothered. Either way, it’s not going to attract a discerning woman or couple.

“always up for a laugh” - is a meaningless statement and also suggests immaturity. Think of an alternative way to impart this.

“if you have any weird requests feel free to ask and I will try my best to accommodate that” is both belittling of people’s kinks and also a bit desperate. Are you really happy to do things out of your experience or comfort zone just to get laid?

“If you have any other questions feel free to message and I will answer them.” More laziness. Your profile should give out as much info as anyone needs to make an informed decision, but also a somewhat pointless statement.

Your grammar is really sloppy and full of superfluous information or statements.

Bring your ‘A’ game to fab or flounder in anonymity.

"

Low critical faculty.. ooh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed but how? "

By putting a bit of yourself in it.

I love poetry, art, history.. theres a bit of that reflected in mine.. for example.

Are you a funny guy? Thoughtful? Caring? Hard? Like cars? landscapes? music?

Every man on here has a cock to throw around.. sell yourself enough that the cock isn't important anymore.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ok thank you all I will have a look at changing it but again thank you for your comments much appreciated "

More photos and explain why you won't accommodate may help.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

More photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step 1: Choose a username that involves the words "Big, Dom, Strong" and so on, followed by a random series of X and a L.

Step 2: Have almost 100 pictures of a large erect penis. Any would do, even pics found on internet.

Step 3:???

Step 4: Profit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all,

I have not been on this site for every long.

I have sent messages out but with very little or no interest.

I am now thinking it's my profile and wanted to know how to improve it or make it more interesting.

Any comments or help welcome."

There is no hope even if your profile is fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all,

I have not been on this site for every long.

I have sent messages out but with very little or no interest.

I am now thinking it's my profile and wanted to know how to improve it or make it more interesting.

Any comments or help welcome.

There is no hope even if your profile is fantastic. "

Not strictly true. Those that work hard get results. We will always talk to those who put effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, your profile needs to accurately reflect your personality, so only you will know of that's true or not.

However.....

It’s a really lazy profile. It feels like you wrote it in 10 minutes and either have a low critical faculty or just can’t be bothered. Either way, it’s not going to attract a discerning woman or couple.

“always up for a laugh” - is a meaningless statement and also suggests immaturity. Think of an alternative way to impart this.

“if you have any weird requests feel free to ask and I will try my best to accommodate that” is both belittling of people’s kinks and also a bit desperate. Are you really happy to do things out of your experience or comfort zone just to get laid?

“If you have any other questions feel free to message and I will answer them.” More laziness. Your profile should give out as much info as anyone needs to make an informed decision, but also a somewhat pointless statement.

Your grammar is really sloppy and full of superfluous information or statements.

Bring your ‘A’ game to fab or flounder in anonymity.

"

Listen to this guy. My profile is still a work in progress but was an absolute shambles before this guy was kind enough to message me. P.S patience is key,it's not going to happen overnight,it might take months to meet the right woman/couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all,

I have not been on this site for every long.

I have sent messages out but with very little or no interest.

I am now thinking it's my profile and wanted to know how to improve it or make it more interesting.

Any comments or help welcome."
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